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- Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukukhuluma
- Sondeza isihloko endaweni enomusa nothando
- Okungahle kuqhubeke nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezinkinga
- Ngabe umyeni wami akajabule ngenxa yesimo sakhe sobungcweti?
- Ngabe umyeni wami akakwazi ukukhomba ukuthi kungani engajabule?
- Kuthiwani ngawe? Ubhekana kanjani nendoda engajabule?
- Yazi ukuthi ukuhlala nomlingani ongajabule akulula
- Hlala ohlangothini olufanayo lwempi
- Mnakekele, kodwa nawe zinakekele
- Khombisa umyeni wakho ukuthi uyakwemukela ukumsiza azisize
- Umuphelezele lapho eyovakashelwa ubudokotela
- Iba nesineke
Kwakungenjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Wayengenjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Eminyakeni yokuqala yomshado wakho, umyeni wakho wayekhanya, ephila futhi ethokozile. Kepha manje uqaphela ushintsho. Ubonakala edabukile futhi ecindezelekile. Imvamisa akekho noma ahlanganyele ezingxoxweni zomndeni noma emisebenzini.
Inhlansi yakhe endala ayisekho lapho. Ubonakala enesithukuthezi futhi ehamba nje ngokunyakaza emsebenzini nasekhaya. Impilo yakho yothando isicabalele noma ayikho. Ukhathazekile. Ufuna ukumsiza. Uzibuza ukuthi uzobhekana kanjani nendoda engajabule.
Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukukhuluma
Ngakho-ke, ingabe uzithola ubuza ukuthi, "ngisebenzelana kanjani nendoda engajabule?"
Uma ungazi ukuthi yini ebangela ukungajabuli kwakhe, ngeke wazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nendoda engajabule. Ngakho beka eceleni isikhathi nendawo yokuhlala bese umbuza ukuthi yini emkhathazayo. Qiniseka ukuthi le ngxoxo yenzeka endaweni ekahle: khetha isikhashana esizolile (hhayi ngesikhathi sokudla esidliwayo lapho izingane zikhona) nalapho ubona khona ukuthi uzoyivumela ingxoxo.
Mhlawumbe hlelani kusihlwa niye endaweni yokudlela ethule, noma nihambe ndawonye lapho nizokwazi ukukhuluma ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Vala izingcingo zakho bese ubamba izandla ukuze uzizwe sengathi uxhuma ngempela le ngxoxo ebalulekile.
Sondeza isihloko endaweni enomusa nothando
Ukubona ukuthi umyeni wakho akajabule kungakhathaza, kepha futhi kungaba ukuqala kokuguqula isimo esisindayo emshadweni wakho. Ukuvula ingxoxo, zama into efana nokuthi “Ngiyabona ukuthi ubukeka ungajabule kamuva nje. Ungangitshela ukuthi ngabe kwenzekani? ” Le yindlela engcono yokuqala kunokuthi “Ubuso bakho obucindezelekile buhlala buyangihlanyisa. Jabula! ”
Okungahle kuqhubeke nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezinkinga
Ngabe umyeni wami akajabule ngenxa yami?
Lo ngumbuzo obalulekile okufanele uwubuze ngaphandle kokubuza ukuthi, "ngisebenzelana kanjani nendoda engajabule?"
Mhlawumbe ubulokhu ungazinaki izimpawu ezincane zokwazisa ezidingwa amadoda ukuze azizwe ebonwa, ezwa futhi ethandwa ngabalingani bawo. Mhlawumbe uzizwa ugxile kakhulu emsebenzini wakho, noma ezinganeni, futhi uzizwa engabonakali.
Mhlawumbe udinga ukuthi unake kakhulu ukubukeka kwakho komzimba; mhlawumbe ushintshanisa lawo mabhulukwe amadala e-yoga ngokuthile okuthize okunesitayela esithe xaxa sokugqoka kwakho ngempelasonto.
Ngabe umyeni wami akajabule ngenxa yesimo sakhe sobungcweti?
Uma kunjalo, makaphume. Kwesinye isikhathi konke okudingwa ngumyeni ongajabulekeli ukuthi omunye wakhe obalulekile-wena- ulalele ngozwelo kwizikhalazo zakhe.
Kungenzeka angakudingi ukuthi uze nezisombululo eziqinile zalokho okumcasulayo emsebenzini, kepha uzobonga ngendlebe yakho elalelayo. Uma evulekile, cela ukubonisana naye ngezixazululo ezithile.
Ngabe umyeni wami akakwazi ukukhomba ukuthi kungani engajabule?
Kungenzeka yini ukuthi uhlangabezana nokudangala okuthile okungajwayelekile? Uma engakwazi ukukhomba noma yini, ikakhulukazi, engamdalela ukungajabuli, kungasiza ukuphakamisa ukuthi abonane nochwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo ongakhipha lokho okungaba yimizwa yakhe.
Esinye isiphakamiso kungaba ukuthi ahlele ukuhlolwa ngokomzimba nodokotela ukuze abone ukuthi kukhona yini okuthile ngokomzimba okungenzeka kubangele lokhu kucindezeleka.
Kuthiwani ngawe? Ubhekana kanjani nendoda engajabule?
Nawa amanye amathiphu wokukusiza ngalesi sikhathi esinzima emshadweni wakho nokuthola impendulo eqondile yombuzo, “Ngisebenzelana kanjani nendoda engajabule?”
Yazi ukuthi ukuhlala nomlingani ongajabule akulula
Lokhu kuzoba nomthelela ebudlelwaneni bakho nasemshadweni wakho, ngakho-ke lungela. Isisho esithi “okuhle noma okubi” siyoba semqondweni wakho.
Hlala ohlangothini olufanayo lwempi
Ungazithola uzizwa uthukuthele ngomyeni wakho. Kakade, ukuthanda indoda engajabule bekungeyona into obuyilindele lapho uthi: "Ngiyakwenza." Khumbula: ukucindezelwa okucasulayo, hhayi umyeni wakho. Sebenza ngenkuthalo ukumsiza ngalesi sikhathi esingajabulisi.
Yidlani ndawonye niphilile, nibe nokuhamba okwabiwe ndawonye kwansuku zonke ohlelweni lwenu, futhi niqiniseke ukuthi nilala ngokwanele.
Mnakekele, kodwa nawe zinakekele
Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza, “ngisebenzelana kanjani nendoda engajabule? yamukela ukuthi ukusebenzelana nomyeni ongajabuli kuyakhokhisa. Qiniseka ukuthi uzibeka phezulu izinqolobane zakho ngokuhlaba ikhefu esimweni sakhe lapho ukwazi khona. Nikela isikhathi esithile ukuze ugcwalise amandla akho: izikhathi zokulamula, isigaba se-yoga, noma nje ukuthenga ntambama nge-BFF yakho kungakusiza ubuyele kumyeni wakho unesimo sengqondo esihle ngokwengeziwe.
Khombisa umyeni wakho ukuthi uyakwemukela ukumsiza azisize
Qiniseka ukuthi uyazi ukuthi akayedwa kulo mzuzu wokungajabuli. Uzobonga ukuthi ulapho uvela kuye, ngisho nasezikhathini ezinzima.
Umuphelezele lapho eyovakashelwa ubudokotela
Ingabe ukuqokwa kukadokotela kuhlelwe? Hamba naye. Odokotela bayakwazisa ukuba khona komuntu oshade naye. Ukubheka kwakho maqondana nokuqaphelayo kwakho ngezimo ezibuhlungu zomyeni wakho kungabalulekile ekutholakaleni nasekuphathweni kahle.
Iba nesineke
Ukungajabuli komyeni wakho akuzange kuqubuke ngokushesha, futhi ngeke kuphele ngokushesha. Ukumbuyisela kumuntu ojabulayo, ovumayo owaziyo ukuthi ungaphakathi kuye kuyinqubo.
Ukuba lapho eceleni kwakhe ukuze aqiniseke ukuthi uyafaka futhi alandele uhlelo lwakhe lokwelashwa, noma ngabe lususelwa ekwelashweni, noma imithi ethintekayo (noma yomibili) kuzobaluleka entuthukweni yakhe. Lindela ukuthi kuzothatha isikhathi. Lapho usunomqondo wokuthi yini engaba imbangela yokudabuka kwakhe, ungazihlomela ukubhekana nomyeni wakho ongajabule.
Lokhu kanye nothando oluthile nokunakekelwa, futhi maduze uzothola umbuzo othi, "Ngibhekana kanjani nendoda engajabule?" ingasafuneki ngokuphelele, futhi yinto yesikhathi esedlule.