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- 1. Hlela kusengaphambili
- 2. Ungavumeli ukucindezeleka kuthinte impilo yakho yokuphola
- 3. Phola ngokomqondo, ngokomzwelo nangokwenhlalo
- Ukudla okudlela endlini
Ukuze uqinise futhi ukhulise umshado wakho, kubalulekile ukuthi wazi kuqala futhi uhlolisise ukuthi uqhuba kanjani.
Ukuzama ukuchitha isikhathi sekhwalithi noshade naye kunzima, ngethembe ngiyazi. Phakathi komsebenzi, amashifu ahlukene, ukuqhuba ibhizinisi, ukusebenza sekwephuzile, ukuthenga ezitolo, ukulala, izingane, futhi empeleni ukhathele ngempela.
Kunzima ukuthola isikhathi sokumosha umkakho noma ukubhekelela umyeni wakho.
Kepha kuyadingeka futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ukuphola nokugcina inhlansi yakho iphila. Nginendodakazi eneminyaka emibili futhi inkulu kakhulu ukuyisingatha ngesikhathi. Ungangizweli, mhlawumbe nawe ubhekene nakho noma uzokuthola ngolunye usuku, ngakho-ke lungiselela isihogo esincane emhlabeni.
Kepha futhi angizukuthengisela izwe. Ube yisibusiso empilweni yami. Ungifundise ukubekezela, uthando, nokuthi ngidinga ukuhlala ngisesimweni esifanele uma ngifuna ukuhambisana nemilenze yakhe esheshayo.
Nawa amathiphu ama-3 wokuthi ungaqala kanjani ukuphola futhi, engeza inhlansi encane emshadweni wakho, futhi ujabulele isikhathi sakho sedwa (wink wink) nomlingani wakho.
1. Hlela kusengaphambili
Ngikholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi ukuhlela ubusuku bosuku kusengaphambili kubalulekile empumelelweni yomshado wakho. Futhi madoda, nani ningahola, akudingeki ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi nikushiyele kunkosikazi wenu ukuhlela ubusuku obuthile. Ungahlela izinsuku zakho amasonto kusengaphambili noma izinyanga.
Akudingeki ukuthi ibe nkulu kakhulu, idinga nje ukuthi ithule, ibe nokuthula, futhi ikhetheke. Nina nje yizinyoni ezimbili zothando.
Ungaya kuma-movie, uphume uyodla isidlo sakusihlwa, uhambe epaki ngenkathi udla u-ayisikhilimu noma iyogathi efriziwe, noma uye e-spa ndawonye bese ukhipha ingcindezi ngenkathi uphuza iwayini noma i-champagne emnandi. Noma yini ekusebenzelayo.
Njengoba ngishilo ngaphambili, akudingeki ukuthi kube yi-BIG, okudingayo ukuchitha isikhathi sekhwalithi esingaphazanyiswanga komunye nomunye. Futhi ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi lokhu kuyimpumelelo, qiniseka ukuthi uthola umuntu ogcina ingane, oyilungu lomndeni osondelene naye, noma onkulunkulu bezingane abazobuka ingane yakho ngenkathi uhamba nosuku lwakho.
Lokhu akudingeki ukuthi kube yinto yangempelasonto yonke, kepha xhumana nowakwakho niphume okungenani kabili ngenyanga, futhi nikwenze kube OKUKHETHEKILE! Njengoba isisho sithi, "ungalokothi uyeke ukuthandana nomkakho, futhi ungalokothi uyeke ukudlala ngothando nomyeni wakho."
2. Ungavumeli ukucindezeleka kuthinte impilo yakho yokuphola
Kwesinye isikhathi sivumela impilo yethu yansuku zonke ukuthi ithinte imishado yethu. Siletha umsebenzi ekhaya, ukucindezeleka ekhaya, ukukhungatheka ekhaya, intukuthelo ekhaya, nokukhathala ekhaya. Futhi asiyishiyi emnyango, siyiletha ngqo ekhaya lethu elinokuthula. Futhi kwesinye isikhathi kuthinta indlela esisabela nesiphendula ngayo kulowo esishade naye. Akufani nalokho ebesikuhlosile, kepha kwesinye isikhathi sivumela ukucindezeleka kudlule okulungile.
Yingakho ukuthandana kwesinye isikhathi kuye kube sengathi akunakwenzeka ngoba ngempelasonto konke esifuna ukukwenza ukulala, ukuphumula, ukuphumula!
Kepha asikwazi ukuvumela okwenzeka ngoMsombuluko kuze kube uLwesihlanu kuthinte izinhlelo zethu zempelasonto nomlingani wakho.
Ngiyabona ukuthi ingcindezi ingakhubaza amandla akho okujola nomkakho futhi uthande nowakwakho.
Kungakho ukuqomisana kubaluleke kangaka, kukunikeza isikhathi samahhala sokwazisa oshade naye, ukuthanda owakwakho, nokwazisa oshade naye, futhi kwesinye isikhathi konakalisa owakwakho.
Jabula ngobusuku besikhathi! Bafazi, thola ingubo entsha, qeda izinwele zakho nezinzipho zakho. Madoda phumani endlini, nqongqoze emnyango nenze sengathi nikhona ukuzomlanda. Yenza ubuciko! Spice up usuku lwakho impilo. Kuzothuthukisa umshado wakho.
3. Phola ngokomqondo, ngokomzwelo nangokwenhlalo
Lapho uzwa ibinzana elithi, “jola noshade naye” sicabanga ngokuzenzekelayo ukuthi kusho ukuthatha umlingani wakho niye naye endaweni yokudlela enhle, nisebenzise imali, bese nithandana noshade naye ukuze niphume ebusuku. Ngiqinisile? YEBO YIMI! - Kepha nathi kudingeka sithandane ngokomzwelo.
Uthandana kanjani ngokomqondo ubuza?
Uxhumana noshade naye, niba nezingxoxo ezijulile, nibuze imibuzo ejulile, futhi nihleke nabo. Ngabe umshado waba yisicefe nini?
Khulumani ngezinkumbulo ezimnandi nezikhathi ezimnandi ngenkathi nidla ndawonye isidlo sakusihlwa, niphuza itiye noma nithatha isidlo. Shaya impango yakhe ngenkathi esekhishini epheka isidlo sasekuseni (akulungile, ngumkakho), shaya isinqe sakhe ngenkathi egqoka noma eqa ukumanga okuthambile.
Yenza impilo yakho yothando ibe mnandi futhi ihluke. Madoda, nikwazi nokuphekela abafazi benu ekhaya, nilalele i-R & B Jazz Instrumental enhle (engiyithandayo), futhi sabelane ngemibono, ngemicabango nangemizwelo.
Ngaleso sikhathi sekhwalithi sizwakala njengezulu emhlabeni. Iphuzu ukuthi, awudingi ukuphuma ngaso sonke isikhathi ukujabulela ukuba khona koshade naye. Konke okudingayo isikhathi samahhala, indlu yamahhala, kanye nengqondo yokudala.
Kulungile ukucela i-godfather noma i-godmother ukuthi ibuke uTimmy omncane ngempelasonto ukuze uStella abuyiselwe i-groove yakhe. Yilokho onkulunkulukazi ababhalisele khona. Ngiqinisile? NGEMPELA NGIQINILE!
Ukudla okudlela endlini
Phola oshade naye ngenhloso, ngothando, nangezinhloso zangempela. Ungavumeli ukucindezeleka, izingxabano, noma izibopho zansuku zonke zikhubaze uthando lwakho nokuzibophezela kwakho. Thanda oshade naye, thandana noshade naye, futhi ukwazise ukuba khona kwabo nokusebenza kwabo kanzima.