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- Bhala zonke izinkinga zakho, kepha gxila endimeni yakho kuzo
- Kunconyiwe - Gcina Inkambo Yami Yomshado
- Funda ukuthi ungakhuluma kanjani ngendlela eyakhayo
- Susa abaphuli abakhulu bokuthengiselana
- Sebenzela ezicini ezinhle zomshado wakho
Izithandani zivame ukuvakashela isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo nombuzo wokuthi zingalungiswa kanjani izinkinga zomshado kungakephuzi kakhulu. Kwezinye izimo, ngeshwa, ngaleso sikhathi sekuvele kunjalo. Kepha, kwabaningi, inqobo nje uma bekhumbula izikhathi ezingcono ababelana ngazo ndawonye, likhona ithemba. Ithemba hhayi nje ngokusindisa umshado, kodwa ngokuwuguqula ube yilokho ababekucabanga njengobudlelwano obuhle lapho besho izifungo zabo. Ngakho-ke, leyo mibhangqwana iwuvikela kanjani umshado wayo emanxiweni? Nazi izinyathelo ezine okufanele uzithathe lapho uzama ukulungisa izinkinga zomshado kungakephuzi kakhulu.
Bhala zonke izinkinga zakho, kepha gxila endimeni yakho kuzo
Yonke imibhangqwana iyalwa. Labo abangaze bangene ekuxabaneni mhlawumbe banenkinga enkulu yokuntuleka kokuvuleleka. Kepha, kubaningi kakhulu abangena ukungavumelani lapha nalaphaya, kunezindlela ezifanele nezinganele zokubhekana nezinkinga. Ngakho-ke, kuleli qophelo, udinga ukusebenzisa izinkinga zakho bese uziguqula zizuze wena.
Ukwenza kanjani lokhu? Yenza uhlu, ngeziqalo. Bhala phansi zonke izingqinamba olwa ngazo, noma ubuzolwela ngazo (ukube nje awugwemanga ukuzisho kwasekuqaleni ngenxa yokwesaba ukulwa). Futhi thembeka ngangokunokwenzeka ngoba lokhu kungenza umehluko phakathi kokukwenza nokuhluleka.
Isici esibaluleke kakhulu sale nqubo kuzoba ukuthi ugxile endimeni yakho kulezi zinkinga. Asisho ukuthi yiphutha lakho, nakancane. Kepha, kulesi sigaba, uzoqala ukufunda elinye ikhono elibalulekile - ukuyeka ukusola abanye nokugxila kulokho ongakulawula futhi ongakuthuthukisa. Ngamanye amagama, umlingani ngamunye udinga ukufunda ukuqondisa imizamo yakhe ngaphakathi, ukuze inqubo ibe sethubeni lokuphumelela. Ukusolana ngezinkinga nokungathathi umthwalo wesabelo sakho secala kungaba esinye sezizathu zokuthi umshado ufike kuleli qophelo kwasekuqaleni.
Kunconyiwe - Gcina Inkambo Yami Yomshado
Funda ukuthi ungakhuluma kanjani ngendlela eyakhayo
Ngokugcina, lokho okushiwo kuza ingxenye elandelayo yenqubo, ukulungisa izinkinga zomshado ngezinyathelo ezine, okuwukuxhumana okwakhayo. Imishado ivame ukwehluleka ngoba isilinganiso esiphakathi kokusebenzisana okuhle nokubi siseduze kakhulu (noma okubi kunqoba). Zonke izinhlobo zokusola, ukumemeza, ukuthukwa, ukubhuqa, intukuthelo nentukuthelo, konke okuwela esigabeni sesibili, futhi zonke zidinga ukuya.
Kungani? Ngaphandle kwamandla amakhulu okuphawula nge-snide kanye nenzondo evulekile yokonakalisa ukuzethemba komamukeli nokuzimisela ukukhombisa uthando, akunasisekelo sokwakha. Abasho lutho ngendlela ozizwa ngayo nokuthi ufunani, abaxazululi lutho. Inqobo nje uma niqhubeka nikhonkothana, nichitha isikhathi eningazibophezela ngaso ekulungiseni izinkinga zomshado.
Ngakho-ke, esikhundleni sendlela engasebenzi kangako ngesikhathi sakho nobudlelwano, zama ukuziveza ngendlela ephumelelayo. Yebo, kungadingeka ukuthi uzijwayeze futhi ushintshe indlela yakho yokuxhumana nomlingani wakho kakhulu. Kepha, lokhu obukwenza kuze kube manje bekungasebenzi ngempela, angithi? Okufanele ukwenze ukusebenzisa ithempulethi elandelayo noma kunini lapho kunodaba oluthintekayo: veza imizwa yakho, uveze ukukhathazeka kwakho nombono wakho ngezinto, uphakamise isixazululo, bese ucela umbono womlingani wakho ngalesixazululo esihlongozwayo.
Susa abaphuli abakhulu bokuthengiselana
Ngemuva kokuthi ubhekane nezingcingo zansuku zonke zokuphikisana, kufanele unikezele ukunaka kwakho kwabaphula isivumelwano somshado wakho. Lokhu kuvame ukuba yintukuthelo, ukuphinga, nokulutha. Imishado eminingi ayidluli kulezi zinkinga ezinkulu. Kepha labo abakwenzayo, bakwenza lokho ngokuqeda umshado onjalo bese baqala omusha. Entsha enomlingani ofanayo, kepha ayikho neyodwa kuleyo mikhuba elimaza kakhulu futhi elimazayo.
Sebenzela ezicini ezinhle zomshado wakho
Lapho umshado ufinyelela ezingeni lapho kungasekho ukubuya, lapho abalingani kudingeka banqume ukuthi bazoqhubeka yini nokuhamba ngendlela efanayo noma bashintshe izindlela zabo, iningi labashadikazi selivele libakhohlwe ngokuphelele izinhlangothi ezinhle zobudlelwano babo. Awele kwalasha womunyu nentukuthelo.
Kodwa-ke, lapho ufuna ukuhlenga umshado, udinga ukukhumbula izinto ezinhle ngawo. Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho. Udinga ukugxila ngokuphelele kuzo. Kufanele wenze umzamo wokususa zonke izingqinamba ezindala nezigugile futhi wenze isiqalo esisha, ngokuya ngamandla omshado wakho.