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- Ukuba nomzanyana kungawusindisa kanjani umshado wami?
- Ngimkhetha kanjani umzanyana ofanele?
- Nawa amanye amathiphu wokuthola umdlalo ofanele.
Ukuqala umndeni nokukhulisa ingane kwesinye isikhathi kungaba nzima kakhulu. Ubusuku obuningi bokungalali bungakwenza uzibuze ukuthi ngabe umshado wakho uqala ukulahlekelwa yinhle.
Ukugcina izinto phezulu kuyakhathaza uze uzizwe sengathi asikho isikhathi esanele sanoma ngubani omunye, kufaka phakathi umlingani wakho. Ukuqasha umzanyana kungakusiza ukuthi uthole leyo nhlansi ebudlelwaneni bakho futhi.
Ukuba nomzanyana kungawusindisa kanjani umshado wami?
Kunezinzuzo eziningi zokuba nomzanyana. Banikeza ukunakekelwa okuyimfihlo nokugxile kwengane yakho, okusho ukuthi awudingi ukucela izihlobo zakho ukuthi zigade izingane zakho.
Ngaphandle komnakekeli, ungazithola ugijima endlini uzama ukondla, ukugqoka nokudlala nezingane zakho zonke ngasikhathi sinye.
Ungazizwa ukhathele ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Uma ungakhathali, kungenzeka umlingani wakho.
Ukukhathala kungenza kube nzima kuwe ukuvusa isifiso.
Lokhu okulandelayo kushiwo izinzuzo ezimbalwa zokuba nomzanyana.
- Isikhathi esithe xaxa
Ukuqasha umzanyana kungakunika ikhefu ekubeni ngumzali. Isikhathi sokuphumula sikuvumela ukuba usebenze, uvivinye umzimba noma ujabulele usuku lwe-movie nomlingani wakho.
Amahora ambalwa wokuzinakekela angakusiza ukuxhuma kabusha nomunye wakho obalulekile futhi uhlole izindlela ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Lapho unesikhala esithe xaxa sokuphumula, ungaba nesifiso esengeziwe sokuhlanganyela engxoxweni ejulile nomlingani wakho.
- Ukuvumelana nezimo okwengeziwe
Ukuhlela nokuhlela izinsuku zobusuku futhi ezinye "isikhathi sami" ziba lula ngokuqasha umzanyana.
Kubalulekile ukuhlala phansi nomnakekeli futhi nixoxe ngokuthi nobabili niyolusingatha kanjani ushintsho ngomzuzu wokugcina.
Le nqubo izoninika nobabili umbono wokuthi umzanyana angazamukela kanjani izinqumo ezingazelelwe esimisweni sakhe. Ngokwengeziwe, umzanyana naye angaxoxisana ngezinga lokukhokha lesikhathi esingeziwe.
- Amathuba amaningi okukhuluma
Ngezinye izikhathi, ungakhononda ngokuthi umlingani wakho akaphathi ikhaya ngendlela wena owenza ngayo. Lokhu kungaphenduka intukuthelo.
Ungahle ungazi ukuthi umlingani wakho ucabanga ukuthi awugqoki izigqoko eziningi njengabo.
Ubudlelwano buyizindlela ezimbili. Imisebenzi kufanele yabelwane ngayo nobabili nomunye wakho obalulekile.
Ukuqasha umzanyana kungathatha imisebenzi ethile kuwe nasehlombe lomlingani wakho. Ngezinto ezincane ongakhathazeka ngazo, ungathatha ithuba lokukhuluma ngendlela ozizwa ngayo.
Ukuvulela isithandwa sakho kungakwenza uzizwe ungacasuki kakhulu komunye nomunye.
- Isiza ukususa icala
Ukugoqa ilondolo nokwenza uhlu lwezinto ongazithenga kungathatha ukunaka kwakho ezintweni ezibaluleke kakhulu — umndeni wakho.
Lapho umatasa kakhulu, uphuthelwa amathuba okubuka ingane yakho ithathe isinyathelo sokuqala noma ulalele umlingani wakho ekhuluma ngento engenangqondo emsebenzini.
Ukupakisha usuku lwakho ngemisebenzi engapheli ngeke kususe icala. Ukwenza okuningi kungakunqamula nomndeni wakho.
Ukucela usizo ngeke kukwenze ube ngaphansi komzali. Umzanyana angakunikeza ukwesekwa okudingayo ukuze unikeze isikhathi esithe xaxa sokugxila enganeni yakho nakumlingani wakho.
Ngimkhetha kanjani umzanyana ofanele?
AmaNannies eza nolwazi oluningi nombono ohlukile.
Abanye bazobe beqoqe ulwazi eminyakeni edlule, kanti abanye baphatha iziqu ezisiza ekunikezeni ukunakekelwa okuhle kwengane yakho.
Abanakekeli banesibopho sokuqinisekisa ukuphepha kwengane yakho nokukhulisa ukukhula kwayo.
Bangasiza futhi emisebenzini ehlobene nenkulisa njengokuhlanza izindawo zezingane nokuwasha izingubo zabo. Abanye onesi bahlinzeka ngezifundo zemfundo ngamacala abo.
Ukukhethela umnakekeli ophelele womndeni wakho kungabonakala njengomsebenzi onzima. Akukho ejensi kahulumeni engakutshela ukuthi ngubani ohlangabezana nezidingo eziyisisekelo zokunakekelwa kwezingane.
Kungalesi sizathu-ke abazali kudingeka benze ngokuzikhandla okufanelekile lapho beqasha umnakekeli. Ngakho-ke, yini okufanele uyicabangele lapho uqasha umzanyana?
Nawa amanye amathiphu wokuthola umdlalo ofanele.
- Cabanga ngalokho okudingwa umndeni wakho
Nquma inani lamahora nezinsuku ozodinga ngazo usizo lomzanyana. Lokhu kufanele kufaka phakathi ukusebenza amahora angeziwe, ikakhulukazi ngamaholide noma ngezimpelasonto.
Ukuhlola izilinganiso zamanje zehora zamantombazanyana aseduze kwendawo yakho kungakusiza ukuthi uhlele ukuthi uzokhokha malini.
Ngemuva kokuphothula isabelomali sakho, kufanele unqume inani lesipiliyoni sokunakekelwa kwezingane ongathanda ukusidinga kubaqokelwe ukhetho.
Lokhu kungafaka isitifiketi seCPR / First Aid, ukugoma kweMMR, nelayisense yokushayela evumelekile, phakathi kwabanye.
- Beka izibopho zomzanyana
Ngaphambi kokuthi uqale inqubo yokuqasha, kufanele ngabe sekukhona isethi ecacile yemihlahlandlela nezibopho ezinikeza abazobhapathizwa umbono wezidingo zomndeni wakho.
Amashejuli nezinqubo kufanele kuvezwe, kanye nemisebenzi “engavunyelwe.”
- Khetha noma dala inqubo yokuqasha
Bhala incazelo yomsebenzi ecacile efaka ishejuli, izibopho, iziqu, kanye nohlu lwamaholo okuqashwa. Ungakhetha ukudlulisela igama kubangani nomphakathi wakho.
Uma uthatha isinqumo sokuhamba ngalo mzila, kufanele uhlolisise kahle abazobhapathizwa.
Buyekeza ama-resume abo, khuluma nezethenjwa zabo, bese uqoqa imibhalo efana nezitifiketi, imvume, nokugoma.
Ungakhetha futhi ukuqasha i-ejensi yokunakekela izingane ukuze ikwenzele ukuhlolwa. Ukusebenzisa i-ejensi kungavula iminyango yabanakekeli abavela kwamanye amasiko.
Imindeni eminingi iqasha onogada abakhuluma izilimi ezimbili noma abakhuluma izilimi eziningi besebenzisa ama-ejensi wokunakekela izingane aphesheya.
Okhethwe ozomkhetha, kuyalulekwa ukuthi udlule esikhathini sesivivinyo ukuze ubone ukuthi umndeni wakho nomondli bangabakha yini ubudlelwano obunempilo nobuhle.
- Sungula iqoqo lemithetho
Dala izinqubomgomo zokuphepha nokuxhumana, ukuze abazobhapathizwa bazi ukuthi yini oyilindele. Qiniseka ukuthi umzanyana wakho uyazi ukuthi ingane yakho akufanele ishiywe inganakiwe noma ilethwe noma kuphi ngaphandle kwemvume yakho.
Kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi bayazi ukuthi ngabe ulungile yini nabo ngokuthumela izithombe noma amavidiyo omndeni wakho kuma-akhawunti abo ezokuxhumana.
Kubalulekile futhi ukubatshela ukuthi ufuna ziphathwe kanjani izimo eziphuthumayo zezokwelapha. Lokhu kungafaka ukuqhuba ingane yakho kudokotela wezingane, emtholampilo wasemuva kwehhovisi, noma egumbini lezimo eziphuthumayo esibhedlela eduze kwekhaya lakho.
Ukulungiselela isethi yemithetho ngaphambi kwesikhathi kunganikeza umzanyana wakho umbono ocacile wokuthi kufanele babhekane kanjani nezimo ezithile futhi uma kukhona izinto zokudla, imikhiqizo, noma izinto ezithile okufanele bazigweme.
Kuzophinde kukhuthaze ubudlelwano bokusebenzisana nomzali osiza ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi ingane yakho inakekelwa kangcono kakhulu.
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