![Izimpawu ezi-5 ezijabulisayo zomshado okufanele uzibheke ebuhlotsheni - Incwadi Ehlukene Yengqondo Izimpawu ezi-5 ezijabulisayo zomshado okufanele uzibheke ebuhlotsheni - Incwadi Ehlukene Yengqondo](https://a.vvvvvv.kiev.ua/psychology/Top-5-Unhappy-Marriage-Signs-to-Look-out-for-in-a-Relationship.webp)
-Delile
- Abantu abaningi abaqapheli ukuthi basemshadweni ongajabulisi
- 1. Ukungabi nokusondelana ngokomzimba
- 2. Ukungabi nomqondo lapho nindawonye
- 3. Ukuthula kwakho akulula
- 4. Umdlalo osolwayo osabekayo
- 5. Azisekho izimpi
- Izwi labahlakaniphileyo
Imishado engajabulisi yande kakhulu kunendlela ocabanga ngayo. Hlola isikhathi eside somshado wakho ngokuphendula imibuzo engezansi bese uhlaziya igama ngalinye, ukuphawula, noma isenzo bese uzama ukuthola ukuthi okwakho kuzohlala noma cha. Imibuzo efana:
- Kungani singenakujabula?
- Kungani omunye wami obalulekile engafani nalowo muntu?
- Kungani singenakufana nalaba abashadikazi?
- Singake sibe njalo yini?
Uma imibuzo efanayo ibikhathaza ingqondo yakho njalo, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi uphinde uhlole impilo nobudlelwano bakho.
Kujwayelekile ukuthi izithandani zihlale emshadweni ongenaluthando noma ongajabule ngaphandle kokubona iqiniso lokuthi ikhona enye indlela yokuphila. Bafunda nje ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi lena indlela impilo eyiyo futhi bamane baphile usuku olulodwa ngesikhathi behudula izinyawo.
Uzothola ukuthi izimpawu zomshado ezingenasisekelo eziphezulu ziyamangaza impela ngoba azihambisani nalokho abantu abaningi abakucabangayo.
Abantu abaningi abaqapheli ukuthi basemshadweni ongajabulisi
Kunenani elingahambi kahle labantu abangawuboni umshado wabo ocishe wehluleka njengomuntu ongajabule ngoba, kubo, umshado ongajabulisi noma ongenaluthando ungaba ngenxa yokuphinga, ukungathembeki, ukuhlukunyezwa, ukuluthwa, njll. Abakuqondayo nabakukholelwayo ngukuthi isehlukaniso singenzeka kuphela ngenxa yalezi zizathu ezibalulwe ngenhla.
Abangaqapheli ukuthi noma imuphi umshado ungajika kancane kancane futhi ungajabuli uma abantu beyeka ukwenza imizamo ekhethekile.
Uma imibhangqwana iqala ukuthathelana phansi noma uma abantu beyeka ukunakekela imicabango nemizwa yabanye babo ababalulekile, khona-ke izinto ziqala ukungahambi kahle. Lokhu, ngokuvamile, kuphumela ekutheni abantu babuze, kungaba bona noma omunye wabo obalulekile, 'Sifike kanjani lapha?'
Into eyodwa ebalulekile ukuqinisa noma ibuphi ubuhlobo ingaba ngumphumela wokuqedwa kwabo: ukusondelana. Ukusondelana okuphelele nokungonakalisiwe kuyimfuneko, kepha ngamandla amakhulu kuza umthwalo omkhulu. Uma uzivula phambi komunye umuntu futhi uzivumela ukuthi ube sengozini, empeleni ubanikeza izinhlamvu zokukucekela phansi. Bakhetha ukuzisebenzisa kanjani lezo zinhlamvu, manje lowo ngumbuzo.
Ukuphila ngokwenqaba kungaba mnandi, kepha ngeke kuhlale unomphela. Gcina amehlo akho ekhishwe amafulegi abomvu alandelayo ukuze uzisindise empilweni yobuhlungu nosizi lwenhliziyo
Nazi ezinye zezimpawu zomshado ezingajabulisi:
1. Ukungabi nokusondelana ngokomzimba
Ukusondelana ngokomzimba ukuphela kwento ehlukanisa ubudlelwane bezothando nabo bonke abanye. Uma ungakwazi ukuthola amandla omzimba noshade naye noma bengakaze nisondelane isikhashana - lelo ifulegi elibomvu elihle kakhulu ukunqotshwa futhi akusona neze isibonakaliso esihle.
2. Ukungabi nomqondo lapho nindawonye
Ngenxa yesithembiso esenziwe kudala noma enye imfuneko yenhlalo, omunye wakho obalulekile ukhona nawe ngokomzimba; nokho, ukunaka kwabo kukhona kwenye indawo. Lesi isibonakaliso esikhulu sokungahloniphi umlingani womuntu esingasikhombisa.
3. Ukuthula kwakho akulula
Ukubambisana kwangempela kulapho bobabili bengahlala ngokunethezeka ekuthuleni komunye nomunye. Bangazijabulela izikhathi ezizolile futhi bazole ngakho.
Kodwa-ke, lapho ukuthula kuba nzima futhi kugcwaliswe ngemibuzo engabuzwa noma izikhalazo ezingashiwongo, impilo ishaya udonga olomile.
4. Umdlalo osolwayo osabekayo
Impilo inzima, futhi wonke umuntu wenza izinto, kwesinye isikhathi, angaziqhenyi ngazo. Kodwa-ke, kudinga umuntu omkhulu futhi ovuthiwe ngokomoya ukwamukela iphutha labo nokuvuma lapho basephutheni.
Lokho okwenziwa imibhangqwana ngokuvamile baqala ukusilela emuva ngenxa yesizathu noma ezimbili, futhi bahlala besola uzakwabo ngokuziphatha kwabo. Isibonelo, kuyiphutha lomunye wabo ophawulekayo ukuthi bathukuthele - njalo.
5. Azisekho izimpi
Kuyamangaza njengoba kuzwakala, ukulwa, ukukhononda, noma ukuphikisana kuyizimpawu zothando oluqhakazile nokunakekela. Abangaphezu kwesigamu sabantu balwa kuphela, baphikisana, noma bakhononda ngabathandekayo babo; abantu ababakhathalelayo ngempela.
Futhi lapho nje uthando luqala ukuphela, ukulwa, ukuphikisana nokukhononda kuyaphela.
Izwi labahlakaniphileyo
Ukubona lezi zimpawu zomshado ezingezinhle kuzokusiza ukuthi udlule kuzinselele ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Kungakhathaleki ukuthi sesinesikhathi eside kangakanani, kwazise ukuba khona komunye nomunye. Esikhundleni sokufuna leso senzo esikhulu, zama okuncane. Imbali kanye ngesonto, indlebe ngesikhathi sosizi, noma ukumamatheka noma ukuncoma kuphela okudingekayo ukuze uzuze inhliziyo.