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Isisulu sodlame lwasekhaya esifisa ukugqashula ebudlelwaneni obuhlukumezayo esibhekene nabo sibanikeza izithiyo labo abakwezinye izihlukaniso abanazo. Uma kukhona izingane zobudlelwano, izigxobo ziphakeme kakhulu. Isisulu sodlame lwasekhaya kufanele sibe nohlelo lokuphepha ngaphambi kokushiya umhlukumezi, ngoba lelo iphuzu lapho isisulu sisengozini enkulu, futhi uhlelo lokuphepha ludinga ukufaka ukucatshangelwa ngezingane.
Ilungiselela ukushiya ubudlelwano obunodlame
Impilo yesisulu sodlame lwasekhaya ngeyokwesaba nokuthukuthela, kwesisulu nakwezingane zamaqembu. Udlame lwasemndenini kuvame ukuba mayelana nokulawulwa kwesisulu. Imizamo evulekile yesisulu yokushiya ubudlelwano izolulaza lolo lawulo, okungadala ukuhlangana okunodlame. Ukugwema ukungqubuzana okunjalo, nokulungiselela impi engaba khona yokuthola ilungelo lokugcina, isisulu esinqume ukushiya ubudlelwano obunodlame kufanele senze amalungiselelo ngasese futhi silungiselele izinto ezithile ngaphambi kokushiya empeleni.
Ngaphambi kokushiya ubudlelwano, isisulu sodlame lwasekhaya kufanele sigcine imininingwane eningiliziwe yokuhlukunyezwa, kufaka phakathi usuku nobunjalo besigameko ngasinye, lapho senzeke khona, uhlobo lokulimala okutholakale, kanye nokwelashwa okutholakele. Ngokuphathelene nezingane, qopha sonke isikhathi osichitha nazo nokunakekelwa okunikezwa yisisulu kanye nomhlukumezi. Uma abathintekayo kamuva bengavumelani ngokugcinwa komntwana, inkantolo ingacubungula imininingwane evela kulawa marekhodi.
Isisulu kufanele futhi sibeke eceleni imali futhi sipake izinto ezithile, ezifana nezingubo zokugeza nezokugeza, senzele zona nezingane. Gcina lezi zinto kude nendawo yokuhlala okwabelwana ngayo nomhlukumezi futhi kwenye indawo umhlukumezi angacabangi ukubheka. Futhi, hlela indawo yokuhlala umhlukumezi angacabangi ukuthi ingabukeka, njengalowo osebenza naye umhlukumezi angamazi noma esendaweni yokukhosela. Uma kungenzeka, thintana nommeli noma uhlelo olusiza izisulu zodlame lwasekhaya ngokuthi ungasifaka kanjani isicelo somyalelo wokuvikelwa ngokushesha lapho ushiya ubudlelwano.
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Ukushiya ubudlelwano obuhlukumezayo
Lapho ekugcineni ethatha isinyathelo sokushiya ubudlelwano, isisulu kufanele sihambe nezingane noma siqiniseke ukuthi zisendaweni ephephile lapho umhlukumezi engeke azithole. Ohlukunyezwayo kufanele afake isicelo ngokushesha sokuvikelwa bese ecela inkantolo ukuthi igcinwe. Amarekhodi okuhlukumeza azoba wusizo ekumiseni inkantolo ukuthi umyalelo wokuvikela uyadingeka nokuthi ukugcinwa kufanele kube nomuntu ohlukunyeziwe ngaleso sikhathi. Ngenxa yokuthi umyalo wokuvikela onjalo uvamise ukuba ngowesikhashana, isisulu kufanele sikulungele ukuthi kulalelwe isikhathi esizayo lapho umhlukumezi ezoba khona. Izinyathelo eziqondile nesikhathi esithintekayo kunqunywa ngumthetho wezwe.
Yazi ukuthi ukuba khona komyalelo wokuvikela akusho ukuthi umhlukumezi ngeke avakashelwe, kepha isisulu singacela inkantolo ukuthi ikhiphe isinqumo sokuthi kuvakashelwe lokho. Ukuba nohlelo lokuvakashelwa okugadiwe, njengokuphakamisa umphathi nendawo engathathi hlangothi lapho ukuvakasha kungenzeka khona, kungaba wusizo.
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Qhubekela phambili
Ngemuva kokufuduka nezingane, qhubeka nokufuna usizo lwezomthetho ekuqedeni ubudlelwano ngokugcwalisa isehlukaniso, ukwehlukana ngokomthetho, noma ezinye izindlela zomthetho. Ezinhlelweni ezinjalo, inkantolo izophinde ibheke imiyalo efanele yokugcinwa kanye nokuvakashelwa kwezingane. Akuzwakali ukuthi umhlukumezi athole ilungelo lokugcina izingane, ngakho-ke ukuzilungiselela nokuba nokumelwa okufanele kwezomthetho kubalulekile. Izinkantolo zibheka izinto eziningana ekwenzeni umklomelo wokugcina ingane lapho kwakukhona udlame lwasekhaya ebudlelwaneni:
- Lwaludlangile futhi lubucayi kangakanani udlame lwasekhaya, futhi olungaba yinkomba yokuziphatha kwangakusasa komhlukumezi;
- Ukuthi izingane noma omunye umzali usengcupheni yokuhlukunyezwa ngokuqhubekayo ngumhlukumezi;
- Ukuthi amacala obugebengu asefakiwe yini kumhlukumezi;
- Uhlobo nobukhulu banoma yibuphi ubufakazi bodlame lwasekhaya, njengama-akhawunti abhaliwe noma izithombe;
- Imibiko yamaphoyisa ebhala ngodlame lwasekhaya;
- Ukuthi noma ngabe yiluphi udlame lwasekhaya lwenziwa phambi noma kwezingane noma lube nomthelela ezinganeni.
Udlame lwasekhaya lungathinta nokuhambela kwabahlukumezi nezingane. Izinkantolo zingadinga ukuthi umhlukumezi abambe iqhaza kubazali, ekulawuleni intukuthelo, noma emakilasini odlame lwasekhaya ngomzamo wokunqanda ezinye izehlakalo zokuhlukunyezwa. Imiphumela engaba nemikhawulo eminingi kungenzeka. Isibonelo, inkantolo ingakhipha incwadi evimbelayo noma umyalo wokuvikelwa, ongavumela noma angavumeli ukufinyelela okuqhubekayo komhlukumezi ezinganeni. Ezimweni ezimbi ngokwedlulele, inkantolo ingabuyekeza umyalo wokuvakasha ngokubeka umkhawulo ekufinyeleleni ezinganeni, idinga ukuthi konke ukuvakashelwa kubhekwe noma kubuyiswe namalungelo okuhambela kwabahlukumezi esikhathini esifushane noma sesikhathi eside.
Ngaphezu kokufuna ukuvikelwa ngemiyalo maqondana nelungelo lokugcina nelokuba ngumzali, ukwelulekwa nakho kungagunyazelwa isisulu kanye nezingane. Ukulimala ngokwengqondo ebudloveni basekhaya kuthinta isisulu uqobo kanye nezingane ezibone ukuhlukunyezwa. Ukwelulekwa kwesisulu kungasiza isisulu nezingane ziqhubekele phambili futhi zilulame futhi kungasiza isisulu ukuzilungiselela ukuba ngufakazi omuhle kakhulu enkantolo.
Uma uke waba yisisulu sodlame lwasekhaya futhi ufuna ukuzisusa wena nezingane zakho ebudlelwaneni obuhlukumezayo, xhumana nenye yezinsiza zakho zasendaweni noma zikazwelonke ngodlame lwasekhaya ukuthola abahlinzeki bezinsizakalo nezindawo zokukhosela eduze kwakho. Kuwukuhlakanipha futhi ukubonisana nommeli onelayisense esifundazweni sakho ongakunikeza iseluleko sezomthetho esenzelwe izimo zakho.
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