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- Ngikuthatha ube ngumfazi / umyeni wami oshadile
- Ukuba nokubamba
- Kusukela ngalolu suku kuya phambili
- Kokuhle noma kokubi
- Kwabacebile noma kwabampofu
- Ekuguleni nasempilweni
- Ukuthanda nokwazisa
- Kuze kube sekufeni senza ingxenye
- Ngokwesimiso sikaNkulunkulu esingcwele
- Futhi lesi yisifungo sami esiqotho
Uma uhlela umcimbi wakho womshado kulula ukubanjwa ngayo yonke imininingwane emihle: ukukhetha abantu ohamba nabo, ukuhlela umuntu ozongena emsebenzini wakhe, nokuthatha isinqumo ngakho konke kusuka ekuhlobiseni kuya ekuphekeleni.
Futhi uma kukhulunywa ngezifungo zomshado uqobo, ungasala uzibuza ukuthi iyiphi indlela ozohamba ngayo - kufanele uzenzele owakho amagama, futhi uma kunjalo ungathini? Noma mhlawumbe ungathanda ukuhamba ngendlela yendabuko futhi uhlale nemishwana eyaziwayo nothandwayo yezifungo zomshado zobuKristu zokuqala njengoba ziphrintiwe eNcwadini Yomthandazo Ovamile.
Lezi zifungo zomshado zobuKristu zisetshenziswe ngenjabulo nangobuqotho yizigidi zabantu abashadile ukuvala uthando lwabo komunye nomunye esivumelwaneni esihle.
Uma ungajwayelene namazwi ezivumelwano ezivamile zomshado wamaKristu noma okushiwo izifungo zomshado, lo mbhalo uzofuna ukuwembula amabinzana ngamagama.
Lapho nje usucabangisise umusho ngamunye, uzokwazi ukujabulela futhi uqonde okushiwo izithembiso zomshado wamaKristu enizobe nizenza nobabili ngosuku lwenu lomshado oluhle. Incazelo yezifungo zomshado izokwenza indawo ekhethekile enhliziyweni yakho.
Ngikuthatha ube ngumfazi / umyeni wami oshadile
Phambili ngaphambili, le nkulumo iveza ukukhetha nesinqumo somlingani ngamunye. Uyamkhetha futhi uyamkhetha. Nobabili nobabili nithathe isinqumo sokuqhubekisela phambili ubudlelwano benu ezingeni elilandelayo lokuzibophezela. Kubo bonke abantu emhlabeni, niyakhetha, futhi le nkulumo iyisikhumbuzo esibalulekile sokuthi uthatha umthwalo wezinqumo zakho. Futhi kuyindlela enhle yokubonisa uthando engaphindaphindwa kaninginingi ezinyangeni naseminyakeni ezayo njengoba nitshelana ukuthi “Nganithatha nibe ngumfazi / umyeni wami oshadile.”
Ukuba nokubamba
Kusho ukuthini ukuba nakho nokubamba?
Esinye sezici eziyigugu kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bomshado ukuba nokubamba injongo, ukusondelana ngokomzimba. Njengendoda nenkosikazi, nikhululekile ukuzwakalisa uthando lwenu komunye nomunye ngothando, nangokobulili.
Ukuba nezifungo nokwenza izifungo kukhuluma ngokulindela kwakho, ukuthi ubheke phambili ekujabuleleni ukuba ndawonye komunye nomunye ngayo yonke indlela, kungaba ngokomzimba, ngokwenhlalo, noma ngokomzwelo, nizokwabelana ngezindawo zonke zempilo yenu.
Kusukela ngalolu suku kuya phambili
Ibinzana elilandelayo, "kusukela kulolu suku kuqhubeke" likhombisa ukuthi okuthile okusha sha sekuqala ngalolu suku. Weqa umkhawulo ngosuku lwakho lomshado, kusukela esimweni sokungashadi uye esimweni sokushada. Ushiya indlela yakho endala yokuphila futhi uqala isizini entsha noma isahluko esisha ndawonye endabeni yezimpilo zakho.
Kokuhle noma kokubi
Imishwana emithathu elandelayo yomshado igcizelela ukungathi sína kokuzibophezela kwakho, uvuma ukuthi impilo inakho kokubili nokwehla. Izinto azihlali zenzeka ngendlela obukade ufisa noma uphuphe ngayo, futhi izinhlekelele zangempela kungenzeka kunoma ngubani.
Kuleli qophelo, kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi le nkulumo ayihloselwe ukuvala umuntu ebudlelwaneni obuhlukumezayo lapho umlingani womshado esebenzisa lawa magama ukusongela nokukusabisa ukuze uhlale uthembekile futhi ukhona, kuyilapho ekuphatha kabi. Bobabili abalingani kudingeka bazinikele ngokulinganayo kulezi zifungo zomshado zobuKristu, babhekane nezingqinamba zempilo ndawonye.
Kwabacebile noma kwabampofu
Ungahle uzinze ngokwezezimali ngosuku lwakho lomshado futhi ubheke phambili ekusaseni eliqhakazile ndawonye. Kodwa kungenzeka nje ukuthi izingqinamba zomnotho zifike zikushaye kanzima.
Ngakho-ke le nkulumo ithi ubudlelwano bakho bucishe bube ngaphezulu kwemali, futhi noma ngabe ibhalansi yakho yasebhange ibukeka kanjani, nizosebenzisana ukubhekana nokunqoba izinselelo.
Ekuguleni nasempilweni
Yize mhlawumbe usezingeni eliphakeme lempilo yakho lapho wenza izifungo zakho zomshado wobuKristu akekho owaziyo ukuthi ikusasa liphetheni nokugula okuthile kungenzeka, noma ngabe ungubani.
Ngakho-ke ibinzana elithi “ekuguleni nasempilweni” liletha isiqiniseko kumlingani wakho ukuthi noma umzimba wabo ungahluleka, uzobathanda ngalokho abangaphakathi, ngomphefumulo nomoya wabo ongaboshiwe yizimo zomzimba.
Ukuthanda nokwazisa
Le yingxenye lapho uveza khona ngqo inhloso yakho yokuqhubeka nithandane. Njengoba isisho sithi, uthando luyisenzo, futhi kumayelana nezenzo ezixhasa imizwa. Ukwazisa kusho ukuvikela nokunakekela umuntu othile, ukuzinikela kuye, ukumbheka njengothandekayo futhi umdumise.
Lapho umthanda futhi umazisa oshade naye uzobakhulisa, ubabonge, ubazise futhi ubazise kakhulu ubudlelwano enibabelana ngabo. Kwesinye isikhathi ibinzana elithi "ukulahla bonke abanye" lifakwa kwizifungo zobuKristu, okusho ukuthi uzonikela inhliziyo yakho kuphela kulowo okhethe ukumshada.
Kuze kube sekufeni senza ingxenye
Amagama athi “kuze kube sekufeni” anikeza inkomba yokuthi isivumelwano somshado sizohlala njalo futhi sibe namandla. Ngosuku lwabo lomshado abalingani abathandanayo basho omunye komunye ukuthi ngaphandle kokuvikeleka kwethuna, akukho lutho futhi akekho ozongena phakathi kwabo.
Ngokwesimiso sikaNkulunkulu esingcwele
Le nkulumo yezifungo zomshado wamaKristu iyavuma ukuthi uNkulunkulu ungumbhali nomsunguli womthetho ongcwele womshado. Kusukela emshadweni wokuqala ka-Adamu no-Eva eNsimini yase-Edene, umshado ubuyinto engcwele nengcwele efanele ukudunyiswa nokuhlonishwa.
Uma uthatha isinqumo sokushada wenza lokho uNkulunkulu ayekuhlosile kubantu baKhe, ukuthandana, nokuphila impilo yokuhlonipha uNkulunkulu ekhombisa isimilo Sakhe esinothando futhi esineqiniso.
Futhi lesi yisifungo sami esiqotho
Le nkulumo yokugcina yezifungo zomshado wamaKristu ifingqa yonke inhloso yomcimbi womshado. Yilapho-ke lapho abantu ababili benza isethembiso esifungelanayo komunye nomunye phambi kofakazi naphambi kukaNkulunkulu.
Isifungo somshado yinto ebophezela ngokomthetho nangokokuziphatha futhi engeke ihoxiswe kalula.
Ngaphambi kokwenza lezi zifungo zomshado zobuKristu, lezi zithandani kufanele ziqiniseke kakhulu ukuthi zikulungele ukuthatha lesi sinyathelo esibalulekile okungangabazeki ukuthi sizobeka inkambo impilo yabo yonke. Izethembiso zomshado okusho ukuthi kufanele ziqondwe kahle ngaphambi kokusayina umthetho ongcwele kaNkulunkulu, amaphepha omshado.
Yize noma ngubani engabhala ezakhe izifungo zomshado kulezi zinsuku, umenzi wesifungo somshado kufanele awukhumbule nomyalezo wezithembiso zendabuko.