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- Umshado yisimo esisemthethweni
- Ukwehlukana kusho ukuhlala ngokuhlukana kodwa uboshwe ngokomthetho
- Izikweletu ezintsha zingaba kumlingani oyedwa kuphela
- Oshade naye kungadingeka akhokhe
Impendulo emfushane bobabili abashadile babhekene nezikweletu ngesikhathi sokuhlukana. Basashadile futhi ngenxa yalokho imvamisa basabambisene ngokuhlanganyela ezikweletini abazenze ngesikhathi sokuhlangana kwabo.
Umshado yisimo esisemthethweni
Umshado, phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukujoyina ngokusemthethweni abantu ababili. Ukuhola komlingani oyedwa ngokuvamile kubhekwa njengokwabanikazi ngokuhlanganyela, futhi izikweletu nazo zibanjwa ngokuhlanganyela. Ngesikhathi sehlukaniso, inkantolo izoqinisekisa ukuthi abashadile bahlukanise kahle izimpahla zabo nezikweletu zabo. Imvamisa, amaqembu azovumelana ngokuhlukana bese inkantolo imane ikwamukele. Kwesinye isikhathi, abameli bomlingani ngamunye bazophikisana ngokuhlukana bese inkantolo kufanele yenze isinqumo.
Ukwehlukana kusho ukuhlala ngokuhlukana kodwa uboshwe ngokomthetho
Lapho umbhangqwana oshadile ulibangise esehlukanisweni, ukwehlukana ngokuvamile kuyisinyathelo sokuqala. Kungabonakala njengokuqondana ukuthi umbhangqwana oshadile ofuna ukuhlukanisa uzozihlukanisa ngokwenyama. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kusho ukuthi umlingani oyedwa uzophuma ekhaya labo abelane ngalo. Lokhu kwehlukana, kwesinye isikhathi okubizwa ngokuthi “ukuhlala ngokuhlukana nokuhlukana,” nakho kunomphumela obalulekile wezomthetho. Izifundazwe eziningi zidinga isikhathi sokuhlukana ngaphambi kwesehlukaniso, imvamisa unyaka wonke.
Kuningi okungenzeka ngesikhathi kwesinye isikhathi sezinyanga lapho umbhangqwana uhlala ngokuhlukana kodwa usashade ngokusemthethweni. Lokhu kungaholela ezinkingeni eziningi. Kwesinye isikhathi omunye oshade naye uyenqaba ukukhokha ekhadini lakhe lesikweletu elihlangene. Noma oshade naye okhokha imalimboleko angayeka ukukhokha. Uma ungakhokhi izikweletu zakho ngesikhathi sokuhlukana kodwa nisashade ngokusemthethweni, imvamisa nobabili niyahlupheka.
Izikweletu ezintsha zingaba kumlingani oyedwa kuphela
Ezinye izifundazwe zithole okuhle ngezikweletu ezintsha ezitholakele ngesikhathi sokuhlukana. Isibonelo, uma abashadikazi behlukana bese kuthi umyeni athathe imali mboleko yokuthenga indlu nentombi yakhe entsha, abantu abaningi bangathi unkosikazi osanda kudivosa kufanele angabophezeleka kuleso sikweletu. Ezinye izinkantolo zingabheka izikweletu zangemva kokwehlukaniswa ngokwezigaba ngamacala. Isibonelo, ukusebenzisa ikhadi lesikweletu ukukhokhela ukwelulekwa ngomshado kungathathwa njengesikweletu somshado ngenkathi indlu yentombi entsha ingenjalo.
Umthetho kule ndawo ungashintsha ukusuka kwenye indawo uye kwenye futhi kuya ngohlobo lwesikweletu, ngakho-ke qaphela. Uma unekhadi elihlanganyelwe lesikweletu, isibonelo, ungahle ufune ukulikhansela lelo ngokushesha ukuvimbela oshade naye ohlukanisile ukuthi enze izikweletu ezintsha ezingaba umthwalo wakho wemfanelo.
Oshade naye kungadingeka akhokhe
Ezinye izifundazwe zingadinga umuntu oshade naye ukuthi akhokhe isondlo ngesikhathi sokuhlukana, futhi abashade nabo abaningi bayasivumela noma kunjalo. Isibonelo, endlini ehola umuntu oyedwa, umondli kungadingeka akhokhe imali ebolekiswe ekhaya lomshado noma ephuma. Lokhu kungakhungathekisa ngoba abaningi abashadile abahlukanisayo abazizwa benesisa ngokukhethekile kulabo abazoba ngabadala. Umthetho ezifundazweni eziningi ubona umehluko omncane phakathi komlingani ohlukanisile nomlingani ojwayelekile ojabulayo, noma kunjalo.