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- 1. Thola ulwazi, uzifundise
- 2. Funda ukuxhumana
- 3. Zenzele isikhathi sakho
- 4. Musa ukuqagela kakhulu
- 5. Wazise lowo mzimba ngoba ukuthwala umzimba wesifazane kunzima
Abesifazane bayizidalwa ezithandekayo kepha eziyindida kakhulu. Akekho ongasho ngesibindi ukuqonda ngokuphelele abesifazane bethu, ngisho nama-PhD kuma-psychology abesifazane noma ebudlelwaneni. Kepha, ngasizathu simbe, kuhlale kunento eyodwa elingana nobhasikidi besifazane abaningi wokuthi bangamjabulisa kanjani owesifazane, ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwegumbi lokulala.
Futhi namhlanje, sizobheka izinto ezinhlanu okufanele amadoda aziqonde kahle emizameni yazo yokwenza abesifazane babo bajabule futhi bajabule ngempilo.
Ukuqala ngaphakathi kokuvalekile kwekamelo lokulala, ukwazi ukuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani owesifazane wakho kufuna ukuthi wakhe inhlanganisela ephelele yokuzwela nokuqonda ukuthi abesifazane bafuna ini ngempela.
Yize kuhlale kunebhasikidi elilodwa lezixazululo zokuthi ungajabulisa kanjani abesifazane, imibono engezansi engezansi yokuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani owesifazane wakho izokusiza ekutholeni owesifazane wakho futhi umenze aneliseke futhi ajabule.
1. Thola ulwazi, uzifundise
Lalela, ungakhohliswa- abathandi abakhulu abazalwanga kepha benziwa.
Ukukwazi ukujabulisa umuntu wesifazane embhedeni kuyikhono njenganoma yiliphi elinye ikhono ozolithola empilweni. Kufanele uyifunde. Futhi kuthatha isikhathi, ukuzijwayeza nokuhlangenwe nakho. Uma ulindele ukuthi ucansi olukhulu lwenzeke kalula, ulahlekile.
Kumele uzifundise ngezocansi zabesifazane, okubandakanya izindawo ezifana nezempilo yezocansi, amasu ezocansi, ukuxhumana ngezocansi nokuningi.
Ukuze uqale ngocansi lwakho, thola izincwadi ezimbalwa ezinconyiwe, omagazini noma ama-ebook bese ufunda. I-Kickstarter enhle kungaba yi-Big Bang By Nerve. Izokwethula kuzo zonke izinto zocansi.
Ungafunda futhi amabhulogi nezincwadi ezifundisa kabanzi ngezihloko ezahlukahlukene eziphathelene nezocansi futhi uzihlomise futhi ulungele.
2. Funda ukuxhumana
Uma ubheka ukwakha impilo yezocansi emnandi neyanelisayo, kufanele ufunde ukwethembeka futhi ukhulume ngokukhululeka nowesifazane wakho.
Kumele uqinisekise ukuthi owesifazane wakho uyaziqonda zombili izifiso zakho zocansi nezokujwayelekile, futhi ngasikhathi sinye buza nangezakhe.
Nikeza impendulo ngezinkanuko zakhe futhi ubonge owesifazane wakho.
Vuleleka uxoxe ngezinkinga zocansi nomlingani wakho ngaphandle kokwesaba. Iningi labantu livame ukubalekela ukubhekana nezinkinga zocansi, kepha kuyinto engcono kakhulu ongayenza nomlingani wakho. Khuluma!
Eqinisweni, lapho ukhuluma kakhulu ngayo, uthola ulwazi oluthe xaxa ngomlingani wakho futhi ujabulele ubulili obukhulu. Thuthukisa amakhono akho okuxhumana ngokocansi.
3. Zenzele isikhathi sakho
Yize okungahleliwe kukuhle, futhi udinga ukuxhumana nomlingani wakho. Dala isikhathi futhi ujabulele ukuxhumana nomlingani wakho ngokocansi. Yakha ukulindela futhi ukuvumele ukuthi kuqhubeke lapho sekuyisikhathi sokuya ocansini kwangempela.
Akunakwenzeka ukuthi usheshe futhi ujabulele ikhwalithi, ucansi oluhlala isikhathi eside. Ngaphandle kokuthi ufuna zonke izikhathi zakho zocansi zibe ngama-quickies, umqondo omubi.
Into enhle kakhulu ngokudala isikhathi esanele socansi nomlingani wakho ukuthi uthola isikhathi esanele sokufunda umlingani wakho, kusuka ngaphambili ukubhalela. Ukuba nesikhathi esanele socansi kukuvumela ukuthi ufunde izinto ezithile ngomfazi wakho ngaphandle kokuthi uze ubuze. Futhi okufanayo kuya kowesifazane.
Ukudala isikhathi kuqinisekisa nowesifazane wakho ukuthi unentshisekelo yokuxhumana naye futhi ungamsebenzisi ukuze uthole ukukhululeka kobugovu.
4. Musa ukuqagela kakhulu
Thola ubuciko egumbini lokulala.
Ukubikezela kungumbulali ebuhlotsheni obuningi. Umlingani wakho akufanele akwazi ukuqagela konke ukuhamba kwegumbi lakho lokulala, usuku nosuku.
Nonga impilo yakho yezocansi ngobuhlakani obuthile. Letha amathoyizi uma nobabili nikhululekile ngawo. Bhekani ama-movie abeka obala ndawonye bese nilingisa ngokulingisa.
Zama ezinye izikhundla zobulili ezintsha obukade ucabanga ngazo kuphela. Ungaletha nocansi ezindaweni ezintsha njengasekhishini, endlini yangasese, kusofa, njll.
Uhambo lokuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umuntu wesifazane alupheli. Ungaguqula imithetho ngendlela othanda ngayo nomlingani wakho futhi uhlole nobuciko bakho bobabili.
5. Wazise lowo mzimba ngoba ukuthwala umzimba wesifazane kunzima
Lalela, uma lokhu kuyinto ongayinaki isikhathi eside, sekuyisikhathi sokuthi ubuyele ezingqondweni zakho kanye. Ingcindezi abesifazane abanayo ngokugcina umzimba ophelele imane kakhulu. Zazise owesifazane wakho ngalowo mzimba omuhle noma ngabe ucabanga ukuthi awusona.
Ukusuka esiswini esiyisicaba kuya kuma-perky boobs kanye nezinqe ezibunjiwe, okulindelwe kwabesifazane kudlala indima enkulu ekutheni balujabulela kanjani ucansi nabalingani babo. Uma nganoma ngasiphi isizathu becabanga ukuthi awuyazisi imizimba yabo, yileyo ndlela ukuzethemba kwabo nokwaneliseka okudlule ngayo ophahleni.
Zama okungenani ukwengeza ukuncoma okumbalwa ngezikhathi zakhe ezisengozini enkulu njengalapho ulandela amathanga akhe phansi ezinzwaneni, noma lapho ukhumula izingubo zakhe.
Uma nobabili nidlala ucansi lomlomo, mtshele ukuthi unuka kabi lapho.
Uhlu alunakuphela unikezwe uhlobo lwabesifazane kepha lawa ma-hacks ama-5 okuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umuntu wesifazane aqhubeke ngempela ekuvuseleleni izikhathi zakho zocansi. Ungesabi ukukala ukuphakama komcabango.