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- Yiziphi izilimi zothando?
- Amagama okuvuma
- Izipho
- Izenzo zenkonzo
- Isikhathi sekhwalithi
- Ukuthinta ngokomzimba
- Amaqiniso ngezilimi zothando
Uthando olungenazo izilimi zothando lungaveza ukusebenzisana okungagcwalisi. Sonke sifuna ukuthanda futhi sizizwe sithandwa. Wake wazibuza ukuthi sikwenza kanjani lokho? Vele, siyazi ukuthi kwenziwa ngothando nangamagama anomusa kepha uyazi ukuthi kunezilimi ezi-5 zothando. Kuningi ukuthanda nokuthandwa okungenzeka ukuthi awukuqaphelanga. Uma uzibuza, "Ziyini izilimi zothando?" impendulo yalowo mbuzo ingezansi.
Yiziphi izilimi zothando?
Kunezilimi ezinhlanu zothando esizisebenzisayo ukuveza imizwa yethu kozakwethu bezothando. Izilimi ezinhlanu zothando zingamazwi okuvuma, izipho, imisebenzi yenkonzo, isikhathi sekhwalithi, nokuthinta ngokomzimba (intandokazi ethandwayo). Bonke abahlanu baneqhaza lokuthi abantu ababili bathandane futhi basebenze njengamathuluzi okulungisa uthando. Bonke basebenza ndawonye ukugcina abalingani babo othandweni. Ake sihlole ngamunye ngamunye ngokuningiliziwe ukuze uziqonde kangcono zonke ezinhlanu.
Amagama okuvuma
Uthando luyachuma ngolimi oluqondile nolimi oluqondile othandweni kuthuthukisa ukuxhumana kwabathandanayo kanye nenhlalakahle yomunye nomunye. Ukuncoma kanye namazwi okukhuthaza akukhona nje ukukhuluma. Zibangela impendulo enhle kakhulu. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo oluholwa nguSolwazi Norihiro Sadato lukhombisile ukuthi ukuncoma noma yiluphi uhlobo lomvuzo womphakathi kuthuthukisa ukusebenza kwansuku zonke. Uyabona, ukuthandwa kungaphezu kokugculiseka ngokomzwelo. Kuthinta nomqondo futhi.
Izipho
Izinto ezibonakalayo zinokubaluleka okuthile uma kukhulunywa ngothando kepha akukhona mayelana nenani. Ukubaluleka kulele emcabangweni nasemzameni. Lapho umuntu ethola isipho umcabango wabo wokuqala awuthi, "Ngithole ini?" kodwa kunalokho, “Othile wacabanga ngami.” Lolu limi lwezothando empeleni luwine-win kubo bobabili abalingani ngoba noma ngabe ungumnikeli noma umamukeli, uyazuza. Labo abathola isipho bazizwa bekhethekile ngenkathi umnikeli wesipho eqala ukubona umlingani wabo ejabule.
Izenzo zenkonzo
Ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini kungenza umlingani wakho athandane nawe kaninginingi. Abantu abaningi, ikakhulukazi labo abawuzondayo umsebenzi wasendlini, bangahle bakuthathe njengento engabalulekile kodwa ukwenza kanjalo kuyiphutha elikhulu. Izenzo zenkonzo njengokukhipha udoti, ukugeza izitsha, ukuhamba nenja nokucosha into yokuhlanza eyomile ngoba kukhombisa ukuthi ungumdlali weqembu. Ukubonisa leso simo sengqondo kuqinisa ubuhlobo ngoba bubonisa ukuzimisela nokunakekela. Noma usebenza usuku lonke, zibophezele ekwenzeni imisebenzi engu-1-2 ngosuku kanye mhlawumbe no-3-4 ngezimpelasonto. Ngisho nomzamo omncane kakhulu uzokwenza umehluko omkhulu.
Isikhathi sekhwalithi
Isikhathi sekhwalithi semibhangqwana sisho ukunakwa komunye nomunye. Imibhangqwana iyakudinga lokhu yize iningi linobunzima bokuthola leso sikhathi sekhwalithi. Ukubaluleka kwako kusekelwe ekuxhumeni kokubili ngokwengqondo, ngokomzwelo nokuba nethuba lokuxhuma futhi ngokomzimba. Noma nini lapho kunethuba lesikhathi sekhwalithi, noma iwindi lemizuzu eyishumi elifushane, lithathe. Ngalesi sikhathi yiba nengxoxo esezingeni eliphakeme ehilela ukushintshana kwemizwa, imicabango kanye nezifiso kanye nokubandakanya ngokubuza imibuzo nokulalela empeleni.
Ukuthinta ngokomzimba
Ukuthinta ngokomzimba, ulimi oluthandwa kakhulu yizithandani, kudlula okungokwenyama. Kunezilimi eziningi zezilimi zalolu thando ezibambene ngezandla, ukwangana, ukuqabulana nezocansi. Ukukhuluma ngokomzimba kungenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuxhumana ngothando. Imibhangqwana izozuza ngokulinganisela kokubili ukuthinta okusobala nokucacile. Ukuthinta ngokuphelele kufana nokugona noma ukuqabula (ngokuyisisekelo isenzo esifushane futhi esisezingeni) ngenkathi ukubhucungwa noma ucansi kucacile.
Yithole? Manje hamba usebenzise ulwazi lwakho olusha olutholakele.
Amaqiniso ngezilimi zothando
Cinga amaqiniso wezilimi zothando futhi uzothola imininingwane eminingi ebalulekile. Ulimi lothando lwemibhangqwana luyisihloko esingapheli ngoba zonke ezinhlanu zibaluleke kakhulu. Nawa amaqiniso ambalwa omzimba azungeze izilimi zothando:
Iqiniso: Ukubambana ngezandla nomuntu omthandayo kunganciphisa ukucindezeleka futhi kwehlise ukwesaba.
Ulimi lothando oluhambisanayo: Ukuthinta ngokomzimba
Iqiniso: Ukuveza ukubonga kumuntu omthandayo kukhulisa injabulo ngokushesha.
Ulimi lothando oluhambisanayo: Amagama Okuqinisekisa
Iqiniso: Ukusondelana nomuntu omthandayo akugcini nje ngokukhulisa uthando kepha kukhulisa ukufuna nokufisa.
Ulimi lothando oluhambisanayo: Isikhathi sekhwalithi kanye / noma ukuthinta ngokomzimba
Iqiniso: UCuddling ukhipha amaphilisi ezinhlungu emvelo.
Ulimi lothando oluhambisanayo: Ukuthinta ngokomzimba
Manje njengoba wazi okuningi ngazo zonke izilimi ezinhlanu zothando namanye amaqiniso athakazelisayo, okusele ukwenziwa ukusebenzisa lezi zilimi ebudlelwaneni bakho. Wonke umuntu unolimi olulodwa noma ezimbili eziyinhloko zothando abaziphendula kangcono. Zihlole zonke futhi ufunde ukuthi iziphi ezizwana kakhulu nomlingani wakho futhi uthole ukuthi yiziphi izilimi zakho eziyinhloko nazo. Yenza umzamo wokuhlanganisa bonke abahlanu ebudlelwaneni bakho futhi ujabulele umthelela wezilimi zothando emibhangqwaneni onayo ekubambisaneni kwakho. Nobabili noshade naye nizogcwaliseka ngokwengeziwe, nijabule kakhulu futhi nisondele kakhulu.
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