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- Ukuhlukumezeka: Iningi lethu liyahlehla lapho sichitha isikhathi nemindeni yethu evela kuyo
- I-Monopoly: Umndeni wakho odabuka nawo ungakulawula
- Ukukhishwa: I-Ostracism yomlingani omusha ngumndeni wendabuko
- 1. Amakhefu eshejuli
- Hlela ukuhlela ukungena ngokomzwelo
- 3. Qaphela ukusondelana ngokomzimba
- 4. Khulumisanani sengathi niyiqembu
- 5. Hlala uhlanganisa ngisho nezithombe
- 6. Yiba nomhlane womlingani wakho
“Ngicela uphume kulesi sithombe? Sifuna nje isithombe somndeni wethu. ” Iqale kanjalo-ke ukuvakashelwa ikilayenti lami nabasekhweni lakhe muva nje. Abasekhweni lakhe bamcele kabi ukuthi aphume esithombeni somndeni abebelungiselela ukusithatha. Babefuna nje isithombe somndeni wabo. Iklayenti lami, lizizwa libuhlungu futhi lididekile yiyo yonke indlela abaziphethe ngayo, libukele njengoba umyeni wakhe weminyaka emi-5 egudle phakathi kukadadewabo nomfowabo, egigitheka sengathi uneminyaka emithathu futhi.
Wayecabanga ukuthi wayeyingxenye yomndeni womyeni wakhe ngenkathi beshada eminyakeni emihlanu eyedlule. Manje, wezwa ukuthi umndeni wakhe udwebe umugqa esihlabathini.
Okubi kakhulu, bekubonakala sengathi umyeni wakhe ubengacabangi ukuthi isithombe somndeni esikhethekile siyinto enkulu. Umndeni Wami Omusha? Iningi lethu linethemba lokuthi lapho sishada nozakwethu sizokwamukelwa yimindeni yabo, samukelwe ngokuphelele futhi sihlanganiswe kukho. Ngokusobala, lokhu akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Eminye imindeni, ngenhloso yokwazi noma cha, kubonakala sengathi ibeka imingcele ngokuqinile phakathi komndeni wendabuko nomlingani omusha. Abakwazi noma abazimisele ukubuka leli lungu elisha njengelabo.
Ukwesaba ngokuhlanganiswa kwemindeni emidala nemisha kungadala ukungqubuzana okukhulu, ukungezwani noma isimilo esiphelele sokugwema.
Nazi izindlela zokuziphatha ezingasebenzi kahle ezivimbela ukuhlangana kwemindeni ngokuthula:
Ukuhlukumezeka: Iningi lethu liyahlehla lapho sichitha isikhathi nemindeni yethu evela kuyo
Indima yethu yobuntwana yaziwa kakhulu kangangokuba sibuyele emuva kuyo njengemvelo yesibili. Umndeni wethu wendabuko nawo unganikeza amandla ukuziphatha kwethu okufana nokwengane. Noma imuphi umzamo wokumelana nokubuyela emuva kumuntu wakho oneminyaka eyi-15 ungadala imikhuba emibi emndenini wemvelaphi njengokuklolodela okwengane (“ubumnandi kakhulu”), indlela yokugwema noma izingxabano eziqondile. Ukungezwani phakathi kwemindeni yakho emidala nemisha kungakwenza uzizwe ufana noJekyll noHyde. Ngomndeni wakho noma ngemvelaphi yakho, udlala ingane ethanda ubumnandi, ingane yomndeni, kepha nomndeni wakho omusha, uzimisele kakhulu futhi uphethe. Lezi zindima zombili ziyashayisana okungaba nzima ezinhlangothini zombili ukwamukela.
I-Monopoly: Umndeni wakho odabuka nawo ungakulawula
Umndeni wakho odabuka nawo ungakudla wedwa ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba ushiye umlingani wakho ezizwa ekhishwa inyumbazane futhi ekhishwe inyumbazane. Elinye lamakhasimende ami laxoxa ngendlela elikhungatheke ngayo lapho lingakwazi ukuhlala eduze komkalo lapho bechitha isikhathi nomndeni wakhe. Wayehlala ezungezwe ngodadewabo bemshiyela indawo encane noma engenayo nencane. Umndeni wamalungu emvelaphi nawo ungabusa indawo engokomzwelo ngokuqhubeka uhlanganyela ezingxoxweni ezikhethekile, okwenza kube nzima ukuthi umlingani abambe iqhaza.
Ukukhishwa: I-Ostracism yomlingani omusha ngumndeni wendabuko
Ukuziphatha okumangalisa kakhulu nokulimazayo ukukhishwa ngamabomu noma ukukhishwa inyumbazana kozakwethu omusha ngumndeni wendabuko. Isithombe somndeni esikhethekile sikhombisa ngokusobala ukukhishwa inyumbazane ngamabomu. Ezinye izibonelo ezinolaka ezithe xaxa zifaka ukuphawula okucashile okwenziwe ngumndeni wamalungu emvelaphi njengokuthi, "asikaze sikubone ... manje," nokuthi "Ngiyakhumbula ukuthi izinto zazinjani phambilini."
Indlela yokuphatha ukuhlanganisa imindeni emidala nemisha ingahle ikhathazeke, kepha kunezindlela ezinempilo neziphumelelayo zemibhangqwana nemindeni ukuphatha ukuvakasha kwabo.
Nazi izindlela ezi-6 zokuphatha ukuvakashelwa abasekhweni:
1. Amakhefu eshejuli
Thatha amakhefu angokwenyama emndenini wendabuko ukuze uphinde uxhume futhi usethe kabusha nomlingani wakho. Lokhu kungaba lula njengokuthatha uhambo lwemizuzu eyi-10 noma ukuthola indawo ethulile.
Hlela ukuhlela ukungena ngokomzwelo
Donsela umlingani wakho eceleni imizuzwana embalwa ukuze ubone ukuthi baphakama kanjani.
3. Qaphela ukusondelana ngokomzimba
Uma ubona ukuthi uzungezwe abafowenu nodadewenu ngaphesheya kwegumbi, yenza umzamo wokuzihlanganisa.
4. Khulumisanani sengathi niyiqembu
Sebenzisa izabizwana zokuthi thina nathi, kakhulu!
5. Hlala uhlanganisa ngisho nezithombe
Ngaphandle kokuthi unombukiso oshisayo njengamaKardashians asikho isidingo somndeni obuziwe wezithombe zoqobo.
6. Yiba nomhlane womlingani wakho
Lungisa inkulumo ecashile noma ecacile engakhi ngomlingani wakho ngumndeni wakho odabuka kuwo. Inhloso enkulu ukuthi wena nomlingani wakho nenze imingcele nomndeni wendabuko futhi nithuthukise izindlela zokubhekana nezempilo ezizothuthukisa ukuxhumana okunokuthula phakathi kwemindeni yomibili. Ngokuqhubeka ngokungaguquguquki ukuthi wena nomlingani wakho ninamathele emingceleni yenu, imindeni kungenzeka ukuthi yomibili imindeni izokwakha kabusha ngendlela ezovumela ubudlelwano bakho ukuthi bukhule.