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- Wonke amadoda awalingani
- Yiba nempilo
- Ukuzivocavoca umzimba
- Yeka ukubhema
- Yidla abakhiqizi be-libido bemvelo
- Buka isisindo sakho
- Izixazululo zokukhathazeka ngokusebenza kwabesilisa
- Ukunikeza umlingani wakho isikhathi sempilo yakhe
Amadoda amaningi ayaziqhenya ngokwazi kwawo ukujabulisa umuntu wesifazane. Kusukela ekukhuleni, kuyisikhathi esedlule esithandwayo samadoda angama-horndog abasebasha ukujabulela ukunqoba kwabo. Lezi zindaba zihlotshisiwe noma ziyimisebenzi emikhulu yezinganekwane lapho zisencane, kepha uma zindala, zisondele kakhulu eqinisweni.
Kuyisigaba, futhi amadoda amaningi akhula kuso. Abanye abakwenzi, kepha lokho kuphambuka akusona isihloko sale bhulogi. Lokhu okuthunyelwe kumayelana nokukhathazeka kokusebenza kocansi nokuthi lezo zindaba, ukubukela i-porn kakhulu, kanye nempendulo emibi kungathinta ikhono lowesilisa lokujabulisa owesifazane.
Wonke amadoda awalingani
Kubantu abaningi abathi bonke “abesilisa” bazalwa belingana, akunjalo. Amanye amadoda anobuso nobuhle bomzimba obukhangayo. Amanye amathuluzi obudoda ahlome kakhulu kunamanye.
Kukhona nalabo abanolwazi oluningi maqondana nekhwalithi nobuningi. Ukukhathazeka kokusebenza ngokocansi kuvela ekungazethembini kwabo. Njengezinhlobo eziningi zokukhathazeka, kuyisiprofetho esizigcwalisayo esivela ebuthakathakeni ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo.
Kunezinto eziningi umuntu angenakuzishintsha, kepha ezinye, ezinjengokubukeka, umzimba, kanye nesipiliyoni kungaxazululwa ngokudla okufanele, ukuzivocavoca umzimba nokuzilolonga.
Yiba nempilo
Ukuqinisa ukuzethemba kuzosiza ekunciphiseni ukukhathazeka kokusebenza kocansi. Umbuzo uthi kanjani? Nawa amanye amathiphu wokuthi ungakunqoba kanjani ukukhathazeka ngokusebenza kocansi.
Ukuzivocavoca umzimba
Ukukhathazeka okuningi kokusebenza kocansi kubangelwa ukungakwazi kwabo ukuqhubeka ngemuva kwempuphu emfushane. Impilo yenhliziyo ingathuthuka kakhulu ngokuzivocavoca umzimba. Indlela yokuphila ngokuhlala isikhathi eside usebenza amahora amaningi ehhovisi elisebenza ngomoya kuthinta kakhulu ukuqina.
Ukusebenza komzimba okunomthelela omkhulu okungenani amahora angama-3-5 ngesonto kuzovimbela ukuwohloka okuqhubekayo. Amahora we-8-12 ngeviki ayadingeka ukubuyisela umzimba wakho esimweni esifanelekile. Lapho ungenza okuningi, kungcono. Akudingekile ukuya ejimini. Kunokuzivocavoca okuningi okutholakala ku-TV naku-Youtube. Uma isimo sezulu sihle, ungagijimela ngaphandle.
Ukwengeza impilo yakho yonke kuzokhuphula nokukhiqizwa kwesidoda. Umzimba onempilo awuzukukhulisa i-libido kuphela, futhi uzohlinzeka nezinhlamvu zokuya eminye imizuliswano embalwa.
Yeka ukubhema
Ukubhema kuyisitha sempilo yenhliziyo. Yonke imihlomulo ongayithola ngokuvivinya umzimba iyanqatshelwa ngokubhema. Lapho ubhema kakhulu, kulapho kuthinta umzimba kabi. Zama ezinye izindlela zokudla i-nicotine njenge-nic-gum kanye ne-vaping ukusiza ukuyeka ukubhema, futhi kancane kancane ususe umlutha we-nicotine ngokuphelele.
Ukubhema kungesinye sezizathu zokuphefumula kabi. Iphunga libuye linamathele ezinweleni nasezingutsheni. Uzakwethu onukayo akathandeki, futhi abesifazane abaningi bazokubala lokho ngokulinganisa kwakho kokugcina.
Yidla abakhiqizi be-libido bemvelo
Ukudla okuningi kuyi-aphrodisiacs yemvelo. Zivimbela ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile futhi zinciphise ukukhathazeka ngokusebenza kocansi. Nalu uhlu olufushane lokudla kwemvelo ukukhulisa i-libido.
- IGinseng
- Isipinashi
- Ushokoledi Omnyama
- Ikhabe
- Upelepele
- Itiye elihlaza
- Ama-oysters
- I-Pesto
- Isiphepho
- Ujinja
- Ugaliki
- Ibhanana
- Imbewu Yethanga
- Uwoyela Wezinhlanzi
- Iwayini elibomvu
- Ipomegranati
- Amajingijolo
- I-Walnut
- Oats
Buka isisindo sakho
Ukukhuluphala kwehlisa i-testosterone. Yi-hormone ebhekele ikakhulu ukuvinjelwa nokushayela ucansi. Kunezifundo eziningi ezihlobanisa namafutha esisu nokusebenza kabi kwezocansi. Umzimba omkhulu ubuye ukhathaleke. Kuyenzeka futhi ukuthi uthambekele ekucindezelekeni nasekucindezelekeni. Konke lokho kungaholela ekushayeleni kocansi okuphansi.
Ukukhathazeka kokusebenza kocansi nakho kuwukubonakaliswa okungaqondakali kwe-low sex drive. Umzimba ophilile futhi onempilo uzovumela umzwelo wemvelo uthathe izintambo futhi kukunikeze ukuzethemba namandla okwenza.
Izixazululo zokukhathazeka ngokusebenza kwabesilisa
Ukuzethemba kanye nemvelo zombili zilawulwa yi-Freudian Id.
Kungashiwo okufanayo ngokukhathazeka. Ukusebenza kwangempela nokukhathazeka kuhambelana, kepha akusethiwe ngamatshe. Njengomfana osemusha ocabanga ukuthi uyisipho sikaNkulunkulu kwabesifazane, kodwa angakwenza kuphela imizuzu emihlanu.
Abesilisa abanezinkathazo zokusebenza ngokocansi kungenzeka abanalo ulwazi olwanele noma abesifazane basho izinto ezimbi ngaye. Konke lokho kungashintsha ngesipiliyoni sokushaya kwengqondo eyodwa. Umzimba ophilile uyisinyathelo sokuqala nje, ngeke nje wenze umuntu ahehe abesifazane, wenza lukhulu ekusebenzeni kwangempela.
Owesifazane wanamuhla ngeke anqikaze ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala. Kodwa-ke, ngeke nje balale nanoma yini ngesigxobo. Kufanele ube ngumuntu wesifazane ofuna ukulala naye. Nakekela ukubukeka kwakho futhi konke kuzokwenzeka ngokwemvelo. Ungakwazi nokuvusa umlingani wesikhathi eside uma wenza izinguquko ezinhle ekubukekeni kwakho.
Kuyaqondakala ukuba nokukhathazeka kokusebenza nomlingani omusha. Amadoda amaningi awahambisani nenselelo. Ukuzethemba kungafakwa, kepha lokho kulula ukusho kunokukwenza. Kungakho umzimba onempilo nokushayela ocansini okuphezulu kungasiza. Uma owesifazane efiseleka ngokwanele ngawe, umzwelo wemvelo uzothatha izintambo.
Ngokuzijwayeza okwanele, noma yimuphi umuntu angathola ulwazi olwanele lokuzethemba kwangempela futhi anqobe ukukhathazeka kokusebenza kocansi.
Ukunikeza umlingani wakho isikhathi sempilo yakhe
Ucansi olukhulu lumayelana nokunikeza nokuthatha, futhi ngaphandle uma umlingani wakho eyisisebenzi senkokhelo esikhokhelwayo noma isigqila (kokubili okungekho emthethweni emazweni amaningi) Kungumsebenzi wendoda ukujabulisa umuntu wesifazane. Ucansi lumayelana nokuzanelisa wena, kepha uma ukwazi ukujabulisa umuntu wesifazane ngaphezu kwalokho akulindele, ungaba nebhizinisi eliphindayo ngaphandle kokulisebenzela.
Kuningi ukudlala ngothando okuthinta owesifazane ukuvula imilenze yakhe.
Kukhona ukuxhumana njalo, ukupha izipho, izinsuku zesidlo, nezimbali. Ungachithi wonke lowo mzamo ngokumshiya enganelisekile lapho ekugcineni elala nawe. Jabulela ukubuka owesifazane ejabulela izenzo zakho. Khuluma okungcolile uma kunesidingo. Inkulumo yomcamelo, noma ingeyona yangempela, izokwenza noma imuphi umuntu wesilisa anqobe izinkathazo zokusebenza ngokocansi. Menze akhulume njengenkanyezi yezocansi bese ephendula.
Ukuntuleka kwesipiliyoni nokuzethemba kuzophela ngokwemvelo lapho abesifazane sebenethezekile nawe. Bayokuthokozela ukubuyisa umusa ukuze waneliseke. Ngakho khululeka futhi ugxile. Ungacabangi ngokunye ngaphandle kokujabulisa umlingani wakho. Konke okunye kuzokwenzeka ngokwemvelo.