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Ibhalansi. Wonke umuntu uyayifuna, kepha ababaningi abangayifinyelela. Ukuthola ibhalansi empilweni kungenye yezinto ezinzima kakhulu izithandani ezizama ukuzenza. Impilo imatasa, akubonakali kunamahora anele ngosuku, futhi uhlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe luqhubeka lubonakala lukhula.
Lapho silahlekelwa umbono wezinto ezibalulekile empilweni futhi siqala ukugxila kakhulu ezintweni ezingasho lutho, kuphazamisa ibhalansi bese sizithola sesiqeda izinsuku zethu sizizwa sikhathele futhi siphelile amandla. Siphinde sizithole sesicasulwa futhi singacabangi kubalingani bethu noma emindenini yethu. Siqala ukudlula nje ngokunyakaza futhi izinsuku ziqala ukuhlangana. Ngokwengeziwe, ukungabi nokulinganisela empilweni nakho kungashiya umuntu ezizwa ecindezelekile noma ekhathazekile. Uma lokhu kuzwakala njengawe, awuwedwa! Ukuzizwa ukhungathekile ngezibopho zempilo kuwumuzwa ojwayelekile phakathi kwabantu nabashadikazi emphakathini wethu. Ngenhlanhla, akukaze kwephuze kakhulu ukwenza ushintsho ukuze uzithuthukise wena nekhwalithi yakho yempilo.
Ngezansi kukhona ezinye zezinyathelo ezilawulwayo, nokho ezibalulekile ongazithatha ukuqala ukusebenzela ukulinganisela empilweni yakho.
1. Izinto eziza kuqala
Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu umuntu angayenza ukubeka phambili izibopho ezimpilweni zakhe. Noma ngabe kubeka phambili izibopho zomsebenzi wabo, impilo yomphakathi, izingane kanye nomndeni, izibopho ezihlobene nomndeni, yebo, ngisho nabalingani babo.
Imibhangqwana kufanele icabange ngezinhlelo zayo ezimatasa futhi ibone lapho kunendawo khona "yokuvumela izinto zihambe". Mhlawumbe awuzenzi zonke izitsha ngobusuku obubodwa bese ubuka ibhayisikobho ndawonye. Mhlawumbe uthi "cha" embuthanweni wokuzijabulisa ngempelasonto bese uphumule ekhaya. Mhlawumbe uvikela umzanyana ukuba aphumule ubusuku esikhundleni sokufunda indaba efanayo yokulala ephindaphinda. Mhlawumbe u-oda ukukhipha ubusuku obubodwa esikhundleni sokupheka ubusuku besi-5 zilandelana ukuze uzinike ikhefu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ngokubeka phambili phambili ukwazi ukuthi yini ebaluleke kakhulu kuwena noshade naye. Yonke imibhangqwana yehlukile futhi konke okubekwa phambili yizithandani nakho kuzohluka. Woza nohlu lwezinto ndawonye owaziyo ukuthi awuthandi ukuyekelela kuzo bese ezinye zivumelana nezimo. Lapho uqala ukubeka phambili izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu uma kuqhathaniswa nokubeka phambili konke okuzwayo kuwe isidingo ukwenza, impilo izoqala ukubonakala ingakhathazeki kakhulu.
2. Khumbula ukuthi ungubani
Izikhathi eziningi imibhangqwana iyakhohlwa ukuthi ingabantu abangaphandle kwezithandani / umndeni onamandla. Khumbula ngenkathi usungumuntu wakho NGAPHAMBI kokuba ube nomlingani nezingane? Buyela emuva kwezinye zalezo zingqondo ezifanayo. Mhlawumbe ubulokhu ufuna ukuzama isigaba se-yoga. Mhlawumbe kukhona umdlalo wokuzilibazisa noma intshisekelo obukade ufuna ukuyihlola kepha ungazizwa ukuthi unaso isikhathi. Mhlawumbe kukhona i-movie entsha ofuna ukuyibuka.
Umqondo wokwenza noma yini uwedwa ungabonakala uthusa. “Asikho nje isikhathi!” “Kodwa izingane!” “Angikwazi ukucabanga!” “Abantu bebengacabangani!” zonke izinto ezingangena engqondweni yakho lapho ufunda lokhu nalokhu kulungile! Khumbula nje, uyingxenye ebalulekile yobudlelwano kanye / noma namandla omndeni futhi udinga ukuzinika isikhathi. Uma ubeka phambili yonke into nabo bonke abanye ngaphezu kwakho, ngeke ube yinguqulo yakho engcono kakhulu ezindimeni ezahlukahlukene oziphethe.
3. Nciphisa imithombo yezokuxhumana
Ezweni lapho yonke into itholakala kalula ezandleni zethu, kunzima ukungaziqhathanisi izimpilo zakho nezinye. Imithombo yezokuxhumana, yize imangalisa ngezindlela eziningi, nayo ingabonakala njengengcindezi ebudlelwaneni futhi icasule ibhalansi. Ungathola ukuthi uqala ukungabaza isimo sakho sobudlelwano, amandla omndeni wakho, ngisho nenjabulo yakho ngemuva kokugoqa okufushane nge-Facebook. Lokhu kungaqala nokudala ukungezwani ebudlelwaneni njengoba omunye umlingani engaqala ukufaka ingcindezi komunye futhi ungaqala ukuzama ukufeza nokuzuza izinto okholelwa kuzo kufanele have vs. okusebenza empeleni ezimpilweni zakho.
Kulula ukuzizwa sengathi impilo yakho ayikhazimuli noma ayijabulisi njengomuntu ojwayelene naye ovele wathatha uhambo oluya eBahamas nomndeni wabo omomothekayo. Kodwa-ke, lokho izithombe ezingakubonisi ngemuva kokukhanya kwelanga nokumamatheka yiziqubu ezisendizeni, ukushiswa yilanga, nokukhathala nengcindezi yokuhamba. Abantu bathumela kuphela lokho abafuna abanye bakubone. Okuningi okwabelwana ngakho kumasayithi wezokuxhumana kumane kuyisiqalo seqiniso lomuntu. Uma usuyekile ukuqhathanisa impilo yakho neyabanye futhi uyeka ukubeka injabulo yakho kulokho ocabanga ukuthi injabulo ibukeka ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, uzoqala ukuzwa sengathi kususwe isisindo.
Ngeke siphinde sibe nesikhathi esanele sokwenza konke. Uhlu lwakho lwezinto okufanele zenziwe luzoqhubeka lukhule futhi ungahle ungakwenzi konke ngesikhathi esibekiwe obukade usilindele. Ungadebeselela izibopho ezithile noma ngisho nabantu ezimpilweni zakho. Futhi uyazi ini? Kulungile! Ukulinganisela kusho ukuthola indawo ephakathi nendawo, hhayi ukuxegisa kakhulu ngapha nangapha. Uma wena noshade naye nikhathazeke ngekhono lenu lokwenza ushintsho futhi nithole ibhalansi, cabanga ukwelulekwa kwezithandani njengendlela yokuqala ukusebenzela le nhloso.