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- Imibhangqwana exhunywe ngokwanelisayo
- Kuyini ukusondelana ngokomzwelo?
- 1. Thatha ukungcebeleka kusihlwa imizuzu engama-20 ngesandla
- 2. Nikezanani ngemasaji yemizuzu eyi-10 ngaphambi kokulala
- 3. Gona ithawula okwabelwana ngalo epaki
- 4. Thumela umlayezo wombhalo we-flirty ukwakha ukulindela
- 5. Thatha ikhefu lemizuzu engu-20 lokukhuluma ngomcamelo ngemuva komsebenzi
- 6. Pheka isidlo sakusihlwa ndawonye
Kunomqondo obonakala ungajwayelekile, kepha onamandla amakhulu wokuthi ukungayi ocansini kungaba isenzo esisondelene ngokomzwelo semibhangqwana. Manje, lokhu kungazwakala kungubuhlanya kwabaningi, ngemuva kwakho konke, yini enye, isondelene kunokuhlangana kocansi? Futhi kuthiwani ngengozi emshadweni lapho ukuhlangana kocansi kuphelile? Uma ungumuntu ophikisana nalo mbono, ungahle ube ngumuntu nje ongazuza ekuzivocavoca ukusondelana ngokomzwelo kwemibhangqwana.
Kunomehluko omkhulu phakathi kocansi nokusondelana kanti omunye uba yikhiye yokuphumelela ebuhlotsheni besikhathi eside.
Imibhangqwana exhunywe ngokwanelisayo
Njengoba isikhathi sihamba ukuthatheka ngokuthintana kocansi kungancipha, njengoba sonke sazi, futhi kungalesi sikhathi, uma sinenhlanhla, ukuthi sikwazi ukuzivumelanisa kalula nejubane elisha, noma singaqala ukuzwa sengathi kungenzeka kukhona okushodayo kusuka ebudlelwaneni.
Uma ukuthola kulula ukuzijwayeza lejubane elisha ebudlelwaneni benu, kungenzeka ukuthi senizijwayeza (noma ngabe anikuqapheli) ukuzivocavoca ngokomzwelo komunye nomunye. Kungenzeka ukuthi uyitholile ngokwemvelo indlela yokuxoxa eqinisekisa ukuthi uxhumekile ngokwanelisayo; okuzophinde kuqinisekise ukuthi nizoba nobudlelwano obujabulisayo, obunempilo nobuphephile komunye nomunye, ngobungozi obuphansi bokuthi ubuhlobo bobulili buyaphela.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umbhangqwana kungenzeka ukuthi awuthuthukelanga ngokwemvelo esigabeni esixhumene ngokwanelisayo. Esikhundleni salokho, ukuntuleka kocansi kungadala ukukhathazeka okuthile, noma umuzwa wokungaqiniseki, noma ukungagcwaliseki, ukungakhangi, noma ukungakhangi ebudlelwaneni bakho. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi njengabashadikazi kungenzeka ukuthi awukakhulanga ngokwemvelo ukusondelana ngokomzwelo ebudlelwaneni bakho. Futhi uma ungaqali ukudala ukusondelana ngokomzwelo komunye nomunye, lokhu kuyinkinga engakhula engahle ikushiye nobabili nizizwe sengathi ubudlelwano benu bebungahloselwe ukuba bube khona, yize lokho kungaba kude neqiniso.
Ukufunda ukuthi ungaxhumana kanjani nomlingani wakho noma oshade naye ngokomzwelo kulula uma wenza izivivinyo zokusondelana ngokomzwelo kwemibhangqwana. Le yindlela owenza ngayo ukuxhumana kwangempela komunye nomunye futhi iyimfihlo yobudlelwano obujabulisayo nobuphumelelayo.
Kuyini ukusondelana ngokomzwelo?
Ukusondelana ngokomzwelo ukunakekelana, ukunakekelana, ukuxhuma omunye nomunye, ukwethembana, ukuncoma, ukwazisa, ukuthinta, ukuqabulana, ukuxhumana, ukuphulula, ukubamba, ukugona, ukuba sengozini nokuthembela kumlingani wakho ukuphatha ubungozi bakho ngenhlonipho, uthando nokunakekela. Uma unalo lonke lolu cansi luba yingxenye yalo futhi futhi luye lwanelise ngokwengeziwe. Ukukhula nokuxhumeka ozokufeza njengombhangqwana, ngenxa yalokhu kuxhumana kuzoba kujule.
Ukuzivocavoca ukusondelana ngokomzwelo kwemibhangqwana ukukusiza ukuxhuma:
1. Thatha ukungcebeleka kusihlwa imizuzu engama-20 ngesandla
Lokhu kungazwakala njengombono olula kangako, kepha kuhlala kuyizinto ezilula ezenza umehluko obaluleke kakhulu. Uzoba nethuba lokuzibamba, ushaye ama-cobwebs kusuka ku-psyche yakho bese ukhuluma, ngenkathi uhlala uxhumekile ngokomzimba ngokubamba ngesandla. Lo mkhuba olula uzokugcina uqinile njengombhangqwana futhi uzoba mnandi ngempilo yakho nokuphila kahle.
2. Nikezanani ngemasaji yemizuzu eyi-10 ngaphambi kokulala
Le ngenye indlela elula yokuxhuma, ukuthinta nokuhlangana ndawonye ngaphandle kokudinga ukuphoqwa, noma ukuya ocansini. Uma utshala ukusikhipha ngenhliziyo yonke (noma ngabe uyi-masseuse) imivuzo yesenzo esilula kanjalo, sothando ebudlelwaneni bakho izokubuyisela kakhulukazi.
3. Gona ithawula okwabelwana ngalo epaki
O, kumnandi kanjani ukubona izithandani zihleli ndawonye epaki, zijabulela nje ilanga futhi 'zisemzuzwini', zigxoce ithawula elabiwe. Uma lokho kungewona uthando, asazi ukuthi yini. Kungenye nje indlela elula yokusondelana ngokomzwelo emibhangqwaneni ongayenza zisuka nje.
4. Thumela umlayezo wombhalo we-flirty ukwakha ukulindela
Thumela umlayezo wombhalo oshukumisayo ukuze wakhe ukulangazelela, futhi wazise umlingani wakho ukuthi ucabanga ngaye.
Akukho lutho olungcono njengokulindela ukubuyela ekhaya kumuntu omthandayo wazi ukuthi usesimweni esihle nokuthi nizoba nobusuku obuhle ndawonye. Futhi wonke umuntu ufuna ukwazi ukuthi umuntu amthandayo ucabanga ngabo. Lokhu kuyindlela elula nebushelelezi yokusondelana ngokomzwelo emibhangqwaneni engenziwa kalula empilweni yakho.
5. Thatha ikhefu lemizuzu engu-20 lokukhuluma ngomcamelo ngemuva komsebenzi
Lokhu kungenye into elula ongayenza, kepha into esingacabangi ukuyenza, futhi iyiphi indlela engcono ongacabanga ukuyimisa, ukuqaqa nokuhlukanisa usuku olusebenzayo nolwakho kusihlwa ndawonye?
6. Pheka isidlo sakusihlwa ndawonye
Ukuma ndawonye, ukusekelana kuphrojekthi eqinisa omunye nomunye ngenkathi kuxoxwa, kudansa, futhi kuphuzwa iwayini njengoba nisebenza kungukuzivocavoca okuhle ngokomzwelo kwemibhangqwana ebuye ibeke ithoni kusihlwa esimnandi.