-Delile
- Septhemba 21, 1996
- 1996-1999
- Novemba 18, 2003
- Februwari 12, 2004-Mashi 11, 2004
- Februwari 20, 2004
- Februwari 24, 2004
- Februwari 27, 2004
- Meyi 17, 2004
- Novemba 2, 2004
Isikhathi siyahamba, kuncane futhi lapho sizwa khona ngemishado yezitabane, engijabule ngayo.
Akukhona ukuthi angikholelwa ukuthi izitabane kufanele zikwazi ukushada; Ukudinwa kwami kubangelwa ukuthi kungani kuyinkinga kwasekuqaleni.
Isitabane noma iqonde, uthando uthando. Umshado usungulwe othandweni, ngakho-ke kungani kufanele sinakekele uma abantu ababili abanobulili obufanayo befuna ukushada?
Ukube umshado "ubungcwele" njengoba abaphikisi bezothi ungcwele, izinga lesehlukaniso belingeke libe phezulu njengoba linjalo. Kungani ungavumeli omunye umuntu ukuthi ayidubule?
Sekuyiminyaka embalwa manje selokhu kwaba semthethweni umshado wezitabane e-United States. Abantu abaningi kungenzeka ukuthi bakhohliwe impi ekhuphukayo eyathathwa ngumphakathi we-LBGT eminyakeni eyandulela lesi sinqumo esikhulu.
Nganoma yikuphi ukulwela amalungelo abantu-i-African-American, abesifazane, njll.kube nokulingwa okuningi nezinsizi eziholele ekutheni ukulingana emshadweni kube ngumthetho.
Kubalulekile ukuthi singazikhohlwa lezo zingqinamba, futhi sigweme ukubuka lolu daba ngokusebenzisa i-lens 2017. Impi yomshado wobulili obufanayo iqale kahle ngaphambi kwezimo zethu zamanje, futhi lowo mlando ungofanelwe ukuxoxwa kabusha.
Buka futhi:
Septhemba 21, 1996
Ukushada kwezitabane kuvame ukubhekwa njengombuso wentando yeningi uma kuqhathaniswa nenkinga ye-republican; imvamisa, abentando yeningi bayayenza ngenkathi ozakwabo baseRepublican bengeyena umlandeli. Isizathu sokuthi lolu suku lunamathele kimi kungenxa yokuthi ngubani owayengasemva kwalo.
Ngalolu suku ngo-1996, uBill Clinton wasayina uMthetho Wezokuvikela Womshado ovimbela ukwamukelwa kombuso ngemishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo futhi echaza umshado “njengenhlangano esemthethweni phakathi kwendoda eyodwa nowesifazane oyedwa njengendoda nenkosikazi.”
Yebo, yena lowo Bill Bill owayengumuntu oyinhloko yeqembu lentando yeningi e-United States selokhu aba ngumongameli. Ngicabanga ukuthi kuningi okushintshile eminyakeni engama-20 edlule.
1996-1999
Izizwe ezinjengeHawaii neVermont zizama ukunikeza imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo amalungelo afanayo nemibhangqwana engabobulili obuhlukile.
Umzamo waseHawaii wadluliswa isikhashana ngemuva kokuqaliswa kwawo, kanti iVermont's yaphumelela. Kuzo zombili lezi zimo akuvumelekile isitabane umshado, ivele yanikeza imibhangqwana eyizitabane amalungelo asemthethweni afanayo neyabantu abathandana nabobulili obuhlukile.
Novemba 18, 2003
INkantolo Ephakeme yaseMassachusetts ikhipha isinqumo sokuthi ukuvinjelwa komshado wobulili obufanayo akuhambisani nomthethosisekelo. Yisinqumo sokuqala sohlobo lwaso.
Februwari 12, 2004-Mashi 11, 2004
Ngokuphikisana nomthetho wezwe, idolobha laseSan Francisco laqala ukuvumela nokwenza imishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo.
Ngo-Mashi 11, iNkantolo Ephakeme yaseCalifornia yayalela iSan Francisco ukuthi iyeke ukukhipha amalayisense emishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo.
Esikhathini esingangenyanga lapho iSan Francisco ibinikeza amalayisense emishado futhi yenza imishado yezitabane, abantu abangaphezu kuka-4,000 basebenzise leli chink ezingutsheni zempi.
Februwari 20, 2004
Ngokubona umfutho osuka enhlanganweni eSan Francisco, eSandoval County, eNew Mexico ukhiphe amalayisense emishado yobulili obufanayo angama-26. Ngeshwa, la malayisense achithwa ekupheleni kosuku ngummeli-jikelele wombuso.
Februwari 24, 2004
UMongameli uGeorge W. Bush uzwakalisa ukusekela kwakhe ukuchitshiyelwa komthethosisekelo wesifundazwe okuvimbela ukushada kwabantu bobulili obufanayo.
Februwari 27, 2004
UJason West, imeya yaseNew Paltz, eNew York, wenze imikhosi yomshado yemibhangqwana engaba yishumi nambili.
NgoJuni walowo nyaka, iNtshonalanga yakhishwa umyalo waphakade yiNkantolo Ephakeme Yase-Ulster ngokulwa nokushada nabashadile.
Ngalesi sikhathi ekuqaleni kuka-2004, ukucindezela kwamalungelo emishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo kwakubukeka kumbi. Ngazo zonke izinyathelo eziya phambili, bekukhona okungaphezu kwezinyathelo ezimbalwa emuva.
Njengoba uMongameli wase-United States ekhombisa ukweseka ukuvinjelwa komshado wezitabane, bekungabukeki sengathi kuzoba nempumelelo enkulu ukuya phambili.
Meyi 17, 2004
IMassachusetts yenze ngokusemthethweni umshado wezitabane. Babengumbuso wokuqala ukuphuma ekhabethe lomshado wezitabane futhi bavumela noma ngubani, ngaphandle kokukhetha ubulili, ukuthi ashade.
Lokhu kube yimpumelelo enkulu emphakathini we-LGBT kwazise bebehlangabezana nokuphikiswa okunjalo okuvela kubomthetho ekuqaleni konyaka.
Novemba 2, 2004
Ngokunokwenzeka ekuphenduleni ukunqoba komphakathi we-LGBT eMassachusetts, izifundazwe eziyi-11 zidlulisa izichibiyelo zomthethosisekelo ezichaza umshado njengobucayi phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane.
Lezi zifaka phakathi: i-Arkansas, iGeorgia, iKentucky, iMichigan, iMississippi, iMontana, iNorth Dakota, i-Ohio, i-Oklahoma, i-Oregon ne-Utah.
Eminyakeni eyishumi ezayo, kulo lonke izwe balwela kanzima ukuvinjelwa komshado wobulili obufanayo noma umthetho ovumela noma yibaphi abantu bobulili obufanayo ukuthi bashade.
Izizwe ezinjengeVermont, New York, neCalifornia zivotele ukwamukela imithetho evumela ukushada kwabantu bobulili obufanayo.
Amazwe afana ne-Alabama neTexas akhethe ukusayina imithetho evimbela ukushada kwezitabane. Ngesinyathelo ngasinye sokulingana emshadweni, bekubonakala kunenkinga ezinkantolo, emaphepheni, noma kwesinye isicelo.
Ngo-2014 kwabuye kwangena u-2015, igagasi laqala ukushintsha.
Izizwe ezazingathathi hlangothi ngendaba yomshado wezitabane zaqala ukususa imingcele yazo kubantu abathandana nabobulili obufanayo kanye nemishado yabo, kwavumela umfutho wokwakhela ukunyakaza kokulingana komshado.
NgoJuni 26, 2015, iNkantolo Ephakeme yase-U.S. Yakhipha isinqumo esingu-5-4 sokuthi umshado wezitabane uzoba semthethweni kuzo zonke izifunda ezingama-50.
Indlela Izimo Nemibono Eshintshe Ngayo Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi
Ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yama-1990, ngemuva nje kokuthi uBill Clinton esayine iDefence of Marriage Act, iningi labantu baseMelika lalingavumi ukushada kwabantu bobulili obufanayo; Abangu-57% bayiphikisile, kwathi abangu-35% bayixhasa.
Ngokwenhlolovo ekhonjiwe ku-pewforum.org, u-2016 ukhombise umehluko omkhulu kulezi zinombolo zangaphambili.
Ukwesekwa komshado wezitabane bekubukeka kuguquka eminyakeni engu-20 selokhu uClinton azulazula usiba lwakhe ekhasini: ama-55% manje asexhasa umshado wabantu bobulili obufanayo ngenkathi bangu-37% kuphela abawuphikisayo.
Izikhathi zashintsha, abantu bashintsha, futhi ekugcineni, ukulingana kwemishado kwaba namandla.
Isiko lethu selithambile emphakathini wezitabane ikakhulu ngoba seziyabonakala. Sekuvele abesilisa nabesifazane abengeziwe abayizithunzela futhi bakhombise ukuziqhenya kwabo ngokuthi bangobani.
Lokho iningi lethu selikubonile ukuthi laba bantu abahlukile neze. Basathanda, basebenze, banakekele, futhi baphila njengathi sonke.
Njengoba abantu abaningi sebethole ukufana kwabo nabantu abathandana nabo ababazungezile, kube lula ukubona ukuthi nabo bafanelwe ukudutshulwa emshadweni.
Akudingeki ukuthi kube yiklabhu ekhethekile; singakwazi ukukhokhela abantu abambalwa abafuna ukuthandana impilo yonke.