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- Okokuqala, ingabe wena noma oshade naye ungumuntu ozwela kakhulu?
- Kubalulekile ukuvula umugqa wezokuxhumana nge-HSP okungeyona
Ukuba Umuntu Ozwela Kakhulu kuyinselele ngokwanele kulo mhlaba, kepha ebudlelwaneni lapho umlingani wethu engaqondi ukuthi lokho kusho ukuthini ukuzizwa ungenathemba! Lisekhona ithemba, ngoba ukuxhumana okucacile komehluko we-HSPs kusuka ku-non HSP kuholela ekuqondeni, futhi lapho ukuqonda, uthando, ukuzibophezela nokuzimisela kuhlangana, kulapho-ke kwenzeka khona umlingo.
Okokuqala, ingabe wena noma oshade naye ungumuntu ozwela kakhulu?
Ngokusobala cishe ama-20% wabantu angama-HSPs. Uma uthola ukuthi usindwa kalula yizikhuthazi zangaphandle ungahle ube. Izinto ezinjengalezi: iphunga, umsindo, amalambu, izixuku, izimo lapho kuningi okwenzeka khona ngasikhathi sinye, zwa imizwa yabanye abantu, unenkinga yokuthola isikhala esanele somuntu eduze kwabanye okushiya uzizwa ukhathele.
Lokhu kuzwela kungabonakala kwenza impilo ibe nzima kakhulu, njengoba ama-HSPs ethanda ukubheka nokugwema izinto ezibakhathazayo nomaphi lapho beya khona. I-radar yabo iba qaphe ngokwengeziwe, ibabangele kalula ekulweni noma ezindizeni, imvamisa ibashiya bezizwa bekhathele yingcindezi nokukhathazeka.
Ebudlelwaneni ne-HSP okungeyona le nto kungaba nzima ngoba ama-HSP abona umhlaba ngokuhlukile futhi anezidingo ezihlukile. Abalingani bama-HSPs bavame ukubabona njengabazwela ngokweqile noma abasebenza ngokweqile, kepha kuyindlela nje ama-HSP akhiwe ngayo. Lapho i-HSP iqondwa futhi yamukelwa, ingaholela empilweni ejabulisa kakhulu. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ama-HSP empeleni ayazi kakhulu futhi ahambisana nendawo ahlala kuyo, futhi angasebenzisa imizwa yawo ukuwaqondisa kude nokungezwani, kanye nasekuzwaneni.
Kubalulekile ukuvula umugqa wezokuxhumana nge-HSP okungeyona
Ebudlelwaneni, uma uyi-HSP futhi umlingani wakho engekho, kubalulekile ukuvula umugqa wokuxhumana nabo ukuze ufunde ukuthi ngamunye wenu ubona kanjani futhi awuthola kanjani umhlaba. Uma sekufundwe kulawa mazinga, esikhundleni salokho kuhlala kunokungaqondani okuholela kokukodwa, noma bobabili abantu bengazitholi izidingo zabo, ibhalansi ingadalwa ngokwamukela ngothando nangokuyekethisa.
Kufana nobudlelwano nomuntu oyedwa ekubeni isingeniso kanti omunye uyi-extrovert. Okuphakelayo kokuqala futhi kuzivuselele ngesikhathi sokuthula sodwa, kanti esinye ngokuba seduze kwabantu abaningi emphakathini. Lokhu kungabonakala sengathi akunakwenzeka ukulinganisela ngakho-ke omunye nomunye uthola lokho abakudingayo nabakufunayo, kepha empeleni, kungaholela ekuhlangenwe nakho okunothile kakhulu uma umbhangqwana ufunda futhi wazi umhlaba womunye nomunye. Ukwehlukahluka yilokho okubhebhezela uthando, ukugeleza nenjabulo empilweni. Cabanga uhlangabezana nomhlaba omusha obungakaze wazi ukuthi ukhona, ngokuzivumela ukuthi ujoyine oshade naye emhlabeni abahlala kuwo!
Njengokuba ingane ihlangabezana nento ongakaze uyibone ngaphambili .... wow, isimanga kulokho!
Ngakho-ke uma uthola ukuthi le ndatshana iyazwakala, noma ikuthinta ekujuleni kwenhliziyo, kungenzeka ukuthi wena noma umlingani wakho uyi-HSP, futhi kukhona ukuzijabulisa nokuhlola okusha kokwenza lokho okuzovula ubuhlobo bakho kuthando nenjabulo enkulu ngokwamukela umehluko womunye nomunye !