-Delile
- 1. Chitha isikhathi sakho ngokuhlakanipha
- 2. Thatha isikhathi esithile noshade naye nsuku zonke
- 3. Izenzo ezincane zokucabanga ziqinisa ukusondelana
- 4. Yiba nomusa ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi uthembeke
- 5. Setha usuku "lokuba khona"
- 6. Ucansi
- 7. Kepha ungakhohlwa uthando nezothando, futhi!
- 8. Hlalani ninokuthile eningakulindela ndawonye
- 9. Zama okuthile okuhluke ngokuphelele
- 10. Nina niyidwala lomunye nomunye
Uzizwa unqanyuliwe kancane kumlingani wakho? Uphuthelwa yilowo mqondo wokuba umngane omkhulu, umthandi futhi othembekile komunye nomunye? Nazi izindlela eziyishumi ezivivinyiwe zokuhlola (noma zokudala kabusha) umshado osondelene kakhulu.
1. Chitha isikhathi sakho ngokuhlakanipha
Bheka ukuthi isikhathi sakho sisetshenziswa kanjani, futhi ulungise lapho kudingeka. Baningi bethu ababanjwe isivunguvungu esiyimpilo yesimanje. Kusukela entathakusa kuze kuhlwe, sinakekela izidingo zabanye abantu, kungaba umndeni noma umsebenzi. Ngesikhathi esinesikhashana kithina, sifuna nje ukuphola. Into yokugcina esifuna ukucabanga ngayo ukuzibandakanya engxoxweni nomlingani wethu, akunjalo?
Beka isikhathi sakho phambili. Yazi ukuthi umshado wakho ubalulekile. Yiglue ebamba leli phakethe elimangalisayo ndawonye, ekuvumela ukuba ube yindawo ephephile kubo bonke abacindezeli bosuku. Awufuni ukuyinaka ngakho-ke yibeke lapho phezulu ohlwini lwakho.
2. Thatha isikhathi esithile noshade naye nsuku zonke
Akudingeki ukuthi kube amahora; Imizuzu engama-30 ndawonye yanele ukuzizwa ixhunyiwe. Shiya kude neziphazamiso nezikrini. Hlalani phansi ndawonye, noma, uma kungenzeka, phumani ndawonye nihambe noma nibe nosuku. Kepha kwenze okungenani imizuzu engama-30 ngosuku. Khuluma. Ingxoxo akumele ijule, kepha idinga ukuba ngeqiniso. Ukuthi "Ngitshele ngosuku lwakho" okulula kwanele ukukhombisa oshade naye ukuthi ukhona futhi ulalele.
3. Izenzo ezincane zokucabanga ziqinisa ukusondelana
Ukushukuma komzimba okuhle kumnandi, kepha khumbula ukwenza izinto ezincane zomusa. Inothi lothando elishiyelwe umlingani wakho lapho usohambweni lwebhizinisi. Izimbali zezimbali azithandayo etafuleni lasekhishini. Umbhalo we-sexy ngesikhathi sosuku lomsebenzi. Inkomishi yekhofi eyenziwe kabusha yokusiza ngokuvuka ekuseni. Zonke izindlela ezincane zokuqinisa umuzwa wakho wokusondelana.
4. Yiba nomusa ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi uthembeke
Ukukhuluma ngomusa nangokwethembeka kumlingani wakho kuzojula, ukusondelana osekwenzile. Udinga usizo lokuthola ulimi olufanele lomusa? Iseshini noma ezimbili nomelaphi onekhono zingakunikeza izindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuxhumana ezibandakanya umusa nenhlonipho kumlingani wakho.
5. Setha usuku "lokuba khona"
Lesi yisikhathi esichithwa ndawonye senza okuthile okubandakanya nobabili, ngokungafani nesikhathi esichithwa kubukwa i-movie, umdlalo, noma umdlalo wethelevishini. Idethi "yokuba khona" kungenzeka kube ukwenza umdlalo osebenzayo ndawonye, noma ukuhamba nje ngendledlana yemvelo. Noma yini lapho unyakaza futhi usebenza njengeqembu, uzifaka inselelo emzimbeni. Ukushesha kwe-adrenaline okwenziwa yilomsebenzi kukhuthaza umuzwa wokusondelana okhulisa ukusondelana.
6. Ucansi
Akunakuphikwa ukuthi umbhangqwana onempilo ecebile, futhi ojabulisayo wobulili uzojabulela umuzwa ocebile wokusondelana, futhi. Ngakho-ke ungathathi kalula imisebenzi yakho yezocansi. Kulula ukubeka lokhu kusitofu sangemuva ngenxa yokukhathala kodwa, kufanele wenze ucansi lube yinto ephambili ebudlelwaneni bakho. Uma kufanele uyikhalenda, makube njalo. Thatha izingane uye kubangani noma ogogo nomkhulu, futhi nizinikeze isikhathi eside nesothando embhedeni. Ungakhohlwa i-foreplay! Seduze emini ngokuthumela imibhalo eshisayo nama-imeyili.
7. Kepha ungakhohlwa uthando nezothando, futhi!
Ubulili buhle futhi bungumphumela wemvelo wothando nezothando. Ngakho-ke khumbula ukubonisa amakhono akho okuthandana ngezikhathi ezithile, noma ngabe awaholeli esikhathini sokulala.
8. Hlalani ninokuthile eningakulindela ndawonye
Kungaba yiholide lomndeni noma konga imali ebheke ekhaya elisha. Noma yini enizama ukuyizuza nobabili, ininika ithuba lokwakha ukusondelana njengoba nixoxa, nihlela futhi niphupha ngombono wenu nobabili.
9. Zama okuthile okuhluke ngokuphelele
Ukuphuma ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokunethezeka kuhle ukukhuthaza ukusondelana. Uzofunda ikhono elisha futhi uthuthukise olunye ungqimba lokusondelana njengoba nihlangabezana nenselelo entsha ndawonye.
10. Nina niyidwala lomunye nomunye
Yiba khona ukuze uthole ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo, ihlombe ozokhala kulo, izingalo zokuvula nokwanga umlingani wakho ekugubheni injabulo. Impilo iphonsa konke kuwe, kusukela kokulahlekelwa okudabukisayo kuya ekunqobeni okuphezulu kakhulu. Ukuhamba kuzo zonke lezi zikhathi ndawonye nazi ukuthi ninomhlane womunye nomunye kuyindlela engokwemvelo yokwandisa nokujulisa imizwa yenu yokusondelana.