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- Yini engakashintshi
- 1. Kusafanele nihlale nithembekile komunye nomunye
- 2. Kufanele ukhulise futhi ulungiselele ingane yakho, hhayi ukuyivikela
- 3. Umsebenzi wakho ukufundisa okulungile nokungalungile
- Imisebenzi yomshado yomndeni wanamuhla
- 1. Izabelomali ezihlukile zakhe, zakhe, nomndeni
- 2. Thola isikhathi sodwa ndawonye
- 3. Fezekisani amaphupho omunye nomunye ngokocansi
- 4. Yenzani imisebenzi yasekhaya ndawonye
- Umshado umayelana nokwabelana ngempilo yakho nayo yonke imithwalo yemfanelo
Kwakukhona isikhathi lapho kwakukhona umugqa ocacile phakathi kwemithwalo yemfanelo yemishado yezithandani. Umyeni uletha ubhekeni ekhaya, unkosikazi uyaliphuza, alipheke, ahlele itafula, ahlanze itafula, ahlanze izitsha, njll. ... Zonke izinsuku ezimbi kubandakanya izimpelasonto namaholide ngenkathi umyeni ebuka ibhola.
Kulungile, leso yisibonelo nje, kepha uthola umbono.
Namuhla, okulindelwe kuphakeme kuzo zombili izinhlangothi. Ifanele ukukhuthaza umuzwa ongcono wokusondelana nokubambisana emndenini. Silindele ukuthi ikhulule umthwalo wendabuko obekwe emindenini.
Kodwa ingabe yilokho okwenzekayo ngempela?
Mhlawumbe noma mhlawumbe cha. Kepha uma uhlala (noma ufuna ukuhlala) esimeni somndeni sanamuhla, nazi izeluleko zomsebenzi womshado ukuze usebenze.
Yini engakashintshi
Kunezinto eziningi eziguqule amandla omndeni emhlabeni wanamuhla osedolobheni. Kepha kukhona izinto ezingakakwenzi. Sizoxoxa ngalokho kuqala.
1. Kusafanele nihlale nithembekile komunye nomunye
Ngoba wena nomlingani wakho nimatasa kakhulu ukuthi nikwazi ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye ngenxa yemisebenzi yenu enzima, leso akusona isizathu sokubakhohlisa.
2. Kufanele ukhulise futhi ulungiselele ingane yakho, hhayi ukuyivikela
Awubavikeli, ngoba awukwazi.
Akunakwenzeka ukwazi ukuthi ingane yakho yenzani, ikuphi, ikanye nobani, esikhathini esingu-24/7/365 impilo yabo yonke.
Kuthiwani uma ufile? Uma ungeke ukwazi ukubavikela ngo-100% wesikhathi onabo, khona-ke kukhona okubi okungase kwenzeke uma ungekho. Ukuphela kwendlela yokwenza lokho ukuthi ubafundise ukuthi bazivikele.
3. Umsebenzi wakho ukufundisa okulungile nokungalungile
Baqeqeshe ukuba bazihlanze ngemuva kwabo, noma bagweme ukumosheka kwasekuqaleni. Yindlela kuphela lapho ungaba khona (okungenani emoyeni) ukuze ubavikele ingunaphakade.
Imisebenzi yomshado yomndeni wanamuhla
Kucatshangelwa ukuthi abazali abangabodwa, ngisho nalabo abasashadile kodwa abahlukanisiwe abadingi ukufeza imisebenzi yabo yomshado.
Kepha kubo bonke abanye abantu abashadile futhi baqonde "Okungakashintshi." isigaba, nazi ezinye izeluleko zokuthola inguqulo yakho yesimanje yomshado esebenza njengomshini ogcotshwe kahle.
1. Izabelomali ezihlukile zakhe, zakhe, nomndeni
NjengeCongress, ukwenza isabelomali nokubala ukuthi sifuna ukuzikhokhela malini ibhizinisi elikhohlisayo.
Okokuqala, kwenze njalo ngenyanga noma masonto onke kuye ngokuthi uzihlola kaningi kangakanani ezezimali zakho. Isibonelo, osomabhizinisi bakwenza njalo ngenyanga futhi abantu abaningi abaqashiwe bakhokhelwa masonto onke. Izinto ziyashintsha, ngakho-ke kufanele kuxoxwe ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Uma konke kuzinzile, ingxoxo yesabelomali kufanele ithathe kuphela imizuzu eyishumi. Noma ngubani angabeka imizuzu eyishumi ngesonto ukukhuluma nowakwakhe, akunjalo?
Nakhu ukuhleleka kwalokho okudingeka kwenzeke -
- Hlanganisa umholo wakho ongalahlwa (Isabelomali somndeni)
- Khipha isibonelelo somsebenzi (Izindleko Zokuhamba, Ukudla, njll)
- Susa izindleko zasendlini (Izinsiza, Umshuwalense, Ukudla, njll)
- Shiya inani elibalulekile (okungenani ama-50%) njengokulondolozwa
- Hlukanisa okusele ukuze ube nokuNethezeka komuntu siqu (Ubhiya, isabelomali seSalon njll)
Ngale ndlela akekho umbhangqwana ongakhononda uma othile uthenga iGalofu elibizayo noma isikhwama seLouis Vuitton. Akukhathalekile ukuthi ngubani ohola imali ethe xaxa, inqobo nje uma okunethezeka komuntu siqu kuhlukaniswe ngemvume ngaphambi kokuthi kusetshenziswe.
Isibonelelo somsebenzi sibaluleke kakhulu kunezinsizakusebenza ngoba ungaphila ngaphandle kukagesi ekhaya, kepha uma ungakwazi ukukhokhela umgwaqo ongaphansi komhlaba ukuya emsebenzini uzobhuqwa.
2. Thola isikhathi sodwa ndawonye
Ukuthi abantu kufanele bazinze lapho beshada, lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele bayeke ukuthandana. Ungalokothi uvumele kudlule inyanga yonke ngaphandle kokubuka i-movie ndawonye (ngisho nasekhaya) nawe kanye noshade naye.
Thola umuntu ogcina ingane noma ushiye izingane ezihlotsheni uma udinga ukuphuma endlini. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuchitha ngisho amahora ambalwa nje kude nayo yonke into kuzokwenza izimangaliso empilweni yakho yengqondo futhi kuthuthukise ubuhlobo bakho.
3. Fezekisani amaphupho omunye nomunye ngokocansi
Imibhangqwana ebithandane isikhathi eside kungenzeka ikwenzile lokhu, kepha akufanele uyeke ukukwenza ngemuva kokushada. Gcina umzimba wakho usesimweni esifanele ngokuzivocavoca nokudla ngendlela efanele.
Inqobo nje uma amaphupho ezocansi engabandakanyi omunye umuntu, njengama-threesomes namaqembu ezigelekeqe, bese uyakwenza. Ukulingisa ngokugqoka uma kufanele, kepha ungakhohlwa ukulungiselela igama eliphephile.
Ukuya ocansini nomuntu ofanayo iminyaka kungadamba futhi kube yisicefe.
Ekugcineni, iyozizwa ifana "nomsebenzi womsebenzi" kunokuthile okujabulisayo. Kwakha imifantu ebudlelwaneni futhi kungaholela ekungathembekini. Njengoba uzibophezele kumuntu oyedwa, yenza okusemandleni akho ukukunonga. Ngaphandle kwalokho, izinketho zakho ukuthola ukuzijabulisa ngempilo yakho yezocansi noma ekugcineni uhlukane.
4. Yenzani imisebenzi yasekhaya ndawonye
Imindeni yanamuhla inemifudlana eminingi yemali evela kubo bobabili abalingani.
Lokhu kulandela ukuthi imisebenzi yasendlini yabiwa ngendlela efanayo. Kungcono ukuzenza zonke ndawonye, kumnandi kakhulu futhi kujulise ubudlelwane. Hlanzani ndawonye, nipheke ndawonye, bese nigeza izitsha ndawonye. Bandakanya izingane ngokushesha lapho zikwazi ukukwenza ngokomzimba.
Kuyaqondakala ukuthi izingane eziningi zingakhala futhi zikhononde ngokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Bachazele ukuthi bazobe bekwenza konke ukuphila kwabo njengoba kufanele ukwenze manje. Ukufunda ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani kusenesikhathi nangendlela efanele kuzobanikeza isikhathi esithe xaxa lapho bephuma khona.
Ngaleyo ndlela ngeke basebenzise izimpelasonto zabo zasekolishi bezama ukuthola indlela yoku-ayina izingubo zabo.
Umshado umayelana nokwabelana ngempilo yakho nayo yonke imithwalo yemfanelo
Yilokho kuphela. Akukuningi, futhi akulona ngisho nohlu oluyinkimbinkimbi. Umshado umayelana nokwabelana ngempilo yakho, futhi akusona isitatimende sokuqhathanisa. Awukwazi ukwabelana ngenhliziyo yakho, nomzimba wakho, (ngaphandle mhlawumbe izinso zakho) nomphefumulo kothile.
Kepha ungabelana ngemali yakho oyisebenzele kanzima nesikhathi esilinganiselwe nabo ukwakha ikusasa elithembisayo ngomlando okhumbulekayo.
Imisebenzi yomshado isho ukuthi uhlangane nomuntu ozimisele ukukusiza ngazo zonke izici zempilo yakho. Bazokwenza ngoba bayakuthanda futhi bayakukhathalela. Kepha ingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu ayikulindeli ukuthi lokho kwenzeke, kepha ukwenzela umuntu okhethe ukumthanda nokumkhathalela.