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- Igama elithi narcissist livela enganekwaneni yasendulo yamaGrikhi
- Abayeki ukukhuluma ngabo ngokwabo
- Banomthunzi
- Bazizwa benelungelo lakho konke okubazungezile
- Abakwazi ukumelana nokwenqatshwa
- Wonke umuntu obazungezile uphansi
- I-narcissism ejwayelekile ilungile
Sonke sinabalingani abathandanayo abahlale beziqhayisa ngabo kanye nezinto eziningi abazifezile ezimpilweni zabo, kepha kwenzekani lapho izinto zihamba kancane ngokuziqhayisa?
Kunomehluko phakathi kokuba nohlobo olujwayelekile lwe-narcissism nokuba nesifo sobuntu se-narcissistic.
UMayo Clinic uchaza ukuphazamiseka kobuntu obenziwa yi-narcissistic (NDP) “njengesimo sengqondo lapho abantu benomoya wokuzibona bebalulekile, isidingo esikhulu sokubhekelwa ngokweqile nokubabazeka, ubudlelwano obunenkinga nokungabi nozwela kwabanye.”
IDiagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders ilinganisela ukuthi endaweni ethile phakathi kwamaphesenti ama-0,5 no-1 womphakathi jikelele unenkinga yobuntu obuthakathaka, iningi labantu abahlukumezekile ngabesilisa.
Igama elithi narcissist livela enganekwaneni yasendulo yamaGrikhi
Kuwo, umzingeli osemncane waseLaconia ogama lakhe linguNarcissus wajeziswa unkulunkulukazi uNemesis ngokuziphatha kwakhe okunengekayo.
Ngenkathi uNarcissus esehlathini, umqubuko wasentabeni obizwa nge-Echo wabona ubuhle bakhe futhi wasondela kuye, kodwa wavele wamxosha kuye. Inhliziyo ebuhlungu, i-nymph yaqala ukubuna, kwaze kwasala i-echo kuphela kuye.
Lapho unkulunkulukazi uNemesis ekubona lokhu, wanquma ukuheha uNarcissus echibini lapho wayezingela ngolunye usuku. Wathandana nomfanekiso wakhe echibini waphenduka waba yimbali emhlophe.
Ukusebenzelana nabakwa-narcissist kungumsebenzi onzima, futhi kungcono ukwazi eyodwa ngaphambi kokuthi ubhajwe kakhulu ebudlelwaneni nabo.
Ezigabeni zokuqala zobudlelwano bakho, isimilo sabo singabonakala sithandeka futhi sithandana, kepha lokho akufiki ngaphandle kokubamba.
Yize kunezindlela zokubhekana nazo namasu okwenza ukuthi basebenzisane nawe, sizobe sikhuluma kuphela ngezinkinga ezikhona obhekana nazo lapho ubhekene nomuntu ophethwe yi-narcissism.
Abayeki ukukhuluma ngabo ngokwabo
Okuwukuphela kwesihloko esisetafuleni lapho sisebenzelana nabakwa-narcissists ubuntu babo.
Uma uthandana nomuntu obiza ngama-narcissist, uzobona ukuthi abayeki ukukhuluma ngabo uqobo, ukuthi bakhulu kangakanani, bagqoka kanjani kamnandi, nokuthi badleni ngesidlo sasemini njll.
Bahlale bezama ukulawula ingxoxo, futhi ngokuvamile, bakhulume ngokwabo ngendlela ebabazekayo neyihaba ukuketula omunye ngenhloso.
Banomthunzi
Iningi lama-narcissists livame ukuziveza njengabaheha futhi liheha abalingani, ikakhulukazi uma uxhuma nabo futhi uzama ukunqoba.
Ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwabo, basebenzisa ezothando nezothando ukuze bathole abakufunayo kozakwethu. Lawa ngamathuluzi wabo kuphela okuthola ukunakwa okukhulu nokusebenzisa abanye abantu ukuze bazizuzele bona.
Bazizwa benelungelo lakho konke okubazungezile
Uma uphola i-narcissist, uzobona wonke umhlaba uzungeze bona.
AmaNarcissist ahlala elindele ukuthi abanye babaphathe ngezinga elingaphezu kwalokho okufanele. Zama ukunaka ukuthi umuntu othandana naye ubaphatha kanjani oweta endaweni yokudlela oyiyona noma u-bartender. Uma ubabona benza sengathi bangamakhosi omhlaba nabanye, lungela ukuzizwela ngokwakho.
Abakwazi ukumelana nokwenqatshwa
Abantu abahlushwa ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-narcissistic abakwazi ukuma benqatshelwe futhi basabele kabi lapho lokhu kwenzeka kubo.
Uma umlingani wakho eyi-narcissist, kungenzeka ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi uma ungabaniki abakufunayo bakunikeza ukuthula, babala ibanga labo elingokomzwelo kuwe, noma bakugcone.
Wonke umuntu obazungezile uphansi
Isici esandile sabakwa-narcissists be-pathological yisidingo sabo sokubeka abanye phansi ukuze baziphakamise ngaphezu kwabo.
Lapho uthandana nabakwa-narcissist, ungahle uthande ukunaka ukuthi ngaphandle kokuphoqelelwa kwezothando abazama ukukuyenga okokuqala lapho uhlangana nabo, bangephinde benze amahlaya angalungile-anolaka ngemvelaphi yakho yomndeni, indlela ophila ngayo, izingubo zakho njll. .
I-narcissism ejwayelekile ilungile
Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokwabelana nabanye ngezenzo zethu nangempumelelo yethu ngendlela enempilo nehlobene. Umoya womuntu udinga ukunconywa nokunakekelwa ngoba usisiza sisebenze nsuku zonke futhi silwele ukuphakama okusha nokufeziwe. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi umlingani wakho uhlushwa yi-pathological narcissism, zama ukukhuluma nabo futhi ubathole usizo lochwepheshe.