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- Ungabhekana kanjani nabasekhweni abangahloniphi noma abanobuthi
- 1 Setha imingcele yakho ngqo ekuqaleni
- 2. Gxila kakhulu emisebenzini enenzuzo
- 3. Funa usizo lomuntu oshade naye
- 4. Gcina ibanga elihle
- 5. Iya umzila okhokhelwayo
Umshado, empeleni, awufani nokuthi uboniswa kumabhayisikobho aseHallmark.
Umshado uyisinqumo esishintsha impilo futhi kumele sithathwe ngokucophelela. Ungahlangabezana nezinselelo eziningi obungazilindelanga futhi ungazicelanga ngemuva kokushada.
Ungahle uthole umlingani wakho ehluke kakhulu kunangesikhathi sokuthandana. Hhayi umlingani nje kuphela, abazali babo bangabonakala futhi njengezinto ezihluke ngokuphelele kunendlela obababona bekhona ngayo ekuqaleni.
Kepha lokhu kujwayelekile. Isikhathi esengeziwe ozosichitha noshade naye nomndeni wakho, kulapho izimfihlakalo ezengeziwe ozozembula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Manje, noma ngabe ngeshwa uthole umamezala okhohlisayo ngokomzwelo noma abasekhweni abangahloniphi, akusho ukuthi umshado kufanele uphele.
Ungabhekana kanjani nabasekhweni abangahloniphi noma abanobuthi
Ngaphandle kokungabaza, amandla okuguquguquka ayahluka emndenini nomndeni. Konke lokhu kumayelana nendlela imindeni ebumbene ngayo.
Ubudlelwano nabasekhweni lakho buhlala buyinkohliso.
Usengaphokophela ukwenza ukuthula nabasekhweni lakho abangahloniphi futhi niphile umshado ogculisayo noshade naye uma ubhekana nalesi simo ngobuhlakani nangendlela efanele.
Lapho kunenkinga khona, kukhona nesixazululo. Futhi akumelwe ukukhohlwe lokhu!
Kunezindlela ezimbalwa ongafuna ngazo inhlonipho ngenkathi ungazithobi izinga labo. Udinga ukufunda ukuthi ungabeka kanjani imingcele nabasekhweni ngenkathi ugcina isithunzi sakho.
Funda izeluleko ezimbalwa ezisebenzisekayo zokubhekana nabasekhweni abanzima noma abanobuthi.
1 Setha imingcele yakho ngqo ekuqaleni
Ungazami ukubeka i-facade futhi uziveze ukuthi umnandi ngokweqile futhi uhlala kahle. Khombisa umlingani wakho nomndeni wakho ukuthi ungubani ngomqondo wangempela.
Yazisa wonke umuntu ukuthi leli yizinga lakho lokukhuthazela, futhi ubazise ukuthi awuthandi noma ngubani owela kulo. Akudingeki ukuthi ungahloniphi, kepha ungahlala ume ngokuqina.
Uma ufisa ukuba nokuphila okunokuthula okunezivimbamgwaqo ezimbalwa, ukubeka imingcele nabasekhweni ngisho nomlingani wakho kubalulekile.
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2. Gxila kakhulu emisebenzini enenzuzo
Uma unomamezala ophethe noma umukhwe, akudingeki uchithe isikhathi sakho esiningi ushaya uphahla.
Zama ukubona ukuthi abasekhweni bakho abaluhlaza bayingxenye nje yempilo yakho, hhayi impilo yakho yonke, ngaphandle kokuthi ubavumele!
Uma kungekho ndlela ongashintsha ngayo ukuziphatha kwabo kobudoda, ukubhukuda negagasi, bese ugxila kakhulu ekwenzeni lokho okuthandayo.
Kungaba umsebenzi wakho, noma izinto ozithandayo, noma ukuchitha isikhathi nabangane bakho. Yenza umzamo wamabomu wokuchitha isikhathi sakho ngokwakhayo kunokukhanyisela ngalokho abakushilo noma imisebenzi yabo enobutha.
3. Funa usizo lomuntu oshade naye
Uma unabasekhweni abangahloniphi, yazisa oshade naye. Ungazami ukubhekana nabazali bomlingani wakho wedwa ngenhloso yokungabalimazi. Lokhu kungadala ukulimala okukhulu ebudlelwaneni bakho uma kungenzeki ekuqaleni.
Ungagxili ekukhulumeni ngabasekhweni bakho abangahloniphi kumngane wakho womshado. Lokhu akuyona into engaphansi kokuzidubula onyaweni.
Ngaphandle kokukhohlisa, zama ukukhuluma iqiniso kumlingani wakho lapho besesimweni sokulalela. Ungazisa oshade naye ukuthi azi amaqiniso futhi ubacele ukuthi babhekane nabazali babo.
Oshade naye kungenzeka ukuthi uyazi ifomula yomlingo yokuphatha kahle abazali babo futhi akusindise ekuxabaneni nebhokisi likaPandora.
4. Gcina ibanga elihle
Uma wena noshade naye nizame konke okusemandleni nabasekhweni lakho abangahloniphi, futhi kungekho lutho olusebenzayo, ungahlala uqhele kude nabo.
Ungakhetha ukukhuluma futhi uhlangane okuncane ngangokunokwenzeka. Noma kunini lapho udinga ukuhlangana nabasekhweni lakho abangahloniphi, qiniseka ukuthi awuhlangani nabo wedwa.
Zama ukubamba lapho kukhona oshade naye noma abanye abantu ukuthi awudingi ukuba nengxoxo engathandeki nabo.
Ungahlala uzama ukuhlonipha kubo, kepha ngokuqinisekile kungalahlekeli isithunzi sakho nenhlalakahle yengqondo. Uma noma nini lapho uzithola ulahlekelwa ukulinganisela kwengqondo, ngazo zonke izindlela, ungakhetha ukuhlala kude nabo.
5. Iya umzila okhokhelwayo
Uma ukubhekana nabasekhweni abangahloniphi kukukhipha, kungcono njalo ukufuna abeluleki abangochwepheshe noma usizo lwabelaphi.
Umeluleki angakuhlomisa ngamasu asebenzayo okubhekana nabasekhweni lakho ngaphandle kokuyekethisa ingqondo yakho.
Futhi, kungaba nezinkinga ezithile ezibucayi noma izinkinga zempilo eziyisisekelo ezingadala ukuthi abasekhweni lakho baziphathe ngendlela engenampilo noma ehluphayo.
Kulokhu, ungathatha usizo lomuntu oshade naye futhi unxenxe abasekhweni lakho ukuthi bazame ukwelulekwa noma ukuzelapha. Umelaphi uzokwazi ukufinyelela ezimpandeni zokuziphatha kwabo okunobuthi futhi abasize basebenze ngempumelelo.