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- 1. Bafuna ukunconywa, babukelwe phezulu, futhi banakwe
- 2. Umuzwa wokuxhuma, womzwelo nowezocansi
- 3. Igumbi lakho
- 4. Thinta okungezona ezocansi
- 5. Itheku lakho eliphephile
- 6. Ukwamukelwa okumsulwa
- 7. Ezothando
Cabanga ukuthi wonke amadoda afuna ngempela ubudlelwano ubulili obuhle, ubhiya obubandayo nesikhathi sokuzihlalela nabangane babo? Cabanga futhi. Sivote iqembu elikhulu labafana abavela kulo lonke izwe, bonke ubudala, nezizinda, futhi nazi izinto eziyisikhombisa eziphezulu abazifunayo ngempela ebudlelwaneni.
1. Bafuna ukunconywa, babukelwe phezulu, futhi banakwe
Ngisho nalowo mfana obonakala engenayo imizwa noma yini onesidingo sokuzwa ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi uyinto enhle kunazo zonke ezake zahamba kulo mhlaba. Angahle angazwakali, kepha ukuzwa amagama akho wokubabaza kubalulekile kuye.
Ngakho-ke phana ngezincomo zakho.
Lapho esekulungisile ukulahlwa kukadoti, mtshele ukuthi uyabonga kakhulu ngokuba nomlungisi wasekhaya. Lapho ethola ukunyuselwa emsebenzini, mtshele ukuthi ujabule kakhulu ukuthi abanye bayabona ukuthi unekhono eliyisimanga kangakanani.
Awudingi ngisho umcimbi okhethekile wokumbheka emehlweni futhi umtshele ukuthi unenhlanhla engakanani yokuthi wakhetha wena. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuncoma okuzenzekelayo kuwuhlobo oluhle kakhulu.
2. Umuzwa wokuxhuma, womzwelo nowezocansi
Abukho ubudlelwano obuhlala isikhathi eside uma bususelwa ocansini kuphela. Abesilisa bakwazisa kokubili ukuxhumana okukhulu kwezocansi nokujulile ngokomzwelo nomlingani wabo. Eqinisweni, bobabili basebenza ngokubambisana ukudala uhlobo oluhle kakhulu lokusondelana umbhangqwana ongaba nakho.
Ngakho-ke, qiniseka ukuthi unaka ukunakekela ukuxhumana kocansi ngokuhlala uzakwethu onelukuluku lokuzijabulisa, omnandi, nothando kanye negumbi lokulala.
Gcina inkhulumomphendvulwano yezocansi ivulekile, futhi uma ubona ukuthi ukwenza uthando sekuyinto ejwayelekile noma kuyanyamalala, unganqikazi ukukhuluma futhi ubuze ukuthi kwenzekani.
Funa iseluleko nodokotela uma kudingeka, kodwa ugcine lowo mlilo uhamba noma usengozini yokuthi umuntu wakho abheke kwenye indawo ukuthola ukushisa.
Ngokomzwelo, uzofuna ukuqhubeka nokusebenzela ukuqinisa isibopho esihlanganisa izinhliziyo zakho, ngokuhlala niphathana ngomusa nangenhlonipho, ngisho nangezikhathi zengxabano.
3. Igumbi lakho
Lokhu akusho igumbi langempela, lomzimba lapho indoda ingakha khona umhume womuntu, noma ngabe unesikhala salokho, kungaba yindawo ehlonishwa kakhulu umuntu wakho angaya kuyo lapho edinga ukuphola nje, ukudlala eminye imidlalo yevidiyo, noma uqoqe kabusha.
Okukhulunywa ngabantu besilisa lapho bethi "okuthile kwabo" kumayelana nezikhathi lapho benza okuthile okuhlukile ... umdlalo wokuzilibazisa, uthando, umdlalo noma ukufunda ikhono elisha.
Imibhangqwana elungile iyazi ukuthi ukuhlala emaphaketheni omunye nomunye akuyona indlela enempilo yokugcina ubudlelwano busha futhi buphila. Ngakho-ke vumela umuntu wakho ukuthi ahambe nempelasonto ayodoba, ayobe, noma enze noma yini entanta esikebheni sakhe. Myeke aqeqeshele umncintiswano webanga elide, abhalise ekilasini lezinkuni, noma ahlangane nabafana ngezikhathi ezithile.
Lezi akuzona izinsongo ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Kungokuphambene,ukuhlukana isikhathi kukwenza wazisane nakakhulu lapho ubuyela ekhaya komunye nomunye.
4. Thinta okungezona ezocansi
Njengoba nje uthokozela ukubhucungwa okuhle kwentamo okungaholeli ocansini, nendoda yakho iyakwenza, nayo.
Ngakho-ke ungakushayi indiva okuncane okusemilebeni yezindebe njengoba nidlula ephaseji, noma nihamba nibambene ngezandla njengoba nihamba epaki. Abesilisa bathanda ukuzwa imfudumalo yengalo yakho okhalweni lwabo futhi bahlala bengumdlalo wokuthanjiswa okuhle emuva.
5. Itheku lakho eliphephile
Amadoda amaningi esiwabuzile abike ukuthi ukwazi ukuthi umlingani wabo unemhlane kwakuyingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu ebudlelwaneni babo.
Babonge ikhono lokukhombisa zonke izinhlangothi zabo kwabesifazane babo: abanamandla, ababuthaka, abadabukile nabajabulayo.
Babewazisa umqondo wokuthi umlingani wabo wayengumuntu wabo ophephile, idwala labo, itshe labo lokuthinta ngezikhathi ezinzima, futhi nangezikhathi zenjabulo.
6. Ukwamukelwa okumsulwa
Abesilisa basitshele ukuthi bayathanda ukuthi bazizwa bemukeleka ngokuphelele kozakwethu, ngisho nangezikhathi lapho bengazamukeli ngokuphelele.
Izikhathi zokungasebenzi, impilo ebuthaka, imizwa emibi, ingcindezi ... babethanda ukuthi noma ngabe bengeyena uSuperman, abalingani babo babemukela njalo njengabantu — amaphutha nakho konke — ukuthi babeyikho.
7. Ezothando
Futhi, ukuthandana okwakungaholeli neze kuma-antics okulala.
Abesilisa bayakwazisa ukuthinta kothando.
Incwadi yothando emnandi yangena esikhwameni sabo ngaphambi kokuba bahambe bayosebenza. Inothi elithunyelwe ngemuva liqoshwe esibukweni sokugezela, kubhalwe ukuthi "UR SO HOT". Isipho esizenzekelayo se-whisky yakhe ayithandayo. Zonke izinto ezincane ezipela ezothando zimkhumbuza ukuthi ungumlingani onothando futhi onakile kangakanani.