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Ukugcina umkhaya wokutholwa osebenza kahle kuyinselele enzima; cabanga ngalo mndeni omusha inyunyana phakathi kwemindeni emibili ephukile futhi iyunithi ngayinye iza nokuhluka kwayo nezinkinga zayo.
Izehlukaniso zinzima futhi zishiya umthelela osindayo hhayi kubazali kuphela kepha nasezinganeni, futhi ukuzifaka ezweni elingajwayelekile lezingane zakubo, futhi umzali wesinyathelo kungaba nzima kubo ukuba baqonde.
Ukuphatha umndeni ohlangene kudinga ukuzwela, ukuyala, ukunakekela, nokubambisana okuhle.
Njengomndeni wenuzi, ohlangene usebenza ngaphansi kwemigomo efanayo, noma kunjalo, ukuze zonke izingxenye zomndeni ohlangene zihlangane ngempela, isikhathi eside nokubekezela kuyisidingo esiyinhloko.
Lo mbhalo uzocubungula kabanzi ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene eziqinisa izisekelo zomndeni wokutholwa; inhloso lapha ukukuhlomisa ngolwazi lokuthi ungabhekana kanjani kangcono nalesi simo esiseduze, ukuze wena nomndeni wakho niphumelele ndawonye ngaphandle kokuhlukana eminyakeni embalwa yokuqala.
Ukuhleleka, nokuyala
Ukuze noma yisiphi isikhungo sichume ngokunqoba, isiyalo nokuhleleka kubaluleke kakhulu. Izingane zidinga isiyalo, zidinga ukwakheka nokuholwa ngabazali bazo, ukuze bakwazi ukuhola izimpilo zabo ngaphandle kwezinxushunxushu. Lokhu okushiwo kufaka phakathi izindlela ezifanele zokulala, ukudla, ukutadisha nesikhathi sokudlala.
Setha amashejuli ezingane zakho, ubenzele uhlu lokuqedela imisebenzi yabo yasekhaya, ubasize ngomsebenzi wabo wesikole, babekele isikhathi sokufika ekhaya futhi ngokwenza kanjalo babeke imithetho yasekhaya ebalulekile abadinga ukuyilandela kungenjalo bazobekwa phansi.
Gcina lokhu engqondweni, ukuthi kuwumqondo omuhle ukushiya isiyalo kubazali bemvelo eminyakeni embalwa yokuqala, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi usingamzali uyilungu elingajwayelekile emndenini, futhi nezingane azibabheki njengabazali futhi azibaniki ilungelo lokwenza into eyodwa.
Lokhu kungaholela entukuthelweni ngasohlangothini lomzali wesinyathelo, ngakho-ke kungcono ukuthi usingamzali ahlale eceleni, aqaphele, futhi asekele ngenkathi umzali wangempela ekhipha isiyalo.
Ukulungiswa kwezingxabano
Imvamisa, uzohlangana nokuxabana phakathi kwezingane zakubo, ukubangisana okungahle kube khona, ukuxhumana okungafanele, ukulwa okuncane, nokungaziphathi kahle, futhi uma kushiywe kungavunyelwe emndenini ohlangene lezi zingxabano zingakhuphuka futhi ziholele ekulweni okungathi sína hhayi nje phakathi kwezingane kepha nabazali njengoba kahle.
Kubalulekile ukuthi bobabili abazali beme njengabagunyaziwe ezimweni ezinjalo ezishubile futhi bathathe isinyathelo esiqinile sokuxazulula izingxabano izingane zabo ezibhekene nazo ngenkuthalo. Qiniseka ukuthi zonke izingane zakho ziphephile, futhi ayikho enye ingane yakini endala ebusa noma ehlukumeza abancane.
Lesi yisikhathi lapho kudingeka ukusebenzisana, futhi abazali kufanele basebenze ngokubonisana nezingane ukubathulisa futhi babavumele ukuthi bakhulume nganoma yini esuse le mpi yezelamani.
Isilingo sokuma nengane yakho emvelo sizokuchukuluza ukuthi uchemile.
Cabanga nje ngalokhu njengesimo somndeni lapho wonke amalungu ebaluleke ngokulinganayo uma oshade naye engamelana nalesi silingo ukwedlula nawe.
Ukulingana
Ukuchema maqondana nezakhi zakho zofuzo kungokwemvelo kunentambo, futhi kungalawulwa ngokucabanga nangokunengqondo.
Khumbula njalo ukugcina intshisekelo yawo wonke umndeni enhliziyweni; yebo, nonke niwumndeni ophelele manje, futhi izingane zoshade naye ngezenu futhi okuphambene nalokho.
Ngeke nje unikeze umusa ezinganeni zakho futhi ulindele ukusebenza njengeyunithi yomndeni owodwa; ukulingana kubalulekile emndenini ohlanganisiwe, akekho umuntu othola ukwelashwa okukhethekile ngokuba nenzuzo yezinto eziphilayo, uma ingane yakho ididekile bayojeziswa njengabo bonke abanye, futhi uma kukhulunywa ngothando nothando, ayikho ingane engazitshwa.
Ukubaluleka kokulingana kubaluleke kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngokuthatha izinqumo okubandakanya wonke umndeni; kuwumsebenzi wenu njengabazali ukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke amazwi ayezwakala, futhi akukho mqondo noma isiphakamiso esishiywa ngemuva.
Kungaba lula njengokuthatha indawo yokudlela ozoya kuyo noma ukuthenga imoto, noma ukuhlela uhambo lomndeni, njll. Thatha ukuqonda kuwo wonke umuntu.
Ukuhlehla kwezithandani
Phakathi kwalomzabalazo oxakile nokho omuhle sihlala sikhohlwa ukuchitha isikhathi nomunye njengabantu abashadile. Khumbula ukuthi nawe ungumbhangqwana oshadile, hhayi nje abazali.
Zinikeni isikhathi senu sokukhulumisana noma niye osukwini, mane niphumule izingane bese nihlangana ndawonye.
Ukusinda komndeni wakho ohlangene kuncike ebuhlotsheni bakho kuphela, lapho uxhuma kakhulu wena nomlingani wakho, umndeni wakho uxhuma kakhulu. Hlela izinto ndawonye enithanda ukuzenza ndawonye; kuyindlela enhle yokulahla izingane zakho ezihlotsheni noma komakhelwane ukuze nobabili nisebenzise isikhathi esihle ndawonye.