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- Yiziphi izidingo ezingokomzwelo zomuntu?
- 1. Isidingo sokuzwakala
- 2. Isidingo sokuba ngowakho / ukwamukelwa
- 3. Isidingo sokuphepha / ukwethembana
- 4. Isidingo sokuklanywa / ukubekwa phambili / umuzwa wokubaluleka
- 5. Isidingo sokuzizwa ufisa / ukusondelana
Bonke ubudlelwano buhlukile ngokwalokho okudingwa imibhangqwana komunye nomunye, nokuthi bafunani ebudlelwaneni babo.
Kodwa-ke, kunezidingo ezibaluleke kakhulu ezingokomzwelo abantu ababelana ngazo ngokufanayo, izidingo obekufanele zifezekiswe ukuze uzizwe ugcwaliseka ngophathina othandana naye.
Yiziphi izidingo ezingokomzwelo zomuntu?
Nalu uhlu lwezidingo ezi-5 ezingokomzwelo ebudlelwaneni okufanele imibhangqwana ikwazi, futhi isebenzele ukufeza omunye komunye.
1. Isidingo sokuzwakala
Akunandaba ngesihloko, ukuze uzizwe waziswa futhi ubalulekile kozakwethu, wonke umuntu udinga ukuzizwa ezwakala.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele nivumelane ngazwi linye ngakho konke okushiwo umlingani wakho, kepha kufanele ulalele futhi uhloniphe umbono wabo.
Lokhu kufaka ukulalela ngenkuthalo kozakwethu ngamunye, ukukhombisa abakuzwile komunye nomunye, nokusebenzisa lokho abakufunde komunye, noma ukusebenzisa lolu lwazi ebuhlotsheni babo ukuya phambili.
2. Isidingo sokuba ngowakho / ukwamukelwa
Uhlakulela kanjani ukusondelana ngokomzwelo?
Umlingani ngamunye udinga ukuzizwa sengathi wamukelwa ngumlingani wakhe ukuthi ungubani, ngaphandle kwamaphutha, ukungapheleli, noma ukuphepha.
Amalungu wombhangqwana kufanele azizwe ukuthi ayingxenye yento enkulu kunawo. Umlingani ngamunye udinga ukuzizwa esekhaya ebudlelwaneni babo, futhi anethezeke ngokwanele ukwabelana ngalokho abakucabangayo nokuzizwa kwabo, ngaphandle kokwahlulela noma ukwenqatshwa.
Futhi, le yindlela ongakhulisa ngayo ukusondelana ngokomzwelo nomlingani wakho.
3. Isidingo sokuphepha / ukwethembana
Ngokufanayo, umlingani ngamunye udinga ukuzwa ukuthi angamethemba umuntu abathandana naye, nokuthi baphephile ebudlelwaneni babo.
Lokhu kungasho izinto ezihlukile kubantu abahlukahlukene kepha kungabandakanya ukuzizwa uvikelekile ebudlelwaneni bakho, uphephile ukwabelana nganoma yini oyithandayo, kufaka phakathi yonke imicabango nemizwa.
Ukuthembana kubalulekile kunoma yibuphi ubuhlobo, obothando noma obunye.
Umbhangqwana ngamunye udinga ukuvikela ukholo lwawo komunye nomunye futhi uthembe ukuthi omunye uzobavikela, futhi ubenze bazizwe bethandwa.
4. Isidingo sokuklanywa / ukubekwa phambili / umuzwa wokubaluleka
Kubaluleke kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umuntu ukuthi ezwe ukuthi ubalulekile kozakwabo, nokuthi eze phambi kwabanye abantu, ezinye izibophezelo, nezinye izici empilweni yomlingani wakhe, ngaphakathi kwesizathu.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi umuntu akufanele abe nomuzwa wokuzimela, noma abangane, noma impilo engaphandle kobudlelwano babo. Kepha umlingani ngamunye kufanele azizwe ehlonishwa ngomunye, futhi azi ukuthi uma bedinga omunye, bazobekwa phambili.
5. Isidingo sokuzizwa ufisa / ukusondelana
Uyamangala, ukukuthola kanjani ukwaneliseka ngokomzwelo?
Bona, kubalulekile ukuthi amalungu ezithandani ezithandanayo azizwe efiswa ngumlingani wawo, noma azizwe ezingeni lokusondelana nomlingani wakhe. Kepha, lokhu akudingeki ukuthi kubandakanye ucansi.
Ukusondelana kungasho ukusondelana, noma ukusondelana ngasese.
Okuthile okuncane njengokuhaga noma ukwanga kungaba ukusondelana, noma ukubheka nje okwabiwe egumbini eligcwele abantu.
Kuyingxenye ebalulekile yanoma yibuphi ubudlelwano obunempilo ukuze umlingani azizwe efiswa ezingeni elisondelene futhi uthole ukwaneliseka ngokomzwelo.