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- Ungalokothi ubavumele bathathe uhlangothi
- Xhumana lapho kungenzeka khona ukuvimbela ukuxhashazwa kwezingane
- Qonda imizwa yabo futhi ubaqondise
- Yiba ongaguquguquki futhi uzinze nemizwelo yakho
- Thatha umthwalo wangemva kwesehlukaniso
Izingane zithwala imiphumela eminingi yezingxabano nokuphazamiseka ngaphambi kwesehlukaniso kunabazali bazo. Abeluleki bemishado beluleka imibhangqwana ukuthi ithuthukise ubudlelwano bobuzali bobabili ukusiza izingane zilulame ngokushesha futhi zijwayele amalungiselelo amasha omndeni. Ukuphatha oshade naye njengophathina webhizinisi kwakha ukuzethemba nenhlonipho ezinganeni, kubanike elinye futhi ithuba lokukhula okuphelele naphezu kwezimo. Eminye yemithetho eyisisekelo yokuba ngumzali osebenzayo ngemuva kwesehlukaniso ifaka phakathi-
Ungalokothi ubavumele bathathe uhlangothi
Yazisa izingane ukuthi lena yimizi emibili ehlukene enemithetho engafani futhi akekho onamandla okuphatha izinqumo zomzali. Lapho besendlini kababa, balandela imithetho kababa wabo; ngokufanayo, uma besendlini kamama balandela imithetho kamama. Ukwenza lezi zinyathelo zokuqondisa izigwegwe, lapho ingane izama ukukutshela okuthile nge-ex yakho, qinisekisa nazo. Iqiniso lokuthi ungahlala ufinyelela ebucayini njengethuluzi eliqondisayo ezinganeni abazoshiya zilandele lokho okulindeleke kubo.
Ungalokothi umbi ngomlomo wakho wakudala nezingane, ulahlekelwa ukubamba kwabo futhi ucabange ezingeni elifanayo. Vumela ukuthi babe izingane hhayi abantu abadala. Uma unenkinga evuthayo ngomlingani wakho, khuluma nomngane omethembayo ukuze ukhiphe intukuthelo nentukuthelo. Izingane akufanele kube yindawo yokulwa izingxabano zakho. Empeleni, nina ningezompempe enkundleni yokudlala yobuzali.
Xhumana lapho kungenzeka khona ukuvimbela ukuxhashazwa kwezingane
Okwamanje lapho izingane zifunda ungalokothi ukhulume nganoma iyiphi inkinga, zizodlala umdlalo "wokufihla futhi ufune" ngezingqondo zakho. Kujwayelekile ukuthi omama banikele ngezipho ezingadingekile nokuphatha ukufakazela ukubaluleka kwabo ngaphezu kukababa. Umosha impilo yengane. Bazofunda nini ukuzinakekela, uma bekwazi ukuthola abakufunayo ngesikhathi abakudinga ngaso? Angiqondile ukuthi ubenqabe izidingo eziyisisekelo nezipho, kepha makube ngokulinganisela. Lapho kungekho ukuzibamba, bazofuna i-smartphone lapho wazi kahle ukuthi kabakhulile, ukwehluleka ukubanika baqala ukukukhohlisa ngokungakuniki imininingwane ngomlingani wakho ocabanga ukuthi ikusiza empilweni yakho. Ungadlali emdlalweni wabo; usengumzali hhayi osebenzisana nabo.
Qonda imizwa yabo futhi ubaqondise
Imizwa engokomzwelo yezingane ngemuva kwesahlukaniso ayinakunakwa. Usizi, ubulukhuni bokuzihlukanisa, nezinkinga zokuzethemba ezingezansi yimiphumela embalwa nje. Bhekana nabo njengoba bevuka futhi uthembeke kuwe lapho udinga usizo. Yizingane zakho; vumela i-ex yakho futhi isize ukuphatha imizwa ngaphambi kokuthi iphume esandleni.
Ukukhuluma njalo nokwelulekwa, kubasize bahambisane nalesi simo, kunjalo, akulula, kepha ngokusekelwa ngabazali bobabili kwenza ukwelashwa kusheshe futhi kube lula.
Yiba ongaguquguquki futhi uzinze nemizwelo yakho
Ubhekene nesikhathi sokuzama; ukuqagela kwentukuthelo, intukuthelo, nentukuthelo kungakuthatha umthwalo ngenxa yemizwa engazinzile. Kunomthelela ezinganeni; lapho kufanele ukhale, kwenze kude nezingane kepha ngokulinganisela ukukunika amandla okuqhubeka ubanikeze uthando lwakho-baludinga kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi. Ungalokothi uyekethise ekuyalweni nasekusebenzeni okujwayelekile kwendlu ngenxa nje yezikhathi ezinzima; kushiya uphawu lwaphakade ebuntwini bengane.
Thatha umthwalo wangemva kwesehlukaniso
Nenze konke okusemandleni enu ukuthi nihlale ndawonye, kepha zonke izimpawu beziwukuthi bekungadalelwanga ukuba zibe njalo. Kuthatha okubili ukubamba, uthathe isikhathi ubheke isimilo sakho nobuntu bakho okungaba yisithiyo emshadweni ojabulisayo. Yamukela lesi simo futhi ubhekane nemiphumela ngesimo esihle ukuze ungakukhathazi ngokomzwelo. Zithele wena empini engaphambi kwakho, akulula kepha ngohlelo olufanele lokusekelwa okuzungezile, uzonqoba.
Ukubona umuntu wakho wakudala enza kangcono noma kabi kunangesikhathi ubenaye kudinga inhliziyo eqinile ikakhulukazi uma usenemizwa nge-ex yakho. Izingane zifanelwe okungcono kakhulu kubo bobabili abazali naphezu kwelungiselelo lomndeni elisha. Impumelelo yokuba ngumzali ngokubambisana ibonakala enhlalakahleni yokomoya, yomzimba, neyomphefumulo yezingane nabalingani bazo. Unokukhathazeka okuncane kwegebe oshiya umlingani wakho wakudala; unesikhathi esifanele sokukufeza ngezikhathi zabo zokuvakasha.