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- Ngabe ufuna ingane yakho ilahle izifiso zayo yokujabulisa abanye?
- 1. Benze bahloniphe, bahloniphe kepha baqinise emazwini abo
- 2. Akudingeki banikeze incazelo eningiliziwe ngokwenqaba kwabo
- 3. Ungalokothi ubavumele babeke amagugu abo noma okubaluleke kakhulu kubo engcupheni
- 4. Ziqeqeshe ukuzibekela imingcele
- 5. Benze babe yisakhamuzi esifanelekile
- 1. Veza isithombe esihle ngezwe lethu.
- 2. Thobela umthetho
- 3. Hola ngesibonelo
- 4. Iya emcimbini wesizathu nengane yakho endaweni yangakini noma edolobheni
"Kwesinye isikhathi okuthi" Cha "igama elinomusa." - UVironika Tugaleva
Esikhathini esithile esedlule, ngahamba ngayodla isidlo sokudlela kanye nendodakazi yami eneminyaka eyishumi. Indawo yokudlela yayicishe yagcwala futhi bafuna ukuthi siye egumbini labo elingaphansi lapho ukubukeka kwabo kwakungagculisi neze.
Bengithi ngizolunga lapho indodakazi yami uSachika ithi, "Cha ngeke sihlale lapho", umphathi wasamukela isinqumo sakhe futhi wahlela itafula elihle ngaphandle kwendawo yabo yokudlela futhi saba nedina elimnandi ngaphansi kwezinkanyezi nenyanga endaweni evulekile .
Ngithande ikhwalithi yendodakazi yami ukuthi ikumele ngokuqinile lokho ekufunayo futhi ithi ngqo 'Cha'.
Ngabe ufuna ingane yakho ilahle izifiso zayo yokujabulisa abanye?
Uma kungenjalo, baqeqeshele ukuba babe neqiniso kubo, bakhethe okulungile futhi bamele lokho abakholelwa ukuthi kulungile!
Ukufundisa ingane ukuthi ithi 'cha' izikhathi eziningi kubasindisa ekucindezeleni abangani (kanye nezimfuno zabo ezingezinhle), ukuphana kakhulu / umusa kuvame ukusizakala / noma bavunyelwe.
Kuyabasiza futhi ukuthi bazibekele imingcele yomuntu siqu noma abanye okufanele bayilandele.
Nazi ezinye izindlela ezingenacala zokuzifundisa ukuthi zithi 'Cha'
1. Benze bahloniphe, bahloniphe kepha baqinise emazwini abo
Angibhemi; Angiyi emcimbini wasebusuku kakhulu, Ngiyabonga; Ngiyesaba ukuthi angikwazi ukukopela / ukuqamba amanga; Angibukeli ngempela izithombe ezingcolile / ukudlala amakhadi / umdlalo weselula, njll kepha ngiyabonga kakhulu ngokubuza.
Okokuqala, bangazizwa becindezelekile, benecala lokwenqaba othile kepha bagqamise amaphuzu amahle okuthi 'cha'. Isb.
2. Akudingeki banikeze incazelo eningiliziwe ngokwenqaba kwabo
Vele ugcine incazelo ilula futhi ikhombe ephuzwini.
Kwesinye isikhathi ontanga / abanye abamukeli u-'Cha 'wabo okokuqala ngqa, ngakho-ke batshele ukuthi bacele ukuthi' cha 'noma kungokwesibili noma okwesithathu kepha ngokuqinile.
3. Ungalokothi ubavumele babeke amagugu abo noma okubaluleke kakhulu kubo engcupheni
Batshele ukuthi benze isitatimende sabo sibe lula futhi singagunci.
Esikhundleni sokuthi 'Ngizozama ngokuzayo "bafundise ukuthi,' ngiyaxolisa angibhemi noma ngiphuze, kufanele ngenqabe isipho sakho".
4. Ziqeqeshe ukuzibekela imingcele
Imingcele izobasiza ukuthi banqume ukuthi yini abangakwazi nabangakwazi ukuyenza (noma ungekho).
Esimweni esibi kakhulu, Ukuhamba nje umomotheka okumnandi kungabenzela izimangaliso.
Bachazele lokho ukuthi 'cha' ngeke kubenze babe ngabantu abangenanhlonipho, abazicabangela bona nababi.
Ababona abangenamusa noma abangasizi nje ngokuthatha izinqumo ngokuya ngokuqonda kwabo kanye namagugu azobasiza ukuthi bazizwe belawulwa futhi benikwe amandla. Kungcono ukuthi ‘cha’ namuhla kunokucasuka kusasa.
5. Benze babe yisakhamuzi esifanelekile
“Asiwudli ifa lomhlaba kokhokho bethu, siwuboleka ezinganeni zethu” - uChief Seattle.
Kwake kwaba nenkosi ehahayo, enobugovu nenonya.
Wonke umuntu embusweni wayesaba ngenxa yesihluku sakhe. Ngolunye usuku, ihhashi ayelithanda kakhulu uMoti washona futhi umbuso wonke weza emcimbini wakhe wokushisa izidumbu. Lokhu kujabulise kakhulu inkosi njengoba ibicabanga ukuthi izakhamizi zayo ziyithanda kakhulu.
Ngemuva kweminyaka embalwa, inkosi yafa futhi akekho noyedwa owaya emasikweni ayo okugcina.
Isimilo sendaba - Thola inhlonipho kunokuyifuna ngokwenza wena nengane yakho nibe ngabantu abanomthwalo futhi abanothando.
Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa zokukhulisa ingane ewusizo ngokokuziphatha futhi enesibopho
1. Veza isithombe esihle ngezwe lethu.
Ngiyazi kunezimbobo eziningi zezintambo ohlelweni lwethu, izinkinga ezithile, nezinkinga kodwa ake ngikubuze umbuzo olula? Uma umama wethu enemikhawulo eminingana siyayilahla esidlangalaleni noma siyigxeke? Cha, ngeke, akunjalo? Bona kungani izwe lethu lomama?
2. Thobela umthetho
Landela ama-etiquettes alula njengokuthi ungagxumi amasiginali womgwaqo, ukhokhe izintela zakho njalo bese ume kulayini. Qaphela- izingane zakho zihlala zikubhekile.
Sekela ubuciko nomculo wangakini, wesifunda, kazwelonke. Hambisa izingane zakho endaweni yeshashalazi yasendaweni, bukela ukudlala ndawonye ehholo eliseduze, vakashela iminyuziyamu nezikhungo zobuciko ndawonye.
Zinikele ngesikhathi sakho nangezinto onazo ekusizeni abaswele. Bandakanya nezingane zakho.
3. Hola ngesibonelo
Hlonipha ingane yakho, ungashayi mahon uma kuphuthuma, unikele ngegazi, gcina umphakathi wakho uhlanzekile, ungangcolisi (ngisho nokucosha udoti ongawulahlile), cisha omakhalekhukhwini bakho noma ubathulise lapho usezindaweni ezifana isikole, isibhedlela, amabhange.
Baqeqeshe ukuthi beme beqinile futhi baqine ekulweni nokungabi nabulungisa noma yini engalungile. Kufanele bazi ukumela izinto noma umuntu abakholelwa kuye ngokweqiniso.
Nikela ngezincwadi zabo, izingubo zabo, izesekeli, izicathulo namathoyizi ekhaya lezintandane. Bahambe nazo.
4. Iya emcimbini wesizathu nengane yakho endaweni yangakini noma edolobheni
Buyekeza izingane zakho mayelana nakho konke okwenzekile endaweni yangakini, idolobha, izwe kanye nasemhlabeni.
Kufanele bafunde ukuphatha wonke umuntu ngokulingana, kungakhathalekile ubulili babo, inkolo, uhlolo, inkolelo; isizinda sezezimali, ubungcweti, njll. empeleni batshele ngamagugu wamanye amasiko nezinkolelo zabo.
Ekugcineni, bafundise ukunakekela imvelo njengoba sinomama oyedwa emhlabeni.