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- 1. Fundani ndawonye
- 2. Zibandakanye kwezobuciko nemisebenzi yezandla
- 3. Cula izingoma
- 4. Imidlalo yebhodi ingaba mnandi!
- 5. Ukuhamba amabanga amade ndawonye
- 6. Yiba nepikiniki
- 7. Dlalani imidlalo ndawonye
- 8. Fundisa izingane zakho izinto ezintsha ezimnandi
- Imicabango Yokugcina
Thola izindlela zokudala zokuchitha isikhathi esiningi nezingane zakho ukuze ukwazi ukwakha isibopho esiqinile somzali nengane esingahlala impilo yakho yonke.
Ukuchitha isikhathi nezingane zakho kuzosiza ukwakha izinkumbulo ezikhethekile zomndeni. Izingane zakho zizokhumbula lezi zikhathi njengoba zikhula futhi ziqala imindeni yazo. Ukubopha izingane zakho kungaba lula njengokuzisiza ngomsebenzi wasekhaya noma ukwenza imisebenzi ndawonye.
Kepha, kufanele uqonde ukuthi kubalulekile ukusondelana nezingane zakho.
Kukhona neminye imisebenzi elula nokho emnandi nobabili eningayazisa impilo yonke. USelene Diong, uthishanhloko wakwaSparkanauts uyachaza ukuthi "Ukudlala ngokuhlanganyela kuzosiza izingane zikhulise amakhono, njengokusebenzisana, ukuzibeka engcupheni, ukuzazi okuphezulu, ukuzethemba nokunye okungazizuzisa kakhulu ekufundeni kwazo impilo yonke."
Ngokuvumela izingane zakho ukuthi zibe izingane futhi uzijoyine ebumnandini, uzokwazi ukuzibandakanya ekudlaleni okunenjongo futhi wakhe ubuhlobo obuseduze nazo.
Funda ukuze ufunde imisebenzi embalwa elula futhi emnandi yokubopha ingane yakho ekhaya
1. Fundani ndawonye
Yenza ukufunda kujabulise ngokuthola i-page-turner ongayifundela izingane zakho ngokuzwakalayo bese uyenza into yokusebenzisana. Ungababuza ngokwenzeka ngokulandelayo endabeni. Ungababuza futhi ukuthi bangenzenjani uma bekuleso simo.
Kuyindlela enhle yokwazi ingane yakho futhi uthole umbono wokuthi uwubona kanjani umhlaba.
Khuphula ubumnandi futhi uyenze idlale ngokwengeziwe ngokwenza imisindo yezilwane nemisindo lapho uxoxa indaba.
Lapho ufunda incwadi yabo abayithandayo, ungenza futhi okuncane kokudlala. Futhi, nakanjani lena indlela ephelele yokubopha izingane zakho.
2. Zibandakanye kwezobuciko nemisebenzi yezandla
Wakha kanjani isibopho esiqinile nengane?
Ukuzitika ngemisebenzi yobuciko neyezandla kuyindlela yokwelapha yokubopha izingane zakho. Futhi kungenye yemibono elula futhi emnandi yokubopha nezingane zakho.
Thenga izincwadi zokufaka imibala ezinganeni zakho bese uzibuza ngosuku lwazo njengoba ulugcwalisa ngemibala egqamile.
Ungavula uhlangothi lobuciko lwengane yakho futhi ufundise ukuthi ingahlanganiswa kanjani imibala nokwenza ukufiphaza okuthile.
3. Cula izingoma
Ungenza ukuhlangana kujabulise ngokudlala izingoma zakho ozithandayo ndawonye futhi ucule ngenkathi udansa.
Ngenye indlela, ungangena ku-CD yethrekhi yomsindo we-movie eyintandokazi yezingane zakho nojamu phakathi nokushayela okude.
4. Imidlalo yebhodi ingaba mnandi!
Hlanganisa izingane zakho ngokuphonsa izinselelo kuzo ngendlela yemidlalo futhi uzivumele ukuthi zinqobe.
Eqinisweni, imidlalo yebhodi ingasiza izingane zakho ukuthi zithuthukise amakhono ezibalo futhi zifunde amanani abalulekile njengokulinda ngokubekezela ithuba kanye nokwabelana kwazo. Ungakhulisa nokuncintisana kwabo okuzosiza ngokuzayo ukuze bafunde ukuthi bangaphumelela kanjani ngokwenza kahle.
5. Ukuhamba amabanga amade ndawonye
Lo ngumsebenzi omuhle wokugcina wena nengane yakho nilingana. Akudingi ukuba sesimweni sokuhamba ngamandla noma ukugijima. Ungamane uhambe endaweni yangakini ndawonye ngenkathi uhamba nenja noma uhambe uye epaki ngenkathi ubuka imvelo.
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ukujabulela imvelo ndawonye kuthuthukisa wena nenhlalakahle yezingane zakho ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba, futhi kubhekwa njengenye yezindlela ezinhle zokubopha ingane yakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusiza ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka ngakho nobabili niqinisekile ukuthi nizobuyela emakhaya nimomotheka.
6. Yiba nepikiniki
Amapikiniki akudingeki ukuthi enzelwe ngaphandle njalo. Uma kushisa kakhulu ngaphandle kwepikinikini, hlela eyendlini lapho ungathola khona izibiliboco zetiye ngenkathi uxoxa. Ungacela izingane zakho ukuthi zenze onodoli bazo namathoyizi akujoyine.
Le ngenye yezindlela ezilula zokwakha isibopho esinganqamuki nengane yakho.
7. Dlalani imidlalo ndawonye
Ukuvumela izingane ukuba zibe izingane kusho ukuzivumela zijabulele isikhathi sokudlala.
Ukudlala ulimi oluyinhloko lwezingane.
Ngakho-ke, uma ufisa ukuxhuma, kufanele uhlanganyele emisebenzini yesikhathi sokudlala ukwakha isibopho esiqinile nezingane zakho.
Uma udlala nezingane zakho, zizohlakulela ubudlelwano obusondelene nawe futhi zikubone njengomlingani ongenekayo abangathembela kuye. Ucwaningo lukhombisile futhi ukuthi kunezinye izinzuzo zokudlala ndawonye nezingane zakho njengokungenzeki okuncane kokukhathazeka ngokwehlukana ezinganeni kanye nokwehla kwemizwa yesizungu.
UPeter Gray, Ph.D., uprofesa wezocwaningo eBoston College futhi ongumbhali wencwadi ethi Free to Learn (Basic Books) and Psychology uthi “Ukudlala akufanele nanini kube umsebenzi; kufanele kube njalo ukuzijabulisa.
Ukudlala, ngencazelo, kuyinto ofuna ukuyenza; ngakho-ke uma 'udlala' nengane yakho ungafuni, awudlali. ”
8. Fundisa izingane zakho izinto ezintsha ezimnandi
Izingane ziyizidalwa ezifuna ukwazi.
Bangakuthokozela ukuthi ubafundise okuthile okusha nokujabulisayo. Ngaphandle kwemisebenzi ejwayelekile efana nokwendlala umbhede noma ukuhlanza emva kokumosheka kwabo, bafundise izinto ezingadinisi kangako njengokubhaka, ukusebenza ingadi noma ukuthunga. Akudingeki kube ngokungathi sína.
Kwenze kube lula futhi kugcwele ukuhleka ukukusiza ubumbane nezingane zakho.
Nayi ividiyo ebonisa ukuthi ingane ingafundiswa kalula kanjani izisekelo zokulima:
Imicabango Yokugcina
Uma wenza umsebenzi othokozisayo futhi omnandi, izingane zakho zizokwazi ukuthuthukisa ulwazi namakhono ahlukahlukene. Ngale ndlela, ukufunda kwenziwa kube mnandi! Okuhle kunakho konke, bakwenza nomuntu obaluleke kakhulu emhlabeni kubo — wena, umzali wabo.
Ngale misebenzi yokubopha umzali nengane, uzokwazi ukwakha isibopho esiqinile ngenkathi uvumela izingane zakho ukuthi zikhule ngokuphelele.Uhlu olungenhla ngezinye nje zezinto ezingenakubalwa ongazenza ukusondelana nezingane zakho.
Ungakujabulela ukwazi ukuthi izinketho ezijabulisayo, ezishibhile, nezilula zokubopha izingane zakho azipheli. Ngakho-ke kwenze kwenzeke namuhla!