-Delile
- 1. Ukukhanga okungunaphakade nokulula
- 2. Ukuhloniphana
- 3. Ukwamukelwa
- 4. Ububele
- 5. Ukwethemba
- 6. Ukulungisa
- 7. Ukubambisana
- 8. Ubungani
Wonke umuntu kule planethi unombono ohlukile ngezimpawu zothando lwangempela.
Abantu abambalwa bayayithola kumanethiwekhi kaShakespearean. Abanye babo bakuthola ezinganekwaneni nasezincwadini. Abanye bacabanga ukuthi ayikho ngokoqobo.
Iqiniso ukuthi, uthando lweqiniso luyisandiso semvelo yethu kuphela nendlela yethu yokubuyisela izinto.
Ngendlela efanayo, nakanjani sizokhanga futhi sihehe kubantu abafana nobuntu bethu.
Impela, noma sibona othile, sithanda abantu ababonakalisayo nabazikhulisa ngokwethu.
Lezi ngezinye zezindlela ongabona ngazo uthando lweqiniso
1. Ukukhanga okungunaphakade nokulula
Lapho sithandana nothile ngempela, sibathola behle futhi sibathandana ngazo zonke izindlela. Akudingeki ukuthi “sizame” ukusheshisa izinto. Konke kubonakala kumnandi futhi kulula ngendlela okuyiyo.
Akudingeki neze senze umzamo okhethekile wokwanelisa lowo muntu.
Akudingeki sizibuze, "Ingabe uthando lweqiniso lukhona?" manje nesinye isikhathi. Uthando lukhona ezintweni ezilula kakhulu esizenza ngokubambisana. Akunasizathu esicindezelayo sokuphoqelela noma yini kunoma ngubani.
2. Ukuhloniphana
Ukunaka omunye nomunye kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukusekela uthando lweqiniso.
Yilokho futhi okuyikho ngempela uthando lwangempela. Kusuka ekunikezaneni isikhala esanele sokuzazi futhi ungalokothi uye kude kakhulu, noma ngabe kunjani. Kungenye yezimpawu ezibaluleke kakhulu zothando lweqiniso.
3. Ukwamukelwa
Lapho sizindla ngokuthi uthando lusebenza kanjani, imvamisa sazisa umuntu ngezimfanelo zakhe.
Ezigabeni zokuqala, wonke umuntu akanalo uvalo ngamaphutha ophathina wakhe. Ivula imibono yethu, futhi siyabona futhi sifunde izinto ebesingazukuhlangabezana nazo ngokuvamile.
Uthando lwangempela luyasiguqula nendlela esicabanga ngayo. Ihlanganisa konke ukuhlukaniswa. Asikho isahlulelo, futhi sivulekele iziphakamiso futhi sibonise ukubekezelelana okwengeziwe.
4. Ububele
Silindele lokhu njengenye yezimpawu ezibalulekile zothando.
Ukuze sithole uthando, kufanele sinikeze uthando. Akuhlanganisiwe nokwanelisa izidingo zethu uqobo zokuzazisa. Kepha, mayelana nokuya enjongweni eyabiwe.
Kuhlobene nokuba ngumhlatshelo nokucabanga ngezidingo zomlingani wethu njengokucabanga ngezethu. Yilapho futhi lapho incazelo yangempela yothando isiholela khona; ukugcinwa kokucatshangelwa, ubungcwele, kanye nengqikithi yobudlelwano.
5. Ukwethemba
Ukuthembana yisisekelo esibaluleke kunazo zonke sothando lwangempela.
Yize kubalulekile ukwethemba umuntu esinaye, kubalulekile ukuthi uzethembe. Lesi ngesinye sezici zothando lweqiniso olusenza sizizwe kamnandi ngaphandle kokwesaba noma ukucindezelwa.
Lapho abantu ababili behlala ngothando nobumbano, akukho ukwesaba ukulimala. Ebunyeni, uthando luyakhula futhi luqine ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kungenye yezimfanelo zothando ezenza kube umuzwa ongenamingcele nokwesaba.
6. Ukulungisa
Uthando luyalungisa futhi luxosha ukwesaba. Kuthuthukisa umuzwa wokulondeka.
Kwabesifazane, lokhu kungenye yezimpawu zothando lweqiniso oluvela kowesilisa, futhi. Sizizwa sizinzile futhi sinethezekile nabangane nemindeni yethu, noma ngabe sikuphi.
7. Ukubambisana
Enye impendulo yombuzo, wazi kanjani ukuthi uthando lwayo lweqiniso, ukubona ukuthi kukhona yini ukubambisana.
Uthando lweqiniso luza nokubambisana.
Ukubona ukuthi kufanele ulawule nini nokuthi uzohlehla nini futhi uthembe umlingani wakho ukuthi athathe izintambo, kungukubambisana.
Lapho abantu ababili behlala munye, baxhuma ngazo zonke izindlela futhi basebenze njengeqembu.
Bayabona ukuthi kufanele bathule nini nokuthi bawakhulume nini amagama okufanele ashiwo. Ngokubambisana, basebenzela izinhloso ezifanayo, ngendlela yabo ehlukile elingana ngokuphelele.
8. Ubungani
Njengabantu, sibheka ubungane nabanye abantu.
Mayelana nakho, sifuna umuntu ozoba khona ngathi kuzo zonke izinselelo, ubunzima, ukudabuka nenjabulo futhi.
Sonke sidinga umuntu esingabelana naye zonke izici zempilo. Lokho kubuye kungene njengenye yezimpawu ezidingeka kakhulu zothando lwangempela.
Umuntu esingahamba naye, sabelane ngemibono yethu, sikhulume ngokudlule kwethu, sizijabulise futhi siguge.
Izimfanelo zothando zikwenza ugxile kulowo omthandayo. Uthando lukhona ukukwenza ukuthi ubungaze ngezikhathi ezibalulekile futhi ukhale kokubi, ndawonye.
Ungadideka ngokude kakhulu futhi ungahlala unjalo uma ungazitholi izici zothando lwangempela kungekudala.Zikusiza ukuvula indlela yakho ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba maqondana nalapho usuzothola khona uthando olukhulu.