Okulandelayo izingcaphuno ezivela engxoxweni noLee Strauss - umbhali othengisa kakhulu ochungechungeni lwe- "Ginger Gold Mysteries"; Uchungechunge oluthi “A Nursery Rhyme Suspense”, nomlingani osemusha osemdala ongumlando oqanjiwe KANYE nomlingani wakhe, umbhali ongumculi-umbhali wengoma waseCanada, uNorm Strauss ungumculi wekhonsathi / wokuqopha ohambele kakhulu eCanada, eYurophu nasezingxenyeni ezithile ze-USA, lapho bexoxa khona ngobuciko kungaba yisici esihle somshado.
Ngabe uthola ukuthi unezinzuzo zobuciko ngokushada nomunye ubuciko?
Lee: Impela. Ngoba umyeni wami udala ubuciko, ngiyazi ukuthi uyayiqonda injabulo nobunzima bokuthatha "ikhasi elingenalutho" aliguqule libe yinto ejabulisayo nekhuthazayo. Uma ngisho into efana nokuthi, "ukubhala kunzima," uyazi kahle ukuthi ngiqonde ukuthini ngalokho. Ungumxhumanisi wami wokudala. Sivame ukuhlela izincwadi zami ndawonye futhi lapho ngishaya umgodi noma umgodi wesakhiwo, singakwazi ukuwuhlela ndawonye ngokuxoxa nje. Ngimbandakanya futhi namaphrojekthi wokubhala, ngimenze abhale okusalungiswa kokuthunyelwe kwebhulogi noma okunjalo. Ngiyamethemba ukuthi angakwenza, ngaphezu kwalokho anakho kuye ngezinye izikhathi. Uyangisiza nangocwaningo, okulusizo olukhulu. Ngokujabulisayo uyawazisa umlando futhi uyakujabulela ukuwenza.
Okujwayelekile: Yebo. Ngicabanga ukuthi ukuba nomlingani onobuhlakani kunginikeza ukuzethemba okukhulu lapho ngishayisana ngemibono noma ngabe kungamazwi engoma noma ama-story arcs. Nginalo mqondo wokuthi lo muntu ongazi kahle futhi unentuition yobuciko bami ngezinga elithile. Anganikeza okokufaka okuqinile okugoqiwe ngolwazi lokuthi ngingubani kanye nomlando wethu owabiwe. Amakhonsathi ami ngokuyisisekelo aqukethe mina ngixoxa izindaba ngezingoma ezimbalwa eziphonswe phakathi. Zincike kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami kwangempela empilweni futhi yileyo ndlela engixhumana ngayo nezithameli zami. Uxoxa izindaba ezinde kakhulu ngabalingiswa abaqanjiwe abantu ababathandayo nabazihlobanisa nabo. Uxhumeka kanjalo. Ziyizindlela ezahlukahlukene kepha ziyafana ngokwanele ukuthi singanikeza ukufaka okuhle nokukhuthazana komunye nomunye.
Ngabe zikhona izikhathi lapho kube khona ukungqubuzana kwezingqondo zokudala ekhaya lakho? Uma kunjalo, kwenzekani?
Lee: Angikwazi ukusho ngempela ukuthi lokhu kube yinkinga. Angiyena umbhali wezingoma, noma imbongi imbala, ngakho-ke, noma ngabe uNorm ezongibuza umbono wami ngengoma entsha, ngihlehlisela esinqumweni sakhe sokugcina. Ungumnikazi wobuciko bakhe. Wenza okufanayo nakimi.
Okujwayelekile: Ngoba sisezigabeni ezehlukene, lokho akwenzeki kaningi. Kukhona ukuhloniphana nokuhloniphana ngobungoti bomunye nomunye yize kunesikhala semibono. Isibonelo, uvamise ukuba ngowokuqala ukuzwa ingoma entsha. Ngiwuthatha ngokungathi sína umbono wakhe ngakho yize kunesikhala sokuthi ngingavumelani, ebengikwenza kwesinye isikhathi. Ngibona sengathi naye uyawuhlonipha umbono wami ngomsebenzi wakhe. Ngicabanga ukuthi lokho kunempilo. Kuhle kimi ukwazi ukuthi imingcele yami ikuphi. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngingumuntu 'onobuciko', kepha angiyena umuntu onenhliziyo eshisayo. Angiboni kangako ngombala futhi nginesithukuthezi ngokubuka ukushushuluza ngomdwebo noma i-ballet. Ngihlala cishe imizuzu eyishumi ngihamba egalari yezobuciko, ngakho-ke angiyena umuntu omuhle kabi ngalowo mqondo. Ngilinganisela imibono yami yokudala kulokho engicabanga ukuthi ngiyikho kahle. Ngifunde kakhulu ngakho ngibona sengathi ngingaya lapho. U-Lee angakhetha imibala yomsebenzi wepende omusha egumbini lokuphumula 🙂
Kungaziphi izindlela ukushada nomunye umuntu okudala kunika ukwesekwa nokuqonda ebudlelwaneni bakho?
Lee: Ngiyalithanda iqiniso lokuthi umyeni wami uyayijabulela indaba. Uma sibuka i-movie noma uchungechunge lwe-TV ndawonye sihlala sikhuluma ngokubhalwa kwesikripthi. Sobabili singabafundi abakhuthele futhi siyabazisa ababhali abahle. Ngiyazi uma ngiletha uNorm engxoxweni yesakhiwo sendaba uzonikeza ukufaka okuthakazelisayo. Ukwazi ukuthi unentshisekelo ngobuqotho futhi utshale imali kulokho engikwenzayo kuyisikhuthazo sangempela ekhonweni lami lokuhlala ngikhuthazekile futhi ngizinikele esimisweni sami sokubhala esibuhlungu kaningi.
Okujwayelekile: Lapho unomlingani onenkinga yokuthi inqubo yokudala isebenza kanjani futhi isekela leyo nqubo, nakanjani iya kude. Imizamo yami njengomculi / umbhali wengoma yaqala kudala ngaphambi kokuba sishade. Wabona ukuthi kunjalo. Ngemuva kokushada, iminyaka eminingi, ngangibhala izingoma, ngihlela amakhonsathi, futhi ngiqopha ama-albhamu ngenkathi uLee eyisisekelo sokwakha ikhaya enezingane ezine. Wayehlale enembile ukuthi ubuciko bami budinga isikhathi nendawo nokuthi kubalulekile. Ukwenzele lokho ngaphandle komhawu noma ukufutheka yize ebuye abe nobuciko. Abanye abaningi mhlawumbe babengeke bakwenze lokho. Kamuva, lapho eqala ukubhala ngokujulile, ngangazi nokuthi le yingxenye ebalulekile yakhe nokuthi udinga isikhathi nendawo ukuze athuthuke.
Ingabe ubuciko bunomthelela kwezinye izici zobuzali?
Lee: Besihlala njalo sinika izingane zethu ithuba lokuthi zikhulume kahle. Isibonelo, ngavumela indodakazi yami ukuba izigqokise kusukela isencane futhi yayinobuhlakani obukhulu ekukhethweni kwayo. Manje, njengomuntu omdala, indodakazi yami ibheka izithombe zayo ezindala bese iyabuza (ngenkathi ihleka), "Ungivumeleni ukuthi ngiyigqoke?" Impendulo bengifuna ukuthi akhululeke ukuzikhulumela ngobuciko.
Okujwayelekile: Lapho izingane zethu zisencane ngangingena emakamelweni azo ngesikhathi sokulala futhi ngenze indaba engasile lapho behleli begigitheka. Bebazi ukuthi le ndaba yenzelwe bona kuphela futhi izohluka njalo ebusuku. Ukuqamba nokuhlonipha ubuciko kudluliselwa ezinganeni zakho. Zonke izingane zethu ezine zinekhono lokudala eliqinile, ikakhulukazi emculweni nasekubhaleni, yize abanye bekhethe ukukuphishekela ngaphezu kwabanye. Bonke bakhuthazwe kakhulu ukuthi balandele izinhlangothi zabo zobuciko.
Ngivame ukuzibuza ukuthi basabela kanjani lapho bebuzwa ukuthi: “Baziphilisa ngani abazali bakho.” Umculi nombhali? Mhlawumbe abangane babo basibona njengama-hippie egqoke amahembe odayisi ngenkathi ebhema ibhodwe futhi elalela umculo omnene womculo wesintu. Iqiniso ukuthi sibuka iNetflix futhi siphuza iwayini elibomvu.
Ngabe ubugcina kanjani ubudlelwano bakho busha futhi bujabulisa?
Lee: Sihlale sibeka ulwazi ngaphambi "kwezinto." Singathanda yenza okuthile kune unayo okuthile. Leli qoqo elikhulu lokuhlangenwe nakho okwabiwe okusibopha ndawonye manje. Sivame ukuthi sithi sizizwa sengathi siphila impilo eyinkulungwane. Futhi asiqedile. Izingane zethu manje sezikhulile futhi azisekho, futhi lokho kusinikeza inkululeko ethe xaxa yokwenza izinto. Sisanda kuba yizinyoni zeqhwa, okuyigama laseCanada elibhekiswe kubantu abaya ezindaweni ezinelanga, ezinhle nezingavamile ebusika.
Okujwayelekile: Sihlanganyela uthando lokuhamba futhi sobabili sinelukuluku futhi siyazijaha ngokwemvelo. Sihlale sibeka i-adventure ngokuhamba ngendlela ephephe kunazo zonke. Lokhu kuholele eminyakeni engama-31 egcwele isipiliyoni. Sisenza amaphupho amaningi okwabelwana ngawo ngekusasa futhi sihlala sizibandakanya ezimpilweni zezingane zethu. Lokhu kusiza kakhulu. Siphinde sibe nentshisekelo enkulu emisebenzini yomunye nomunye kanye nengxenye yenqubo yokudala.
Umlingani wakho ukugqugquzela ngaziphi izindlela?
Lee: UNorm Strauss ungumuntu omangalisayo. Ungubaba okahle, umngani kwabaningi (kakhulu kwezenhlalo kunami), umculi onekhono nomculi, umyeni osekelayo nendoda ekholwayo. Ngiyathanda ukuthi sihlanganyela ekukholweni futhi singakhuluma ngoNkulunkulu kalula njengoba sikhuluma ngesimo sezulu. Uyihange kimi lapho ngikhungatheka noma ngiqala ukungaqiniseki. Futhi uyangihlekisa. Ngiyawathanda amahlaya akhe. Alukho usuku oludlulayo angasho into ehlakaniphile engenza ngimamatheke noma ngihleke kakhulu.
Okujwayelekile: Ngigqugquzelwa okokuqala ngothando lwakhe olunamandla nokuzinikela kwakhe emndenini wethu. Ngisho nomsebenzi wakhe wezobuciko awukona nje kuphela ngesidingo sakhe sokuziveza. Leyo yingxenye encane nje yayo. Kuyindlela ethe xaxa kunalokho; Kucatshangwa kakhulu njengendlela yokuhlinzeka ngezinsizakusebenza ukuze sikwazi ukusiza izingane zethu ekusaseni lazo nakithina lapho sithatha umhlalaphansi. Nami nginjalo ngomculo wami.
Okwesibili, ngikhuthazwa yindlela acabanga ngayo; Kubonakala sengathi uyakwazi ukubona okuzayo esikhathini esizayo kunami, acabange okukhulu kunami futhi ahlele ngamasu we-savvier. Kufana nokuthi angacabanga kathathu futhi ngikwazi ukuphatha amabili nengxenye kuphela ku kuhle usuku. Mhlawumbe yingakho ngibhala izingoma ezimfushane yena abhale uchungechunge lwezincwadi lonke. Lapho abantu bebuza imininingwane yakhe ngokuthi wenzani nokuthi ucabanga ukuthi ikusasa likuphatheleni ngihlala ngimangele kancane ukuthi unolwazi futhi unombono onjani. Ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ukuthi uzifundise ngokuphelele futhi wenza kahle kakhulu kulayini womsebenzi wokuncintisana kakhulu.
Ukuthatha kokugcina
Lapho unomlingani wokudala emshadweni, wakha ukusebenzisana okunempilo kwamaphupho okwabelwana ngakho kanye nezinkanuko. Uxhuma kangcono, uqala ukwakha okuthile ndawonye bese uhamba ngesikebhe ndawonye ngesandla ngezikhathi ezinzima. Kunomqondo wokuthoba ukujwayela nolimi oluvamile oluqinisa isibopho sakho.