Kubashadikazi abajabulayo, usuku lwenu lomshado ... isasasa lokwesaba nemininingwane ebabazekayo ngomzuzu wokugcina kungenye yezimanga ezimangalisayo neziyigugu empilweni.Njengoba uqala lolu hambo lomshado ngifuna ukuhlanganyela nani ukuthi ngijabule kanjani nobabili. Umshado ungaba lula uma ulandela ukuthi yini eyenza usebenze. Ukuzibophezela okuqinile esisekelweni sakho kuzokwenza umshado wakho uhlale impilo yakho yonke. Nanka amabhlokhi ami angcono kakhulu okuqhubeka nokwakha isisekelo sakho somshado.
1. Hleka: Ungalokothi uyeke ukubona amahlaya empilweni. Lapho ukucasuka kwakho, ukhathele futhi ukhungathekile ... khumbula ukuhleka kungumuthi omuhle kakhulu.
2.Khulumisana: Khuluma, thembeka kulokho okukuphazamisayo, okukukhiphayo futhi okulethela injabulo. Lalelani omunye nomunye futhi nibuze imibuzo ukukhombisa ukuthi niyathanda futhi niyakhathala. Yazini izilimi zothando lomunye nomunye futhi nikhulume omunye nomunye ngolimi lwakho ngalunye.
3. Vuma futhi wazise: Ithi, ngiyakuthanda kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngithi sawubona, usale kahle, ulale kahle, sawubona ekuseni, ngiyacela, ngiyabonga, ngiyaxolisa, ngiyakwazisa, ngiyaqonda, ngisize ngiqonde, bengikukhumbule namhlanje, usho la mazwi njalo uma uthola ithuba futhi uqonde.
4. Bonisa umusa: Ngaso sonke isikhathi yibani nomusa, mnene futhi nibekezele futhi nihloniphe omunye komunye nezingane zakho. Yiba muhle ngoba izindaba ezinhle. Noma omunye umuntu ekhohlakele, yiba muhle. Funda ukuthi ungaphikisana kanjani ngendlela ekhiqizayo futhi ngaphandle kokulimazana futhi ungalokothi ubizane ngamagama ikakhulukazi ezinganeni zakho. Uma unosuku olubi xhumana omunye nomunye ngezidingo zakho bese uzihlonipha. Ukulala ucasukile kungcono kunokuqhubeka nokulwa okulimaza kakhulu. Kwesinye isikhathi kuba ngcono nje ukuvumela izinto zihambe isikhashana bese uzivakashela kabusha ngesisombululo. Akekho “OWINILE” ebudlelwaneni futhi uma nizama, nobabili nizolahlekelwa.
5. Ubuqotho nenhlonipho: Yibani nobuqotho nenhlonipho ukuze nihlale nithembekile komunye nomunye. Yisho ukuthi uqonde ukuthini futhi usho ukuthi uthini futhi uma ungakwazi ungakusho futhi ungakwenzi. Hloniphani ubumfihlo bomunye nomunye. Gcina ibhizinisi lomshado wakho kuwe futhi ungasondeli ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Kuhle ukuthumela izinto ezinhle kepha ungafaki umoya wakho wokuhlanza izingubo ezingcolile online. Uma nikhuluma kabi ngomunye nomunye kukhombisa kabi nina futhi kululaza isisekelo senu somshado.
Ukwamukelwa: Yamukela iqiniso lokuthi ningabantu ngabanye futhi nihlukile komunye nomunye. Ungalindeli okungafinyeleleki komunye nomunye. Lokhu kuholela ekudumaleni ngaso sonke isikhathi. Sebenzisa amandla omunye nomunye futhi wazi futhi wamukele ubuthakathaka bomunye nomunye. Funda ukwamukelana ngokuthi ungubani kunokuba ugxile ekuguqukeni.
7. Ibhalansi: Lwela ukulinganisela nokungaguquguquki kuzo zonke izici zempilo yakho kepha lokho akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukuzenzakalela, ubuwula futhi ube mnandi. Yilokho okushiwo ibhalansi. Gcina ukulinganisela kokupha nokuthatha futhi ukulungele ukuzidela. Kungaba nezikhathi lapho kufanele udele lokho okufunayo ukusiza umlingani wakho afinyelele lokho akufunayo. Imayelana nebhalansi yokunikeza nokuthatha.
Ukusekela: Hlalani njalo omunye komunye futhi nibuyisane ngaso sonke isikhathi.
9. Vikela ubuntu bakho: Ungesabi ukwehlukana. Ukuba nesikhathi sodwa nawe, abangane bakho noma umndeni wakho kubalulekile. Yibani abangcono kunabo bonke eningaba omunye komunye okusho ukukhombisa uthando lwenu komunye nomunye ngokuzithanda ngendlela eniziphatha ngayo futhi nizinakekele ngokwenyama nangokwengqondo.
10. Yabelana: Yabelanani ngemisebenzi, izinto zokuzilibazisa, ithemba namaphupho nezintshisekelo.
11. Ezothando: Yiba Nothando. Ucansi lubalulekile kepha ukuthinta nokuqabula nokushushumbisa nakho kubalulekile. Ukudlala ngothando ngomunye nomunye. Kubalulekile ukugcina lezo zinhlansi ziphila, ukuya ezinsukwini, ukudlala, ukuxhasana ngangokunokwenzeka. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ukuthinta kwakha isibopho esiqinile ngokukhipha i-oxytocin.
12. Yiba khona: Beka phansi ifoni yakho ephathekayo. Sisebenziseni ngokunenzuzo isikhathi senu sindawonye futhi nizame ukungasithathi kalula. Qonda ukuthi impilo imfushane. Impilo imatasatasa njengoba wenza. Yenza isikhathi sokuba nobabili. Yidlani isidlo sakusihlwa ndawonye futhi njengomndeni. Yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuxhumana nokwabelana omunye nomunye, ukuhleka nokuhlela ndawonye. Yenza omunye nomunye eze kuqala kumathemba namaphupho akho. Ngalo lonke uthando lwami nezibusiso