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Kunezikhathi nokwehla kuyo yonke imishado. Noma ngabe yizinyathelo zokuqala zengane yakho, noma umzuzu obona ngawo ungatshela umlingani wakho zonke izimfihlo zakho futhi uhlale uthola ukusekelwa kwakho, ezinye izingxenye zomshado zinhle kakhulu futhi ziyigugu ngamagama.
Ngokwesinye isandla, bonke ubuhlobo bungakhubeka kwezinye izinkinga, okuyinto ongayilindela nokuthile impilo ekusebenzela ekugcineni.
Izinkinga ezithile kanye nezehlakalo ezicindezelayo azikwazi ukuthonywa ngempela. Noma yini ekungaphumeleli emsebenzini kuya ekulahlekelweni yingane kungadala ubuhlungu nokudabuka, okungaholela ekuhlukanisweni nomlingani wakho.
Ukuzizwa uhlukanisiwe nomuntu osondele kakhulu kuwe kungaholela ekubeni nesizungu, ukuzethemba okuphansi ngisho nezinkinga ezithile zempilo yengqondo.
Ukuzihlukanisa nomphakathi kungathinta umshado wakho nobuhlobo bakho nabantu obathandayo. Ukuhlanganiswa komshado nokuhlukaniswa komphakathi kuyindlela yenhlekelele.
Nazi ezinye izimbangela zokuzihlukanisa emphakathini emshadweni, imiphumela yawo emshadweni, kanye nezinye iziphakamiso zokwenza izinto kangcono.
Ukuba matasa kozakwethu
Lapho uthatha isinqumo sokushada, ukwenzela ukuthi ungabi wedwa noma ube nesizungu. Uthembisa umlingani wakho ukuthi uzoba khona ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi bakuthembisa okufanayo.
Kodwa-ke, ngokushesha nje lapho izivakashi zomshado zihamba, iqiniso liyangena. Iqiniso ngukuthi ngamunye wenu unezibopho nemisebenzi yakhe, ikakhulukazi uma nobabili nisebenza.
Akumangazi-ke ukuthi lowo, noma bobabili abalingani baqala ukuzizwa benesizungu futhi behlukanisiwe ebudlelwaneni.
Omunye wenu angazizwa sengathi omunye uyabakhipha empilweni yabo, okungelona iqiniso ngokuphelele.
Umane ukhishwe engxenyeni yempilo yabo engokomsebenzi wabo. Futhi kusukela kaningi kunzima ngomuntu ukuvuma ukuthi uzizwa ehlukanisiwe, kungabonwa ngumlingani wabo.
Ukwehluleka kwemibhangqwana ukuxhumana imizwa yabo iyimbangela enkulu yokuzihlukanisa emphakathini emshadweni.
Noma bebona ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle, bangase bangakwazi ukukhomba ukuthi kuyini ngempela. Eziningi zalezi zinkinga zingagwemeka ngezingxoxo ezivamile nezethembekile.
Uma ubona ukuthi kunokuthile okuhlupha umlingani wakho, yiya kubo ubuze ukuthi yini, kepha ngaphandle kokwahlulela nokusolwa ngezwi lakho.
Mhlawumbe uma ubatshela ngosuku lwakho emsebenzini nangezimo ozithola ukuzo, futhi uma ubacela izeluleko zokubhekana nalezo zimo, izinto zingangcono futhi bangazizwa behlanganisiwe futhi bengenasizungu futhi behlukanisiwe.
Ukungabi nokuqonda
Kunezigidi zezizathu zokuthi umuntu azizwe sengathi umlingani wakhe akazwisisi. Kwezinye izimo, lokhu kuyiqiniso, kepha kokunye, yimizwa yomuntu uqobo nokwesaba kwakhe okudala ukuhlukaniswa.
Esinye sezizathu kungenzeka ukuthi omunye wenu udlule kokuhlangenwe nakho okuthile kokushintsha impilo.
Isibonelo, uma omunye wabalingani ehlangabezana nengozi ebashiya bekhubazekile nganoma iyiphi indlela, kungabashiya belwa nokungaphezu kokukhubazeka.
Noma abalingani babo benza noma yini esemandleni abo ukusiza nokwenza izinto zibe lula. Umlingani onokukhubazeka usengazizwa sengathi uwedwa ngemicabango nemizwa yabo.
Ngaphandle kwemizamo yabathandekayo babo, akukho ukuqonda kwangempela ngabo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, omunye umlingani angazizwa sengathi uzama kanzima ukwenza izinto zisebenze, kepha usavalelwa ngaphandle.
Ezimweni ezinjalo, mhlawumbe ungakwenza funa usizo. Kulezi zinsuku kunezifundo ezithile zokukhubazeka ezisebenzisekayo ezingakuvumela ukuthi uxhume kabusha, khulisa ukuqonda kwenu komunye nomunye futhi uthuthukise impilo yakho.
Lezi zifundo zingabuye zilungiselele umlingani okhubazekile umsebenzi ongabenza bajabule futhi baneliseke ngokwengeziwe, okungaba nomthelela esimweni esingcono ekhaya, lapho ezinye zezinkinga zingaxazululeka kalula.
Ukushintsha kokugxila
Lapho umbhangqwana unengane ndawonye, isikhathi lapho ingane izalwa singakucindezela nobabili ngenjabulo nangothando olungenamkhawulo.
Futhi noma nobabili niyayithanda ingane yenu futhi mhlawumbe nizosebenzisana ekubakhuliseni ngendlela engcono kakhulu, kukhona okunye okungenzeka.
Noma ngabe nobabili niqashiwe, uzothola indlela yokushintsha amahora enu okusebenza ukuze nichithe isikhathi esiningi nengane ngangokunokwenzeka.
Lokhu kugudlulwa kokugxila emshadweni kuya komunye nomunye kuya enganeni kungathatha umonakalo emshadweni futhi kuholele ekuhlukanisweni komunye noma nobabili.
Ukucabanga ukuthi izinto zizodlula noma zibuyele kokujwayelekile ngokwazo uma usujwayele isimo esisha empeleni kungenza izinto zibe zimbi kakhulu.
Kubalulekile uku qala ukusebenza ngezinkinga ngokushesha nje lapho ubona ukuthi zikhona.
Yize lokhu kwehluka kumbhangqwana owodwa kuya komunye, izeluleko ezithile ezijwayelekile kungaba ukuthi tholaimisebenzi ongayenza nobabili nengane yakho, kanye nokwenza nesikhathi sokuba wedwa.
Ukuthola umzanyana noma omunye wabazali bakho anakekele ingane ngenkathi wena go wenze into ejabulisayo futhi ukuzwana ndawonye kungakusiza nisondelane futhi nizizwe ningehlukaniseki emshadweni wenu.
Uma ukhathazekile ngalokho ukuhlala kwakho wedwa kungalimaza ubuhlobo bakho futhi wakulahlekisela ngomshado wakho, khuluma nowakwakho noma funa usizo kumelaphi.
Ukubhekana nezinkinga nokubhekana nazo kungenza izinto zibe ngcono futhi kukusize ubhekane nanoma yini ekukhathazayo noma umlingani wakho.