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- 1. Ukungavumelani kodwa ngobumnene obukhulu
- 2. Zwelana nozakwenu noma ngabe wenze iphutha
- 3.Vuselela ubumbano
- 4. Yenza uthando komunye nomunye kaningi kakhulu
- 5. Bhekana nenkinga, hhayi umuntu
- 6. Izimpikiswano - yebo. Ukulwa okubi - cha
- 7. I-no-no enkulu
Uthando ulwandle wonke umuntu afuna ukungena kulo ngomkhumbi. Wonke umuntu osolwandle angalwela ukuhamba olwandle olubushelelezi. Isibuko eqinisweni; ulwandle aluhlali bushelelezi futhi luzolile ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Abekho abantu abaningi emhlabeni abaye balwela ukuhamba ngomkhumbi olwandle olubhongayo ngasikhathi sinye. Njengolwandle, impilo yakho yomshado inezinsuku ezithile ezinhle ezilandelwa izinsuku ezithile ezimbi.
Ayikho indlela eqinile yokwenza umshado wakho usebenze. Noma, ungamukela imikhuba eminingi ezogcina konke kuphelele epharadesi lakho.
1. Ukungavumelani kodwa ngobumnene obukhulu
Ungalokothi uye phezulu futhi udlame ngesikhathi sokungezwani. Ungalahlekelwa umoya wakho esimweni esiphikisanayo.
Khumbula; ningabantu ababili abavela ezikoleni ezahlukene zemicabango. Futhi, akekho umuntu onelungelo lokuthola umuntu onomqondo ofanayo.
Ngakho-ke, yima unamathele kuyo, kodwa ungalokothi uyeke ukubekezela nokubekezela.
2. Zwelana nozakwenu noma ngabe wenze iphutha
Imishado eminingi iyahluleka hhayi ngenxa yokwehluka, kepha ngenxa yendlela yokunganaki ekuqedeni umehluko.
Cabanga umlingani wakho njengomlingani kukho konke okwenzayo. Ungacabangi ngabo njengesitha noma ngabe nixabene.
- Fundisa umphefumulo wakho.
- Banikeze i-retina ukucabanga ngezinto ongathanda ukuthi bazibone.
- Zwelana futhi ukhulume nabo.
3.Vuselela ubumbano
Khumbulani izikhathi enizithanda kakhulu enizichithe ndawonye. Ungavumeli umuzwa wobumbano ufiphale.
Namathela ezinkumbulweni enizenze ndawonye.
Ezinsukwini ezingemnandi, lezi zinkumbulo zingaba ukuphela komthombo wakho ebhange. Uma ushoda ngothando, sebenzisa isitoko sothando owasigcina ngenkathi uthando lwakho lusencane. Futhi, ngineqiniso lokuthi uzoba nokuningi esitolo. Khumbuza lezo zikhathi futhi uzwe ubumbano futhi.
4. Yenza uthando komunye nomunye kaningi kakhulu
Lapho uthando lusemoyeni, awusoze wehluleka ukuma ezicathulweni zomunye nomunye. Iziphonso zothando zikufaka ngokuthobeka okungenamkhawulo nozwela komunye.
Ukusondelana kuyingxenye engenakugwemeka yomshado.
Ozakwethu abanokuncane ukusondelana ngokocansi abakwazi ukuqhubekisela phambili ubudlelwano babo.
Ukungahambisani ngokocansi kuvame ukufaka ezinye izingqinamba eziningi, futhi kungumbuzo wokuthi umshado uzoba sematheni kungekudala.
Adorana omunye nomunye ngokomzimba nangenye indlela.
Isibonelo, Ukuphulula intamo kuyisenzo esihle kakhulu bobabili abalingani abangashintshana ngaso. Kuvusa isifiso ngokushesha okukhulu.
5. Bhekana nenkinga, hhayi umuntu
Hlehlisa ukuzazisa kwakho futhi nikhulume omunye nomunye ngendlela ebheke phambili ngemuva nje kwengxabano.
Thatha iphilisi elibandayo, usebenzise ubuhlakani bakho, bese uxazulula inkinga. Cabanga ngeqiniso; ningabantu ababili abafundile futhi abakhule kahle ababhajwe ezinkingeni. Ngokubambisana, kufanele nithole indlela yokuphuma.
Ukuphefumula izinsuku kungenza kubi nakakhulu.
Ukuphathwa buthule kungangeza uphethiloli emlilweni. Uphoqelekile ukuthi uchithe ukuqhekeka ngozwela nobumnene obukhulu.
6. Izimpikiswano - yebo. Ukulwa okubi - cha
Isiyalo siyingxenye ebalulekile yanoma yibuphi ubuhlobo. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe imingcele ngisho nasebudlelwaneni ngezinga elikhulu lokusondelana.
Engxabanweni enempilo, kunephuzu elihlanganayo eliqeda ukuqhekeka unomphela.
Yiba isilaleli esihle, lalela indlebe yakho kulokho okushiwo umlingani wakho, bese ubeka umbono wakho ngokufanele.
Yiba nguzakwethu ohlakaniphile futhi ufinyelele esiphethweni esivunyelwene ngokuvumelana.
7. I-no-no enkulu
Ungalokothi ungene empini enobuthi egcwele ukuhlukunyezwa nokukhanyisa igesi. Kungabethela ubuhlobo bakho obuzwelayo ezingeni elingenakulungiswa.
Ukushintshana ngamagama we-cuss nokugcona okuphikisayo kungabeka inhlonipho yesibopho sakho engcupheni.
Shintshanisa ukushukuma kweplatonic njalo manje. Ukuqabula okuhle ekuseni, nokugona ngaphambi kokulala kungenza izimanga. Lezi zenzo zothando zikaTeeny-weeny zingangeza imithwalo emshadweni.
Lapho umlingani wakho ematasa eqhuba lo msebenzi, vele uzishaye bese ushintshana nge-platonic hug.
Umlingani wakho uzoya kulo lonke udumo ngokuphendula leso senzo esimnandi.
Phakathi kwemisebenzi, shintshanani ngokwanga okunothando futhi wenze umlingani wakho acule izingoma zohlangothi lwakho lwezothando. Sithembe; kuzokwenyusa umfutho phakathi kwakho nobabili.
Konke okushiwoyo nokwenziwayo, umshado ochithekile uhlala uhluleka ngokuhlanganyela.
Omunye uzakwethu akakwazi ukubeka umthwalo komunye, ngokulandelana. Uma ubambisana nobunzima, ungenza umshado wakho usebenze.