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- 1. Akasazenzi izinto ezincane
- 2. Ushintshe indlela abukeka ngayo
- 3. Isicelo esandisiwe sobumfihlo
- 4. Nichitha isikhathi esincane ndawonye
- 5. Ngokushesha uchitha isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini
- 6. Unabangani abasha
- 7. Uhlala ematasatasa njalo
- 8. Akasenandaba nocansi
Awuqondile ukuba nomona, kepha ngabe kukhona okwenzekayo ngemuva kwakho nonkosikazi wakho noma intombi yakho?
Uma okuthile esiswini sakho kuthi ubudlelwano bakho buzwakala bungasebenzi, kufanele uqale ngokuvula amehlo akho ukuthola izimpawu zokungathembeki kwabesifazane nezinye izimpawu zomfazi okopelayo ukuze ukwazi ukunquma ukuthi isinyathelo sakho esilandelayo kufanele sibe yini.
Lapho okuthile kungahambi kahle ebudlelwaneni bakho, kwesinye isikhathi uyazi nje noma ungenabo ubufakazi obuqinile. Ngakho-ke, ungayiletha kanjani entombini yakho ngaphandle kokubonakala sengathi umona nje? Noma, ungasho kanjani ukuthi intombi yakho ikukopela ngokuqinisekile?
Izimpawu zokungathembeki kwabesifazane kulula ukuzibona kunokuba ucabanga. Kunezimpawu zomzimba ezisobala intombi yakho ekukhohlisayo. Kepha, uma ushadile, kuba lula kuwe ukuzibona lezo zimpawu zomzimba ezicashile umkakho akhohlisayo.
Odinga ukukwenza ukugcina amehlo nezindlebe zakho zivulekile ukubamba lezo zimpawu zokungathembeki kwabesifazane ukuphendula umbuzo wakho, "uyangikhohlisa?"
Nazi izimpawu eziyi-8 zokungathembeki kwabesifazane nezinye izimpawu zokukopela ebudlelwaneni.
1. Akasazenzi izinto ezincane
Izinto ezincane empeleni zingaba yingxenye enempilo kunazo zonke zobuhlobo. Ukugcina izinto ezincane, njengokuphekelana ikhofi ekuseni, ukuqabulana ngaphambi komsebenzi, ukuncoma nokubonisa ukwazisa kungukhiye ebudlelwaneni obuhlala isikhathi eside, obujabulisayo.
Ukubambana ngezandla utshela umlingani wakho ukuthi ubazisa kangakanani njalo kwenza izinhlangothi zombili zizizwe zithandwa, zidingeka futhi zingathathwa kalula.
Ngokuqinisekile kungenye yalezo zimpawu zokungathembeki kwenkosikazi lapho unkosikazi wakho noma intombi yakho iyekile ukwenza izinto ezincane ebekade ezenza. Noma engakopeli okwamanje, kuyifulegi elibomvu ukuthi akaneme ebudlelwaneni.
2. Ushintshe indlela abukeka ngayo
Lapho uqala okuthile okusha ngokuchoboza, owesifazane uthanda ukubukeka emuhle kakhulu. Lokhu kusho ukugqoka; izinwele, izimonyo, imisebenzi. Ufuna umlingani wakhe acabange ukuthi muhle.
Kepha, njengoba nje ubumkhiphela zonke izinsuku ngesikhathi sesigaba sothando lomdlwane ebudlelwaneni bakho, phakathi nobudlelwano besikhathi eside, kungenzeka ukuthi isifiso sakhe sokugcizelela ukubukeka kwakhe saphela.
Lapho eke wagqoka khona izithende no-tights, manje usekhululeke ngokwengeziwe ukuzigoqa nawe kusofa kuma-PJs akhe. Lokhu kunguquko yemvelo enobudlelwano besikhathi eside.
Lapho unkosikazi wakho eqala ukunaka ukubukeka kwakhe, kungahle kukunake futhi lokho kungaba ngesinye sezimpawu umkakho akukhohlisa ngazo.
Uma intombi yakho noma unkosikazi wakho ethandana, angaqala ukugqoka kaningi, aye ejimini, futhi anake ngaphezu kokujwayelekile indlela abukeka ngayo kungenzeka ukuthi uzama ukujabulisa omunye umuntu.
3. Isicelo esandisiwe sobumfihlo
Ungasho kanjani uma umkakho ekopela? Kulungile! Esinye sezimpawu ezisobala zokungathembeki kwabesifazane yisidingo esandayo semfihlo.
Ngabe ufihla kakhulu ubuchwepheshe bakhe? Abantu bathatha izingcingo zabo baya kuzo zonke izindawo. Kuhle ukuhlala uxhumana nabangane, uzakwethu, nomsebenzi. Kodwa-ke, futhi kungaba usizo oluhle kakhulu angaluthola ekukopeleni. Ungangeza kalula oxhumana naye omusha ngaphansi kwegama elingamanga, noma afihle izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola emehlweni.
Izimpawu zokungathembeki kwabesifazane zifaka ukuphuma egumbini lapho ushaya ucingo, ukuba nefoni yakhe ngokweqile, nokususa njalo umlando kufoni yakhe / kwi-laptop / kuthebhulethi yakhe.
Uma umlingani wakho engavulelekile kumadivayisi akhe ngendlela abekade eyiyo, kungenzeka ngoba kukhona akufihlela khona futhi lokho kungenye yezimpawu ezinamandla kakhulu ukuthi umkakho ukhohlisa.
4. Nichitha isikhathi esincane ndawonye
Ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye njengombhangqwana yikhona okusizayo ekwakheni isibopho. Noma ngabe nizulazula ndawonye ekhaya, niphuma nasebusuku, noma nichitha isikhathi neqembu labangane bobabili, ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye ukulindelwe okujabulisayo.
Uma kushiwo lokho, esinye sezibonakaliso azikhohlisayo uma nichitha isikhathi esincane kakhulu sindawonye kunokuvamile. Okungenani, lokhu kungenye yezimpawu ezivelele zokungathembeki kowesifazane, okukhombisa ukuthi akasenandaba nawe futhi mhlawumbe usukela omunye umuntu.
Ngaphandle kokuthi enze umsebenzi omusha noma njengamanje ubhekene nokukhathazeka ngokomzwelo, izimpawu zokuthi udinga isikhathi “eyedwa” akusona isibonakaliso esihle sokwethembeka ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza ukuthi wazi kanjani ukuthi intombazane yakho ikopela, vele ubheke enye yalezi zimpawu zokungathembeki kwabesifazane.
5. Ngokushesha uchitha isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini
Ukuhlala sekwephuzile ehhovisi kungaba uphawu lokuthi uzibophezele ngokweqile emsebenzini wakhe noma ukuthi uzibophezele ngokweqile komunye umuntu. Uma ukuhlala isikhathi sekwephuzile emsebenzini kungejwayelekile kuye, ungakuthatha lokhu njengesinye sezimpawu zokuthi unkosikazi okopelayo, kunenkinga enkulu ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Ikakhulukazi uma umsebenzi wakhe ubonakala umthatha ngezimpelasonto noma "ubusuku bonke" wemisebenzi yomsebenzi lapho ungakaze wenze khona ngaphambili.
Lesi ngesinye sezimpawu zokungathembeki kwabesifazane ezivame kakhulu futhi ezibonakalayo umuntu angahlangabezana nazo. Futhi ubuzibuza, "ngazi kanjani ukuthi umkami uyangikhohlisa noma cha?"
6. Unabangani abasha
Ukwakha oxhumana nabo abasha kanye nemibuthano yezenhlalo akusho ukuthi umkakho ukukopela. Kodwa-ke, ngesinye sezimpawu ezisobala zokungathembeki kwabesifazane ukuphendula umbuzo wakho, "ungasho kanjani ukuthi intombi yakho ikukhohlisa ngokuqinisekile?"
Ngabe umkakho noma intombi yakho manje ichitha isikhathi esiningi ngokweqile nabantu abasha?
Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, ukwenza abangane abasha akusilo uphawu lokuthi intombi yakho iyakopela, kepha isimilo sayo ngabo sithinta izimpawu zokuthi intombi yakho iyakopela.
Isibonelo, ingabe uchitha isikhathi nabangane abasha, kepha akafuni ukukwazisa kubo?
Ngabe laba "bangani abasha" bayamkhipha kuze kube yihora lonke lobusuku ngendlela engajwayelekile?
Ingabe uvame ukuhlehlisa ukuchitha isikhathi nawe ukuze achithe isikhathi nabangane abasha?
Uma benindawonye isikhathi esithile manje kungenzeka niyabazi abangane abaseduze bomlingani wakho. Uma intombazane yakho iyekile ukuchitha isikhathi nomndeni wayo, umndeni wakho, noma abangane bakho bobabili futhi manje kunwaya ukuba yingxenye yeqembu elisha angaba nentshisekelo komunye umuntu.
Futhi lokho ngokuqinisekile kungesinye sezimpawu eziyisixwayiso sentombi ekopelayo.
7. Uhlala ematasatasa njalo
Akukaze kube uphawu oluhle lapho umkakho noma intombi yakho izobonakala ingakuniki isikhathi sosuku. Ngokungafani nokukhohlisa amadoda, abesifazane abakhohlisayo abavamile ukuba nentshisekelo yokuhlanganisa izintambo nabalingani ababili.
Esikhundleni salokho, bazolahlekelwa intshisekelo kokunye bese begxila sonke isikhathi sabo nokunaka kokunye. Uma intombi yakho ikopela, ungahle ubone ushintsho olungazelelwe kusheduli yakhe.
Uma uthola ukuthi ngeke usamkhipha ngaphandle kokunikeza isaziso kusengaphambili lokhu kungaba ngesinye sezimpawu zokuthi unkosikazi uyakhohlisa.
8. Akasenandaba nocansi
Enye yezindlela ezinkulu imibhangqwana exhuma ngayo ngokomzwelo ukuhlangana ngocansi. Lapho owesifazane e-orgasms ngesikhathi socansi ingqondo yakhe ikhipha i-jolt ye-oxytocin, eyehlisa imigoqo yokwethembana futhi idale isibopho esiqinile phakathi kwenu nobabili.
Lokhu okunamathiselwe kubalulekile ebudlelwaneni obuqinile. Kuphinde kwehlise nengcindezi, engenza abalingani babe nokuthula ngokwengeziwe.
Uma kukhulunywa ngezimpawu zokungathembeki kwabesifazane, ukungafuni ukuya ocansini kuyinto enkulu. Ngakho-ke, lapho intombi yakho iqala ukukhombisa ukungabi nentshisekelo noma umdlandla empilweni yakho yezocansi kunethuba lokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi idala isibopho kwenye indawo.
Ungakunaki lokhu kuziphatha kwakhe ngoba lokhu kungaba ngesinye sezimpawu zokukhohlisa izintombi / unkosikazi.
Kunokuthile okungashiwo ngokuxolelwa ebudlelwaneni, ikakhulukazi uma nakhe impilo nomndeni ndawonye. Kepha, akufanele neze ubekezelele ukungathembeki, noma.
Musa ukuchitha isikhathi sakho ngokungadingekile nomuntu ongakwazisi, noma nomuntu oluthatha kalula uthando lwakho.
Ngabe usazibuza ukuthi ungasho kanjani uma owesifazane ekopela? Kwangathi lezi zimpawu zokungathembeki kwabesifazane zingakunika izimpendulo ozifunayo.