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- Ukwanda okuthusayo kokukhuluphala
- Ukwandisa ukuncika kwimidiya yedijithali
- Ukukhathazeka ngokuphepha
- Ubunzima bezingane ezikhathazayo
- Ukuzibandakanya okungenampilo nama-Smartphones
- Ukubhekana nokwesaba kwabazali ngokuphepha
- Ungavumeli i-paranoia yakho yondle ukungaqiniseki kwengane yakho
- Isixazululo sesimanjemanje - ubuchwepheshe bokulandelela i-GPS
- Sebenzisa ubuchwepheshe bokuthula kwengqondo yakho
- Ukusonga -thola indawo emaphakathi ekahle yomzali nengane
Ukuba ngumzali akulula neze. Kungumuzwa wakho wokugcina izingane zakho ziphephile kunoma yiziphi izinsongo ezingaba khona, noma ngabe kusekhaya noma ngaphandle ezweni elikhulu nelibi. Wena noshade naye nenza konke okusemandleni ukwenza izimpilo zezingane zenu ziphephe, ziphumelele futhi zaneliswe. Kodwa-ke, ungabavikela kanjani ezinsongweni ezivela ngaphandle? Yini wena nomlingani wakho eningayenza ukuvimbela noma yiziphi izinto ezimbi ezenzeka enganeni yakho?
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi izingxenye ezintathu kwezine zezingane zaseBrithani zichitha isikhathi esincane ngaphandle kweziboshwa, nengxenye eyodwa kwezinhlanu zezingane ezivotelwe kunhlolovo zingadlali ngaphandle ngosuku olumaphakathi.
Ukwanda okuthusayo kokukhuluphala
Kuke kwaba nokwesaba ukuthi lokhu kuntuleka kokuvivinya umzimba nezindlela zokuphila ezisebenzayo ezinganeni ezincane kuholela ekukhuleni okuqhubekayo kokukhuluphala. Cishe eyodwa ezinganeni ezinhlanu ezishiya isikole samabanga aphansi zibhekwa njengezikhuluphele, kuyilapho ezingaphansi kwengxenye eyodwa kwezintathu zezingane zaseBrithani zithola izinga lokuzivocavoca elinconywayo.
Ukwandisa ukuncika kwimidiya yedijithali
Kunezizathu eziningi zalokhu. Ukuthembela okwandayo kwimidiya yedijithali kungesinye sezici, nokukhethwa okungaphezulu kwemidlalo yevidiyo ecwilisayo, ama-movie afunwayo, amakhulu eziteshi zethelevishini, futhi ngaphezulu konke okulwela ukunakwa kwezingane.
Ukukhathazeka ngokuphepha
Esinye isici esinamandla ukwesaba kwabazali. Ukukhathazeka ngokuphepha kungenza kube nzima kakhulu ngabantu abadala ukuthi bathembe ukuthi izingane zabo zizophepha futhi zaneliswe uma zivunyelwe ukudlala ngaphandle nabangani.
Kodwa-ke, kunzima ukwahlulela noma yimuphi umzali owenqaba ukuvumela ingane yakhe ihlole umhlaba ngaphandle kokuba eceleni kwabo. Inhlangano esiza abantulayo i-Action Against Adduction ilinganisela ukuthi cishe izingane ezingama-50 ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-16 zithathwa ngabantu ezingabazi unyaka nonyaka. Ngenkathi amakota amathathu okuzama ukuthunjwa embozwe empeleni engaphumelelanga, akukho mbuzo wokuthi isimo esinjalo singaba nomthelela omubi enganeni.
Ubunzima bezingane ezikhathazayo
Uma uthola oshade naye kwesinye isikhathi umugqa womkhawulo we-paranoid uma kukhulunywa ngokuphepha kwengane yakho, yehlise kancane. Kungokwemvelo ukukhathazeka ngezingane zakho futhi ufune ukuzivikela nganoma iyiphi indlela, ikakhulukazi ngamanani aphakeme kangako okuzama ukuthumba. Ngeza kulezi ezinye izingozi ezifana nobuphekula, ubugebengu bommese, udlame lwamaqembu ezigelekeqe, ukudubula, nabashayeli abayingozi, futhi akumangazi ukuthi izingane eziningi zichitha isikhathi zingaphakathi ezindlini.
Amaphesenti angama-25 wabazali baseBrithani bavumile ukuthi bayakhathazeka ukuthi izingane zabo zizizwa zikhathazekile ngezinguquko ezibandakanyeka eBrexit, kanti abane kwabayishumi nabo bakholelwa ukuthi izingane zabo ziyesaba ukuhlaselwa amaphekula. Ukuqhuma kwamabhomu okwenzeka eManchester ngo-2017 ekhonsathini yase-Ariana Grande kubhekiswe emindenini nasezinganeni ezisencane, kusale intsha eningi kanye nabangaphambi kwentsha benokukhathazeka okusobala ngokuphepha kwabo emicimbini efanayo.
Ucwaningo lukhombisile nokuthi amaphesenti ayi-13 wabazali abona sengathi izingane zabo zigwema ukuthuthwa komphakathi ngenxa yezinkathazo zokuphepha, kanti amaphesenti ayisishiyagalombili athi izingane zawo ziba namaphupho amabi ngenxa yezindaba eziphazamisayo ezindabeni.
Ukuzibandakanya okungenampilo nama-Smartphones
Izingane zinokufinyelela okuningi ezindabeni ezivela nxazonke zomhlaba kunanini ngaphambili. Ngesinye isikhathi, imindeni ingakhetha ukuthi izibukele yini izindaba nengane yayo ikhona noma igweme ukushiya amaphephandaba, kodwa manje sekuhluke ngokuphelele. Iningi lezingane linama-smartphones alo, kufaka phakathi amaphesenti angama-25 alabo abaneminyaka eyisithupha nangaphansi, cishe uhhafu wabo ochitha amahora angaphezu kwama-20 kuwo isonto ngalinye.
Ama-Smartphones axhunywe kwi-Inthanethi (kungaba nge-Wi-Fi noma ngedatha yeselula) anika izingane zabo bonke ubudala isango lokuya emhlabeni. Lokhu kunezinzuzo ezingenakubalwa, kunjalo, kodwa ngokudabukisayo futhi kubadalula emifanekisweni ecacile yobudlova bomhlaba wangempela, izinto zocansi, nezindaba zezindaba ezingabashiya besaba.
Ukubhekana nokwesaba kwabazali ngokuphepha
Noma kunjalo, akuzona zonke izingane ezesaba kakhulu ukudlala ngaphandle, futhi nabazali bazo abakhathazeki kakhulu ngengozi yokuzinika inkululeko nokuzimela. Izingane ziyinto ejwayelekile lapho ushayela ezindaweni zokuhlala nezindawo zomphakathi, noma ngabe zihambisana nabantu abadala noma cha.
Ungavumeli i-paranoia yakho yondle ukungaqiniseki kwengane yakho
Izitayela zokuba ngumzali ziyahlukahluka, kunjalo. Kukhona labo okuthi ukuphambanisa nokwesaba umhlaba kudle ukungaqiniseki kwezingane zabo, kubashiye besaba nokuphumela ngaphandle. Kukhona nalabo abakhathalela okuncane kakhulu futhi abavumela izingane zabo ukuthi ziziphathe ngendlela ezithanda ngayo ngaphandle kokuholwa ngendlela efanele.
Ukumunca izingane nokuzishiya zizizwa zincike kumzali ukuze ziphephe kungaholela ezinkingeni ekukhuleni kwazo. Lokho okubizwa ngokuthi ‘ingozi yabazali bezindiza ezinophephela emhlane’ kuncisha izingane zabo umuzwa wokufeza okuthile abazizwa ngakho lapho benqoba ubunzima noma bezibeka engcupheni ngokuphepha, okungahle kukhubaze ukukhula kwabo babe ngabantu abadala abakulungele ukuthatha umhlaba.
Akulula ukwazi ukuthi kungakanani ukugadwa nokuqondiswa okulungile. Akekho umzali ofuna ingane yakhe iphile ngokwesaba imicimbi engaze yenzeke kubo, futhi abafuni ukuba bazulazule ngokunganaki ezimweni eziyingozi. Singabatshela ngokuhle nokubi, singabafundisa ngokwazi ukuthi babaleke nini, kodwa kungenye into ukubethemba ukuthi bazinakekele.
Ngenhlanhla, ubuchwepheshe obunqenqemeni benza ukuba abazali bakwazi ukuqapha imisebenzi yezingane zabo futhi babheke nokuhamba kwabo ngaphandle ngaphandle kokuhamba nabo ngokomzimba.
Isixazululo sesimanjemanje - ubuchwepheshe bokulandelela i-GPS
Ubuchwepheshe bokulandelela i-GPS buyatholakala ngezindlela eziningi. Iningi lethu linezinhlelo zokusebenza zokuzulazula emafonini ethu, noma ngabe sizisebenzisa lapho sishayela noma ukuthola indawo yokudlela endaweni esingayijwayele. Amadivayisi we-GPS ezimotweni nasemalolini sekuyinto ejwayelekile isikhathi eside manje. Kodwa-ke, lokho kudla kubazali abakhathazekile kuyatholakala njenge-tech egqokekayo nezinhlelo zokusebenza ezingalandwa, okukuvumela ukuthi ukhethe inketho efanelekile kakhulu yezidingo zakho ezihlukile.
Ngamadivayisi okulandela umkhondo we-GPS wengane - njengesongo, iwashi, noma isiqeshana - izingane zingakujabulela ukuzimela ezingakufuna ngaphandle kokuzizwa zihlukaniswe ngokuphelele nabazali bazo. Umama, ubaba, ugogo, umkhulu, omalume, obabekazi, noma abanakekeli bonke bangalandelela imisebenzi yengane ebalazweni elihambisanayo. Izici ezithile zizobavumela ukuthi bahlale bazi ngezinkinga ezingaba khona, ezifana nengane ezula kakhulu kude nasekhaya. Amadivayisi ahlukene anezici zawo.
Isibonelo, eminye imikhiqizo esezingeni eliphezulu yokulandelela i-GPS inika amandla abazali nezingane ukuxhumana ngaphandle kwesidingo sefoni, kanti ezinye zifaka inkinobho yokwethuka ingane engayicindezela uma ikholwa ukuthi ingadinga usizo.
Sebenzisa ubuchwepheshe bokuthula kwengqondo yakho
Lobu buchwepheshe buzuzisa ngendlela emangalisayo kuzo zonke izinhlobo zobudlelwano bomzali nengane. Izingane ezingazizwa zilungele ukuphuma ngaphandle ziyohlola ngaphandle kwabazali bazo zingasebenzisa amadivayisi okulandelela ukuze zithole ukuthula kwengqondo, zazi ukuthi zisabhekiwe. Labo abafisa inkululeko ethe xaxa kepha abazali babo banqena ukuyinikeza bangaqinisekisa ukuthi bahlala ngaphansi kweso labo labanakekeli ngaphandle kokuzizwa becindezelekile.
Ukusonga -thola indawo emaphakathi ekahle yomzali nengane
Wena noshade naye kufanele nihambe umugqa omuhle phakathi kokufundisa izingane zabo nokubanikeza ukuholwa abakudingayo ukwenza izinqumo zabo, nokwazi ukuthi kunini lapho kufanele kunqatshelwe khona ilungelo lokuvakashela indawo ethile ngesikhathi esithile. Ubuchwepheshe bokulandelela i-GPS benza kube lula ukuthola indawo ephakathi nendawo yomzali nengane ngokufanayo futhi kusho ukuthi umuntu akakude kakhulu komunye. Lawa madivayisi angaba ithuluzi elinamandla ekwakheni ubudlelwano obuqinile babazali nokunikeza izingane ezikhathazayo ukuzethemba ezikudingayo ukubhekana nezwe ngezinyawo zazo.