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- 1. Ungalokothi uvumele izinto zasemhlabeni zikuhlukanise
- 2. Xazulula izingxabano
- 3. Thandaza ndawonye
- 4. Thatha izinqumo ezinkulu ndawonye
- 5. Khonzani uNkulunkulu futhi nikhonzane
- 6. Gcina umshado wakho uyimfihlo
- 7. Hlela okulindelwe
Kunezinsizakusebenza eziningi zamaKristu alungele ukushada. Amasonto amaningi ahlinzeka ngezifundo zokwelulekwa nezokulungiselela imishado yamaKristu ezoba maduze ngaphandle kwenkokhiso noma ngemali ekhokhwayo.
Lezi zifundo ezisekelwe eBhayibhelini zizohlanganisa izihloko eziningana ezisiza ukulungiselela umbhangqwana ngamunye ezinselele nokwehluka okwenzeka ebudlelwaneni uma lezo zifungo sezishiwo.
Iningi lezihloko ezikhulunywa ngazo ziyefana nazo imibhangqwana yezwe okufanele ibhekane nayo.
Nawa amanye amathiphu wokulungiselela umshado wamaKristu ukusiza ekulungiseleleni umshado:
1. Ungalokothi uvumele izinto zasemhlabeni zikuhlukanise
Leli thiphu lokulungiselela umshado wamaKristu liyisifundo ekulawuleni imizwa. Izilingo zizovela kuzo zombili izinhlangothi. Ungavumeli izinto ezibonakalayo, imali, noma abanye abantu ukuba bahlukanise nina nobabili.
NgoNkulunkulu, nobabili ningahlala niqinile futhi niphike lezi zilingo.
2. Xazulula izingxabano
Kwabase-Efesu 4:26 kuthi, "Malingashoni ilanga nisathukuthele." Musa ukulala ungayilungisanga inkinga yakho futhi ungalokothi ushayane. Ukuphela kokuthintwa okuveziwe kufanele kube nothando kuphela ngemuva kwabo.
Thola izixazululo ezingxabanweni zakho ngaphambi kokuba zigxile engqondweni yakho bese zidala ezinye izinkinga ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
3. Thandaza ndawonye
Sebenzisa isikhathi sakho sokuzinikela nesikhathi sokuthandaza ukubopha. Ngokuchitha isikhathi ukhuluma noNkulunkulu ndawonye, uthatha amandla noMoya waKhe osukwini lwakho nasemshadweni wakho.
Imibhangqwana eshadile engamaKristu kufanele ifunde iBhayibheli ndawonye, ixoxe ngamavesi, futhi isebenzise lesi sikhathi ukusondelana kakhulu noNkulunkulu.
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4. Thatha izinqumo ezinkulu ndawonye
Umshado udinga umzamo omkhulu, isikhathi, nokubekezela, futhi uma ulandela izeluleko ezithile zokulungiselela umshado wamaKristu, ungenza inqubo yokwakha isisekelo esiqinile ibe lula.
Izithembiso zikaNkulunkulu zomshado zixhomeke ekukholweni kwakho kuJesu Kristu nokuzibophezela ekwenzeni umshado wakho usebenze.
Impilo igcwele izinqumo ezinzima maqondana nezingane, ezezimali, amalungiselelo okuphila, imisebenzi, njll futhi umbhangqwana kufanele uxoxe futhi uhlale ubumbene lapho uzenza.
Elinye iqembu alikwazi ukwenza isinqumo esikhulu ngaphandle kwelinye. Ayikho indlela esheshayo yokwenza ibanga ebuhlotsheni kunokuthatha izinqumo zodwa.
Lokhu kungukukhaphela ukwethembana. Thuthukisa ukuhloniphana nokwethembana ngokuzibophezela ekwenzeni izinqumo ezibalulekile ndawonye. Lokhu kuzokusiza nokuthi ugcine ubudlelwane bakho busobala komunye nomunye.
Thola ukuyekethisa lapho ungakwazi khona, futhi uthandaze ngakho lapho ungakwazi.
5. Khonzani uNkulunkulu futhi nikhonzane
Lesi seluleko sobuKristu sokulungiselela imishado siyisihluthulelo sokwenza ngcono nokusindisa umshado noma ubudlelwano. Umshikashika wezimpilo zethu zansuku zonke ungadala igebe phakathi kwakho nomlingani wakho.
Kodwa-ke, le mizabalazo ingasikhanyisela futhi ukuze siqonde ukuthi singawuqinisa kanjani umshado wethu.
Ukushada kuphela ukufuna uthando noma injabulo akusoze kwanela njengoba isikhathi lapho uthando nenjabulo kuhamba khona, singahle singamhloniphi umlingani wethu.
Izimfundiso zikaKristu neBhayibheli zibonisa ukuthi kufanele sithandazele oshade naye futhi sigxile ekuziqiniseni ngokukhuthaza kunokugxeka.
6. Gcina umshado wakho uyimfihlo
Lapho imibhangqwana eshadile engamaKristu ivumela abasekhweni nabasondelene nabo ukuba bangenele ezindabeni zabo, lapho-ke kungavela izinkinga eziningi. Lolu hlobo lokuphazamiseka lungenye yezingcindezi ezivamile zemibhangqwana emhlabeni wonke, ucwaningo lukhombisa.
Ungavumeli noma ngubani omunye ukuba aphazamise izinqumo wena nomlingani wakho okufanele nizenzele zona.
Ngisho umeluleki wakho uzokululeka ukuthi uzame ukuxazulula izinkinga zakho uwedwa.
Ukuxazulula izingxabano nezinkinga emshadweni wakho, ungalalela izeluleko zabanye abantu, kepha izwi lokugcina kufanele livele kuwe nakuzakwenu nodwa.
Uma kubonakala sengathi anikwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga zenu ninobabili, esikhundleni sokuphendukela kubasekhweni, funa ukwelulekwa kobuKristu ngemibhangqwana eshadile, noma ufunde izincwadi zemishado yamaKristu, noma uzame inkambo yomshado wamaKristu.
Umeluleki uzokunikeza iseluleko sangempela sokulungiselela imishado yobuKristu ngoba abanandaba nawe noma nobudlelwano bakho.
7. Hlela okulindelwe
Omunye umbulali wobudlelwano lapho othile emshadweni engajabule ngokuthi izinto zinjani.
Funda ukubona ngale kwalokho ongenakho futhi ufunde ukwazisa onakho. Indaba nje yokushintsha indlela ozibheka ngayo izinto.
Zazise izibusiso ezincane ozithola nsuku zonke, futhi uma uzogxila ezintweni ezinhle ezenzeka kuwo wonke umzuzu okuwo, uzobona ukuthi yizinto ezincane empilweni ezibalulekile.
Lesi ngesinye sezeluleko ezinhle kakhulu zokulungiselela imishado yamaKristu ezingeke zibe wusizo kuphela ebudlelwaneni bakho kepha nasempilweni yakho.
Futhi buka: Ukulindela komshado kuyinto engokoqobo.
Amagama wokugcina
Ukubandakanyeka komunye nomunye kanye nesonto yilokho okuzogcina izithandani ezingamaKristu ziqinile. Akunzima ukufeza umshado ophumelelayo; kuthatha umzamo omncane nje.
Gcina uNkulunkulu nomunye ezinhliziyweni zenu, futhi ngeke niphambuke empilweni eniyakhayo ndawonye.