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- 1. Ungamjabulisa kanjani umkakho?
- 2. Ngicela ungamshintshi umyeni wakho!
- 3. Umkakho uzoshintsha
- 4. Yeka ukufunda lezo zinoveli zothando
- 5. Gcina amehlo akho ebheke phansi
- 6. Ungasitshela kanjani isikhathi
Kwakunomfana eminyakeni eminingi edlule owacela intombazane ukuba imshade. Intombazane yathi cha, futhi umfana wayenempilo ende, enenjabulo. Wayekwazi ukulala lapho ethanda, akekho owayenakekela indlu yangasese ayengagezwa, wayedlala iFIFA usuku lonke, ephuza ubhiya futhi enempilo enhle. Ungabi sína ngokweqile; siyadlala nje!
Ithiphu enhle kakhulu emshadweni ojabulisayo ukuphatha enye ingxenye yakho njengengane. Lokhu kungazwakala futhi kubonakale kungalungile kepha ngethembe kuyasebenza. Noma nini lapho umlingani wakho ecasula futhi enzima, mbhekele ukuthi uzobhekana kanjani neminyaka emihlanu ubudala. Kunzima ukuthola umlingani wakho ekhanga lapho kunamathani emisebenzi engenziwanga elinde yena ukuthi ayenze. Ngakho-ke, indlela engcono kakhulu ukubabheka njengengane! Sithembe uma sithi le thiphu ehlekisayo yomshado ojabulisayo iyasebenza ngempela!
Umshado uyisici esinzima kodwa esihle kakhulu empilweni. Akukona okokuvinjelwa nokulawulwa kodwa kunalokho ngokuvumela omunye nomunye enze izinto ezikwenza uhlanye. Kubalulekile ukudedela izinto. Kubalulekile ukuyeka ukwenza izintaba ngama-molehill. Futhi kubalulekile ukwenza isikhala samaphutha, ukuxolelwa nokuhleka okuningi. Awusoze walungisa omunye komunye, ngakho-ke into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukuvumela ukuba bahlale bengalungiswanga futhi bakwazi ukuphatha ukuthanda!
Sinezeluleko ezinhle kakhulu zomshado ojabulisayo, ake sizithole!
1. Ungamjabulisa kanjani umkakho?
Yebo, lokhu kungaba ithiphu elihle kakhulu elihlekisayo lomshado ojabulisayo: awukwazi. Lapho wamukela lokhu kusenesikhathi, kungcono. Ukuvumelana okuphelele komshado kutholakala kuphela lapho umfana ebona ukuthi uyohlala njalo ekulahlekelweni kwengxabano. Umkakho uyohlala eqinisile. Noma kunganjani.
2. Ngicela ungamshintshi umyeni wakho!
Le yinto yokuqala intombazane esanda kushada eqala ukuyenza. Ngicela ume. Umshadele lokho ayikho manje kungani ungazami ukuhlala nayo. Lokhu kungathathwa njengethiphu ehlekisayo yomshado ojabulisayo kepha ngokuqinisekile kubaluleke kakhulu. Uma uzama ukushintsha indoda oshade nayo iqala ukubalekela wena futhi awukufuni lokho.
3. Umkakho uzoshintsha
Uxolo ukukuphula kepha nansi enye iphuzu elihlekisayo lomshado ojabulisayo wakho. Yebo, kuyiqiniso ukuthi umkakho uzoshintsha. Ngeke ihlale intombazane enganaki, yasendle othandana nayo. Uzokhula avuthwe futhi aqale ukwenza izinqumo ezinengqondo. Kuyena, kuzohlala kunesikhathi esifanele sayo yonke into, futhi ungahle ungakuthandi lokhu kwesinye isikhathi. Phila nayo ngoba akukho lutho ongalwenza ngakho!
4. Yeka ukufunda lezo zinoveli zothando
Akasoze abe nguNowa kusuka encwadini yokubhalela kanye noHeathcliff waseWuthering Heights, ngakho-ke akunasisekelo ukuphupha nokufisa ngakho. Lesi yiseluleko esihle kakhulu esihlekisayo somshado ojabulisayo. Nobabili nihlala emhlabeni wangempela onezinkinga ezithile zangempela. Inoveli yothando ngeke iguqule noma ikulungise lokho.
5. Gcina amehlo akho ebheke phansi
Isikhathi sokuhlola abanye besifazane sesiphelile uma ngabe unkosikazi wakho engahambisani naso. Singakuqinisekisa ukuthi ngeke alunge ngayo. Akekho kwabesifazane ngaphandle lapho ozolunga uma umyeni wabo ehlola amanye amantombazane. Ngakho-ke zisindise enkingeni enkulu kakhulu bese ugcina lawo mehlo ephansi!
6. Ungasitshela kanjani isikhathi
Yebo, elinye icebo elihlekisayo lomshado ojabulisayo ukwazi ukuthi ungasitshela kanjani isikhathi. Uma umkakho ekubuza ukuthi kufanele uhambe nini mtshele okungenani ihora ngaphambi kwesikhathi sangempela. Sithembe uma sisho lokhu. Sebenzisa lokhu, futhi uzobe ukhululekile. Intombazane ayikaze ilunge ngesikhathi, ngakho-ke udinga ukuyinika leyo minithi engamashumi ayisithupha eyengeziwe ukuthola lelo liner kahle nalawo ma-curls aphelele. Futhi lapho ekutshela, ukuthi uzobe esekhaya ngo-11 ebusuku ngobusuku babafana akwenzile lokho i-1 am. Uma uphume nabafana ngokwemvelo ukulahlekelwa isikhathi.
Ukugoqa
Lezi ngezinye zezeluleko ezinhle kakhulu zomshado ezijabulisayo zomshado ojabulisayo. Zama ukukusebenzisa kokwakho, futhi nakanjani bazokusiza. Yonke imibhangqwana nayo yonke imishado yehlukile iyodwa, futhi ngosizo oluncane, ingahamba ibanga elide kalula!