-Delile
- Uthando alubambi amabhulu omkakho bese ushaya imbongolo yakhe
- Ungazami ukuba nengxoxo ejulile phakathi kokuthi "Yithina"
- Lapho wenza isabelomali, vele ushiye indawo ethile ukuze umkakho aqhume
- Dala uhlelo "lomcibisholo Wobumnini" emshadweni wakho
Lokhu akuyona indatshana yeseluleko sendabuko. Asikutsheli ukuthi uthembeke, uthembeke futhi ube ngumuntu ohloniphekile njengoba uphila impilo yomshado. Ngerekhodi, angisho ukuthi akufanele ube noma wenze lezo zinto, kepha akukhona lokho engikulungele. Ngilapha ukuzokunikeza izeluleko ezingenamqondo, ukubhuqa okuncane, kepha ingxenye enkulu ukuletha nje ama-quips ahlekisayo angakusindisa ekuchitheni umshado wakho. Uthando lubalulekile emshadweni, kepha kanjalo nokuhleka. Kuhlekwe, mfana ohlekisayo.
Uthando alubambi amabhulu omkakho bese ushaya imbongolo yakhe
Kukhona isikhathi nendawo yokubamba umkakho ngembongolo, ukumcosha, nokumshaya embhedeni wakho ukumbonisa isikhathi esihle. Kepha ake sibhekane nakho, abanye benu badida “isikhathi nendawo” ubusuku ngabunye egumbini lakho lokulala. Usayine impilo yakho yonke nalo wesifazane, ngakho-ke kufanele uguqule indlela osebenza ngayo uma kukhulunywa ngocansi nokusondelana. Amathuba ukuthi angakhathazeki ngokuthinteka emuva, ukudlala okuthile kwangaphambili, noma ukumane ahage nawe lapho nobabili nilala phansi ebusuku.
Yeka ukushaya izingcitshi zikankosikazi wakho sengathi ziyimpondo yemoto futhi ubabonise ukunakekelwa kothando oluthambile. Ngeke kulimaze ukufaka i-TLC encane ngemuva ukusetha imizwa, noma. Ungangibonga kamuva.
Ungazami ukuba nengxoxo ejulile phakathi kokuthi "Yithina"
Ngokuzimisela, vele ungakwenzi. Ngiyavuma, ngibuka lo mbukiso. Yinto enhle, ikakhulukazi ngoba izwakala ingumuntu futhi ihlonishwa. Akunandaba ukuthi uwuthanda lo mbukiso noma cha, umkakho mhlawumbe uthanda it. Uzibeka engcupheni yokuhlehlela emuva okukhulu uma uzama ukusika ngesikhathi sakhe nomndeni wakwaPearson. Okokuqala, ukungena esikhathini sakhe sokuzitika ngokuhlala phansi ubukele i-TV ngeke kukusize ngalutho. Ngeke ahlanganyele nanoma yini oyishoyo, futhi cishe uzokucasukela kakhulu kunokuthi uvele uziphuze umlomo wakho kuze kukhishwe amakhredithi.
Okwesibili, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ngokuqhathanisa kungenzeka ukuthi uyi-schmuck eduze kukaJack Pearson, inzalamizi yamaPearsons. Ukuzama ukuba ne "The Talk" ngenkathi eku-TV kuzokhanyisa ukukhanya kwakho okuphansi. Mane uhlale phansi, ubuke umbukiso (mhlawumbe uthathe amanothi kuJack), bese ulinda ukuveza imizwa yakho kuze kube yilapho umdlalo usuphelile. Kungcono kakhulu ku-ego yakho kanye nekhwalithi yengxoxo ohlose ukuba nayo.
Lapho wenza isabelomali, vele ushiye indawo ethile ukuze umkakho aqhume
Uma unanoma yini efana nami, ungahle ungakhathaleli imihlobiso yakho yonyaka, ukukhetha umcamelo, noma ipuleti kanye nokuqoqwa kwesitsha. Ngokuvamile, abafana bavame ukucaca futhi kube lula, futhi abesifazane bethu banesithakazelo sokwenza amakhaya ethu abe mnandi.
Ukugwema ukuphathwa yikhanda kwesabelomali, vele ushiye indawo lapho ukuze unkosikazi wakho azenzele imihlobiso ethile, aphonse imicamelo, noma amakhethini amasha. Ngiyazi ukuthi ingqondo ehluzekile ngaphakathi kuwe iyamemeza, "KODWA ASIZIDINGI LEZOZINTO!" Ngiyazi, ngiyazi. Singahle singazidingi, kepha kungenzeka ukuthi umkakho uzozifuna. Futhi uma esesebenzise umlingo wakhe futhi ependa indwangu engenalutho yendlu yakho ngephalethi lakhe lokuhlobisa okusha, uzojabula uma umvumela. Unkosikazi wami nguye owenza le ndlu ibe yikhaya. Uletha le knick knacks engahleliwe nezicucu zokuhlobisa ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi anginakile ukuthi ziyini nokuthi bazoya kuphi. Kepha isikhathi esiningi, usebenzisa kahle ukuthenga futhi ukhipha okuhle ekhaya lethu.
Izinkinga zezezimali zingenye yezingqinamba ezinkulu emibhangqwaneni eshadile, ngakho-ke yenza ubuhlobo bakho bube nomusa futhi unikeze umkakho igumbi elincane lokuzulazula lapho ubhala isabelomali esilandelayo.
Dala uhlelo "lomcibisholo Wobumnini" emshadweni wakho
Kulabo eningajwayelene ne-basketball yasekolishi futhi kungumcibisholo odumile wokutholwa, ake nginiphulele wona. Lapho la maqembu womabili ephithizela elwela ukuthola ibhola, bese eza nokuqina, umcibisholo wokuphatha unquma ukuthi ngubani ozolilawula ibhola. Ngakho-ke, uma kwelinye iqembu elinenkinga yokulwa nelinye liklonyeliswa nge-basketball, iThimba B lizothola ithuba lokuthatha ifa uma kukhona omunye umbango ongacaciswanga webhola.
Emshadweni wakho, sebenzisa umgomo womcibisholo wokuphatha ukusiza ukunquma izimpikiswano ongeke ukwazi ukuvumelana ngazo. Ake sithi unkosikazi wakho ufuna ukuvuselela ikhishi, futhi wena awuboni kuwumqondo omuhle lowo. Uma, ngemuva kokubeka zombili izimpikiswano zakho, namanje awukwazi ukuvumelana, vumela umcibisholo wokuphatha unqume. Uma okwamanje kuvuna wena, khona-ke ikhishi aliphinde lenziwe kabusha. Ngokuzayo lapho unengxabano engafinyeleli esiphethweni esibekiwe, unkosikazi wakho nguye oyothatha isinqumo. Izogcina izimpikiswano zakho nokungavumelani kwakho kujabulise, kepha kuzokwakha nomthetho ofanele wonke umuntu okuzodingeka awudlale ngawo. Ukuphikisana okuhle!
Lalela, fellas, umshado usebenza kanzima. Ngiyazi ukuthi i-cliche, kepha kunjalo. Ukuthi “Ngiyakwenza” ngosuku lwakho lomshado ngeke kugcine uthando luphila kuze kube usuku lokufa kwakho. Udinga ukuthola ukuthi yini okusebenzelayo, wenqabe okungakusebenzisi, futhi uhlale uvela komunye nomunye. Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, hleka kancane. Kungumgwaqo omude wokuhamba ngobuso obuqondile, ngakho-ke ungesabi ukuzithathela wena nomshado wakho njengobucayi. Gcina kukhanya, kumnandi, futhi uzijabulise!