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- 1. Gwema inkulumo encane, zibandakanye ezingxoxweni ezizuzisayo
- 2. Crystal izingxoxo ezicacile mayelana nesikhathi sakho esedlule
- 3. Hlola umlingani wakho njalo
- 4. Khuluma ngekusasa
Ukuxhumana kuyisihluthulelo sokwenza noma yibuphi ubuhlobo buhlale isikhathi eside. Akunakuphikwa, ubudlelwano obuhlukahlukene bufaka izici ezahlukahlukene zokuqhubekisela phambili ingqikithi. Kodwa-ke, ukuxhumana okunothile nokunempilo ukuphela kwento edingekayo ekwenzeni noma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlelwano lube oluhlala isikhathi eside.
Nalu uhlu lwezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zezingxoxo ongaba nazo nothandekayo wakho. Kuphakathi kokuthi uhlela ukuthintwa, ukuboshwa noma ukujola njengamanje; qinisa isibopho sakho. Nazi izingxoxo zobudlelwano obucabangayo ongaba nazo nomlingani wakho
1. Gwema inkulumo encane, zibandakanye ezingxoxweni ezizuzisayo
Kuphakathi kokuthi nina nihamba ngosuku lokuqala, senivele nibophekile noma nihlela ukushada nganoma yisiphi isikhathi kungekudala- ningenzi inkulumo encane. Musa nje. Isikhathi.
Khuluma ngezinto ezenza amehlo akho acwazimule ngothando, khuluma ngezinhloso zomsebenzi nezifiso zakho, khuluma ngezinto zokuzilibazisa.
Buza imibuzo enobuciko nejabulisayo. Gcina imibuzo yakho ivulekile futhi uyisho ngendlela ezokwenza umlingani wakho aphume ngentokozo ngenjabulo. Ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngokuthi uzobuza ini- kukhombisa ubuntekenteke komunye umuntu. Ziveze ngendlela yakho emsulwa futhi engokoqobo kakhulu.
Nayi imibuzo embalwa engakhuthaza ukubandakanyeka okuvela ezinhlangothini ezimbili-
- Obani abazoba ngabantu abahlanu ohlwini lwakho oluphezulu ongababiza ngokushesha lapho unamathele enkingeni?
- Yikuphi ukushiyeka kwakho okungaphenduka amandla akho amakhulu?
- Yini oyithandayo?
- Imuphi umbuzo ofuna impendulo kuwo?
- Ngabe uyavuma kude kangakanani ukuthi abantu abasebudlelwaneni kufanele bagcine ubunikazi obuhlukile esikhundleni sokuthi omunye abe yisithunzi somunye?
Uhlu luzoqhubeka luqhubeke. Imibuzo ayisoze yaphela kanjalo nentshisekelo yakho komunye umuntu uma wabelana ngomqondo ofanayo.
Ukuphela kokufanele ucabange kanzima. Khuluma futhi ungagxili. Yiba ngokoqobo futhi ube nguwe nje.
2. Crystal izingxoxo ezicacile mayelana nesikhathi sakho esedlule
Khuluma ngokudlula kwakho. Ubudlelwano akuyona into encane. Kudinga ukuzibophezela nokwethembeka. Ngolunye usuku oluhle uvukile futhi wabona ukuthi awukwazi ukuchitha impilo yakho nomlingani wakho. Akwenzeki kanjalo. Akufanele isebenze kanjalo. Ngakho-ke, khumbula isinqumo sakho futhi ukhethe lapho kuziwa ekukhetheni okunye kwakho okuphawulekayo.
Ngaphambi kokwenza ngokuthanda kwakho nokulahlekelwa ukulawula ama-hormone akho, kubalulekile ukuxoxa ngokudlule komunye nomunye.
Khuluma ngama-ex wakho, ukukhaphela komngani, ukuhlukumezeka komndeni ukubala okumbalwa, oke wadlula kukho esikhathini esedlule.
Yisa le nto ekhanda lakho; omunye wakho obalulekile kufanele aqonde lokho oke wabhekana nakho futhi akwamukele njengomuntu, okubunjwe ngukuhlangenwe nakho okukhulu.
Okuhlangenwe nakho / imizwa engavumelekile kufanele ikhombise ukuthi omunye wenu adonse ipulagi noma adedele amahhashi akhe. Gcina umoya uhlanzekile mayelana nesikhathi sakho esedlule.
3. Hlola umlingani wakho njalo
Kuphakathi kokuthi utholakele, uhlela ukungena ku-future future noma njengamanje niyathandana- hlola umlingani wakho ngezikhathi ezithile. Shaya umbhalo, dubula i-imeyili, yenza isethulo se-PowerPoint, shayela ucingo, i-Skype; wenze noma yini ukuze ube nenhliziyo nenhliziyo nsuku zonke.
Kubalulekile ukwenza omunye wakho obalulekile abone ukuthi ukhona ngabo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sosuku.
Benze bazizwe bethandwa. Benze bazizwe bethandwa. Yabelana ngokuphakama kwakho, ukuvumelana kwakho nemininingwane yonke yeminithi phakathi. Ngoba ayikho into encane kakhulu noma enkulu kakhulu ukuthi ungabelana nomuntu omthandayo.
Ngezinye izikhathi, lalela noma ulalele ihlombe ukuze ukhale noma unikeze izeluleko ezibalulekile. Qiniseka ukuthi ayikho imizwa ebabayo eqoqiwe ngokumelene nomunye futhi nina bantu nisekhasini elifanayo. Cacisa ekukhulumisaneni kwakho ubanikeze nendawo yabo uma beyidinga.
4. Khuluma ngekusasa
Kulungile ngokuphelele ukubambezela isikhathi sakho sokuhlela esizayo esikhathini esincane. Kuzoba nzima noma omunye wenu angakhathazeka kakhulu aze alethe lesi sihloko ukuze nixoxe ngaso engxoxweni. Akunandaba noma yini, khuluma ngakho.
Ufuna izingane? Ngabe uyafuna ukukhulisa umndeni? Veza le mibuzo bese uxoxa nomlingani wakho.
Kungenzeka ukuthi omunye wakho obalulekile akakholelwa esikhungweni somshado noma mhlawumbe omunye wenu akafuni ukuba nezingane ngalesi sikhathi.
Esikhundleni sokugxumela eziphethweni noma ukukhipha inzondo ngomunye nomunye, kungcono ukuvumelanisa ukungezwani futhi uqiniseke ukuthi hlobo luni lobudlelwano obudingwa ngumlingani wakho. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ukungaboni ngaso linye kwakho akunakulungiswa futhi akuhambisani, ngakho-ke kungcono uphinde ubuyekeze ubudlelwane bakho.
Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, ayikho i-genie yokunikeza isifiso sakho noma ingxoxo engcono yokwenza uthando lwenu luhlale uma izinhlangothi zombili zingakwamukeli umehluko. Yiba nesineke sokubhekana nayo futhi ungavumeli imizwa ekhathazayo ifiphaze izahlulelo zakho.